“Nobody can stop you but you. You need to get rid of those excuses and stop pointing fingers at other people.”— Eric Thomas, twitter.com
“Suck on his finger, flick your tongue around it, and nibble on it until he gasps.”— Love Panky, lovepanky.com
“Circle your fingers starting from the outer edge of his palm, slowly progressing towards the centre. Gently press the webs with your thumb and forefinger to ease his tension and see him go crazy.”— Kanika Kothari, bollywoodshaadis.com
“Warm up your erogenous zones with your own fingers. Not only will this smooth your transition to the more intense buzzing of a vibrator, but it will also re-familiarize you with your personal anatomy.”— Hannah Cutts, empowher.com
“Take one of his fingers into your mouth and suck gently on it. Slide it in and out. For some reason, this makes dudes freak out.”— Jillian Paulson, thoughtcatalog.com
“Try running one or two fingers up and down the length of his penis. Using the middle three fingers on both hands, gently press at the base of the penis, moving your hands around the circle like the face of a clock.”— Your Tango, yourtango.com
“Having (essentially) a rod like thing thrust in and out of you is good, don’t get me wrong, but usually the curl of a perfectly placed finger is much, much better, as you probably know or can imagine.”— Kate Bailey, thoughtcatalog.com
“Get those nail clippers out NOW. See those 'lesbians' in porn films? I'm pretty sure 90% of their million-decibel screams and moans are because their co-star has snagged a crimson talon somewhere the sun don't shine.”— Charlotte Dingle, cosmopolitan.co.uk
“Finger kiss. Gently suck on one of your partner’s fingers. Very seductive. Very pleasurable.”— Twoology, twoology.com
“You can also try using your thumb and forefinger to almost mimic the motion of manual stimulation of a penis, though many people find this to be tiring and slightly awkward, depending on the size and location of your clitoris.”— Katy Thorn, lelo.com
“Find a seated position that is comfortable and allows you access between your legs, and use your finger to "draw" a circle around your clitoris. Start slow, and depending on your speed and reaction, increase speed and pressure. If the "O" shape isn't doing it for you, try tracing the letters of the…”— Anna Borges, womenshealthmag.com
“This is by far the simplest technique, and it's all in the flick of a finger. To get set up, you need to lie down on your back and get comfortable. You're going masturbate using only one finger. Rather than just touching and rubbing yourself, make only the slightest amount of contact with your genit…”— Sean Jameson, yourtango.com
“Slide a finger between your lips to open things up and then get a little lube on your finger tips if more slickness would feel good. Slide your fingers back and forth from your vaginal opening to your clit. Don't go inside yet, just tease yourself a bit. Try a stroke that is one finger at a time and…”— Rachel Venning, cosmopolitan.com