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Vanessa Marin Quotes

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“Keep reminding that she looks, smells, and tastes amazing at each step of the process. The more at ease she feels, the more she’ll be able to enjoy herself.”
— Vanessa Marin, How To Go Down On A Girl For The First Time, In 7 Sexy Steps
Tagged: Oral Sex, compliments, Comfort
“If you want even more of a trial run before doing anything physical, try flirting with women out in public or putting a profile up on an online dating site. See how taking these additional steps makes you feel.”
— Vanessa Marin, How To Experiment With Another Girl: Tips For Exploring Bi-Curiosity For the First Time
Tagged: Lesbian, Flirting, Dating sites
“For a longer respite, you can rub his dick over your lips, face, or breasts.”
— Vanessa Marin, Everything You Need to Know to Give Earth-Shattering Blowjobs
Tagged: Body Parts, blowjob, penis, breasts
“Side by side. This is another great shallow penetration position that doesn’t allow for much thrusting. It’s also very close and intimate. It’s a good position to use to take a little break and reconnect with each other.”
— Vanessa Marin, The 7 Best Sex Positions To Help Him Last Longer in Bed, Because Really, Can You Blame Him?
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, sex positions, penetration
“Even when you’re with a loving and trusted partner, initiating sex is incredibly vulnerable.”
— Vanessa Marin, How to Initiate Sex With Your Partner Without Feeling Awkward
Tagged: Sex, chemistry, Love, Love And Sex
“Use one finger to run circles around your clitoris, without touching it directly.”
— Vanessa Marin, How To Masturbate, Female Style: 8 Steps To Having Orgasms (Without a Vibrator)
Tagged: masturbation, circles, clitoris
“Send each other naughty texts. Send voice recordings of you reading erotica out loud. Skype each other while you masturbate, or play a round of online strip poker.”
— Vanessa Marin, 12 Ways To Keep Your Long Distance Relationship Happy
Tagged: Long Distance, Sexts, erotica, masturbation
“Perhaps he would feel more comfortable if he knew that you promised not to tell anyone about it (not even your bff), or if the two of you explored in the shower (for easy, unembarrassing clean-up).”
— Vanessa Marin, How To Touch A Guy's Taint & Bum When He's Nervous About The Idea
Tagged: rimming, anal, Secrets
“Start with the old hand-in-the-back-pocket move when you guys are hanging out at home, and give him a few squeezes.”
— Vanessa Marin, How To Touch A Guy's Taint & Bum When He's Nervous About The Idea
Tagged: rimming, butt, Squeezing
“Spooning. This position creates shallow penetration, so he won’t get overstimulated. It also forces you to move slowly and subtly, since he’s likely to fall out if he gets too enthusiastic.”
— Vanessa Marin, The 7 Best Sex Positions To Help Him Last Longer in Bed, Because Really, Can You Blame Him?
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, sex positions, spooning
“Fantasizing is normal and healthy, the important thing is that we're honest about how it impacts our real-world sex life.”
— Vanessa Marin, I'm Straight, But Fantasize About Lesbian Sex When I'm With Men
Tagged: Sex, Fantasy, Sex and Love
“Be prepared for clean-up. As mentioned above, there may be some blood involved. There may also be lots of bodily fluids that are rapidly sliding their way out of your orifices. Have a box of Kleenex or a towel nearby.”
— Vanessa Marin, The Adult's Guide to Losing Your Virginity
Tagged: Virgins, cleaning, towels, tissues
“The testicles are often criminally neglected during oral. As soon as you feel comfortable with your basic technique, start paying some attention to his balls. You can do this with either your hand or your mouth.”
— Vanessa Marin, Everything You Need to Know to Give Earth-Shattering Blowjobs
Tagged: Sex, Head, Blow Jobs
“Try sitting cross-legged between his legs, while he lies flat on his back. Or have him drape his legs over the side of the bed, while you kneel on the floor between his feet.”
— Vanessa Marin, The 10 Best Hand Job Tips To Remember Next Time You Want To Take Him For A Ride
Tagged: Hand Job, Position, positioning
“Good lingerie is an extremely underrated self-esteem booster. You want to feel excited about your partner seeing what you have on under your clothes!”
— Vanessa Marin, 7 Ways To Feel Better Naked and Feel More Comfortable With Your Body in Bed, Because Life's Too Short To Be Insecure
Tagged: Feel Good Naked, lingerie, Underwear
“Sitting in a chair. This is another position that can be a good alternative to doggy-style. You still get the rear entry, but since you’re in charge of the pace and depth, he can’t get carried away.”
— Vanessa Marin, The 7 Best Sex Positions To Help Him Last Longer in Bed, Because Really, Can You Blame Him?
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, sex positions, doggy style
“Try moving your tongue around on the underside of his penis while you do your basic up-and-down maneuver.”
— Vanessa Marin, Everything You Need to Know to Give Earth-Shattering Blowjobs
Tagged: Body Parts, blowjob, penis, Sex, Oral Sex, blowjobs, technique, How To, fellatio, After Hours, Lifehacker
“There are also some great new sex toys that can make the distance not seem like such a big factor. They're Bluetooth-enabled, which means you can use them even when you're separated.”
— Vanessa Marin, 12 Ways To Keep Your Long Distance Relationship Happy
Tagged: Long Distance, sex toys, electronics
“I want to encourage you not to think about technique too much as you’re kissing. Try to get out of your head and stop analyzing what you’re doing in the moment.”
— Vanessa Marin, How To Kiss Someone Well, In 8 Tongue-Tying Steps
Tagged: Kissing, kiss, Thinking, live in the moment
“Do the basic stroke with your hand and mouth, but turn your wrist back and forth as you move up and down.”
— Vanessa Marin, Everything You Need to Know to Give Earth-Shattering Blowjobs
Tagged: Blow Jobs, Sex, Head
“Engaging in cunnilingus means letting someone get up close and personal with your business.”
— Vanessa Marin, How to Ask Your Partner for Oral Sex
Tagged: oral, Oral Sex, Sex, sexuality
“Be sure to pee afterwards! Bacteria can get pushed into your urethra during any sort of sexual contact. You do not want to celebrate losing your virginity with a nasty UTI.”
— Vanessa Marin, The Adult's Guide to Losing Your Virginity
Tagged: Virgins, Pee, bathroom, Bacteria, UTI
“Start by exploring the idea of hooking up with another woman using your imagination. This may sound like an overly simplistic piece of advice, but it can be quite useful.”
— Vanessa Marin, How To Experiment With Another Girl: Tips For Exploring Bi-Curiosity For the First Time
Tagged: Lesbian, Fantasies, masturbation
“Gently slap his penis on your tongue. This is a good move to try if your jaw needs a little break.”
— Vanessa Marin, Everything You Need to Know to Give Earth-Shattering Blowjobs
Tagged: Body Parts, blowjob, penis
“A great way to get a sense of what she likes is to start tracing your tongue in a wide circle around her clitoris, without touching it. Slowly work your way closer to the clit, then eventually do circles on top of the clit. See what she responds to, or ask her where she likes it best.”
— Vanessa Marin, How To Go Down On A Girl For The First Time, In 7 Sexy Steps
Tagged: Oral Sex, clitoris, licking
“One of the realities of casual sex is that the more time you spend together, the easier it is to become attached. It’s natural to develop feelings for someone with whom you’re spending a lot of time. You may want to consider not to seeing your sexual partner more than a couple of times a month.”
— Vanessa Marin, Can You Have Casual Sex Without Feelings? 9 Ways To Keep It No-Strings When You Tend To Get Attached
Tagged: Casual Sex, Time, Distance
“I’m not going to let you come until you beg me for permission.”
— Vanessa Marin, 50 Example Sexting Ideas You Can Use Right Now
Tagged: sexting, dirty talk, Begging, Sexting Examples For Him, Sexting Examples For Him
“Girl on top. Have him lie on his back. Climb on top, with one leg on either side of his torso. It’s usually better to focus more on rocking your body back and forth, rather than trying to bob up and down. You can also try grinding your pelvis in slow circles or in a figure-eight motion.”
— Vanessa Marin, The 5 Best Sex Positions For Female Orgasm, Because There Is Nothing Wrong With You
Tagged: Best Sex Positions, Sex
“Try wetting your finger with her vaginal juices, then slowly easing it into her. You can move your hand in and out, or make a ‘come here’ motion that will stroke her G-spot. You can also use a finger to trace the folds of her labia, or use your hands to pull her labia further apart, or to stroke her thighs or breasts.”
— Vanessa Marin, How To Go Down On A Girl For The First Time, In 7 Sexy Steps
Tagged: Oral Sex, penetration, g-spot
“I want you to tease me until I can’t take it any longer.”
— Vanessa Marin, 50 Example Sexting Ideas You Can Use Right Now
Tagged: sexting, dirty talk, teasing, Sexting Examples For Him, Sexting Examples For Him
“Let me be real with you: your first time is probably going to be short (if there’s a penis involved), a little awkward, and not particularly fantastic. It will feel like there are an awful lot of limbs involved and no good place to put any of them.”
— Vanessa Marin, The Adult's Guide to Losing Your Virginity
Tagged: Virgins, short, penis, confusing
“If intercourse is proving to be too difficult for you, you can try taking it off the table for casual hook-ups. You can still have a ton of fun without having intercourse. You may find it easier to stay emotionally detached if you stick with less intimate activities.”
— Vanessa Marin, Can You Have Casual Sex Without Feelings? 9 Ways To Keep It No-Strings When You Tend To Get Attached
Tagged: Casual Sex, Intercourse, Making Out, Intimacy
“If you’ve never had an orgasm before, you may find it easier to have your first one with a vibrator. If you’re regularly able to orgasm in other ways, you may find your orgasms to be much more intense when they’re coming from a vibrator.”
— Vanessa Marin, A Newcomers Guide to Masturbating with a Vibrator
Tagged: vibrator, orgasm, masturbation, Sex, sex toys, Vibrators, shopping guide, orgasm, masturbation, Health, After Hours, Lifehacker
“One of the best investments you can make is a cheap dimmer switch and soft light bulbs, which are much more flattering than your typical harsh overhead lighting. Or you can buy a small bedside lamp or candles. Don’t forget to put on music that makes you feel confident and sexy.”
— Vanessa Marin, 7 Ways To Feel Better Naked and Feel More Comfortable With Your Body in Bed, Because Life's Too Short To Be Insecure
Tagged: Feel Good Naked, lights, Lighting, candles
“It’s so hot to imagine you tying me up.”
— Vanessa Marin, 50 Example Sexting Ideas You Can Use Right Now
Tagged: sexting, dirty talk, bondage, Sexting Examples For Him, Sexting Examples For Him
“In general, most women masturbate by stimulating their clitorises. Research has found that women are most likely to reach orgasm by stroking diagonally across the clitoris. Women usually need a fair amount of time to warm up, and require repetitive, consistent stimulation to climax.”
— Vanessa Marin, How To Masturbate, Female Style: 8 Steps To Having Orgasms (Without a Vibrator)
Tagged: masturbation, clitoris, stimulation
“Tap your clitoris with one or two fingers.”
— Vanessa Marin, How To Masturbate, Female Style: 8 Steps To Having Orgasms(Without a Vibrator)
Tagged: masturbation, clitoris, tapping, fingers
“I suggest using your vibrator in conjunction with lube, which will help your toy glide gently across your clitoris instead of tugging at it. If you have a silicone toy, you want to avoid silicone lubes, which can break down your new purchase.”
— Vanessa Marin, A Newcomers Guide to Masturbating with a Vibrator
Tagged: vibrator, lube, silicone
“The best kisses involve your entire bodies, not just your lips! Wrap your arms around your partner’s body, or stroke their arms, shoulders, and back with your hands. Press your body up against theirs. Hold their face in your hands, or run your hands through their hair. You can also take little breaks from their lips to kiss their necks or ears. Use your body to create some variety.”
— Vanessa Marin, How To Kiss Someone Well, In 8 Tongue-Tying Steps
Tagged: Kissing, kiss, Variety, hands, Body
“With his taint (more properly known as the perineum). This is the entire zone between his anus and his balls (if it ain't the balls and it ain't the anus, it's the taint). It’s not an area that typically gets a ton of attention, but there are a number of nerve endings there. Plus, the sensation somewhat resembles anal play, so it’s a good introduction.”
— Vanessa Marin, How To Touch A Guy's Taint & Bum When He's Nervous About The Idea
Tagged: rimming, Perineum, balls
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