Sideways Straddle. This is a somewhat complicated position to get into, but it’s well worth the effort! You may want to practice fully clothed to get a sense of where all of your limbs go before attempting it naked. Have him lie on his back with both of his feet flat on the ground. Crouch over him,…
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Sideways Straddle. This is a somewhat complicated position to get into, but it’s well worth the effort! You may want to practice fully clothed to get a sense of where all of your limbs go before attempting it naked. Have him lie on his back with both of his feet flat on the ground. Crouch over him,…
Girl on top. Have him lie on his back. Climb on top, with one leg on either side of his torso. It’s usually better to focus more on rocking your body back and forth, rather than trying to bob up and down. You can also try grinding your pelvis in slow circles or in a figure-eight motion.
Use one finger to run circles around your clitoris, without touching it directly.
In general, most women masturbate by stimulating their clitorises. Research has found that women are most likely to reach orgasm by stroking diagonally across the clitoris. Women usually need a fair amount of time to warm up, and require repetitive, consistent stimulation to climax.
Women masturbate in a lot of different ways, but a lot of my clients have found it useful to get a sense of what the process tends to entail. In general, most women masturbate by stimulating their clitorises. Research has found that women are most likely to reach orgasm by stroking diagonally across…
Women masturbate in a lot of different ways, but a lot of my clients have found it useful to get a sense of what the process tends to entail. In general, most women masturbate by stimulating their clitorises. Research has found that women are most likely to reach orgasm by stroking diagonally across…
Try wetting your finger with her vaginal juices, then slowly easing it into her. You can move your hand in and out, or make a ‘come here’ motion that will stroke her G-spot. You can also use a finger to trace the folds of her labia, or use your hands to pull her labia further apart, or to stroke her…
A great way to get a sense of what she likes is to start tracing your tongue in a wide circle around her clitoris, without touching it. Slowly work your way closer to the clit, then eventually do circles on top of the clit. See what she responds to, or ask her where she likes it best.
Keep reminding that she looks, smells, and tastes amazing at each step of the process. The more at ease she feels, the more she’ll be able to enjoy herself.
I want to encourage you not to think about technique too much as you’re kissing. Try to get out of your head and stop analyzing what you’re doing in the moment.
The best kisses involve your entire bodies, not just your lips! Wrap your arms around your partner’s body, or stroke their arms, shoulders, and back with your hands. Press your body up against theirs. Hold their face in your hands, or run your hands through their hair. You can also take little…
One of the most basic ways that people mess up kissing is by going to extremes with the amount of pressure they use. Some people are way too forceful with their kisses, and wind up bumping teeth, pushing their partner backwards, or coming off as aggressive. Other people are shy and timid, and their…
For a longer respite, you can rub his dick over your lips, face, or breasts.
Gently slap his penis on your tongue. This is a good move to try if your jaw needs a little break.
Try moving your tongue around on the underside of his penis while you do your basic up-and-down maneuver.
Do the basic stroke with your hand and mouth, but turn your wrist back and forth as you move up and down.
The testicles are often criminally neglected during oral. As soon as you feel comfortable with your basic technique, start paying some attention to his balls. You can do this with either your hand or your mouth.