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50 Tips For Using Your Vibrator To Have Super Intense Orgasms

If you’ve never had an orgasm before, you may find it easier to have your first one with a vibrator.
Holly Riordan
February 8, 2017
“Start by turning it on and playing around with the settings so that you can get an idea of how intense it vibrates. If you're already turned on, then you'll notice how pleasurable it feels just holding it in your hand while it's vibrating.”
— Sean Jameson, How To Use A Vibrator For The Most Intense Orgasms Of Your Life
Tagged: vibrator, turned on, Pleasure
“You should find somewhere quiet, where you aren't going to be disturbed. Make sure you're relaxed and comfortable and suitably turned on. Different people need to do different things to turn themselves on. Some need to watch porn, some need to read some erotica or a romance novel, while others need nothing more than their imagination. The key is doing what you need to do to get aroused. Don't rely solely on the vibrator to turn you on.”
— Sean Jameson, How To Use A Vibrator For The Most Intense Orgasms Of Your Life
Tagged: vibrator, turned on, Porn, erotica
“Bring the vibrator down to your groin area and start running it over yourself and pay close attention to what feels best. In a way, you will now be teasing yourself with the vibrator. If you then want to increase the pleasure, you can start bringing the vibrator closer and closer to your clitoris.”
— Sean Jameson, How To Use A Vibrator For The Most Intense Orgasms Of Your Life
Tagged: vibrator, clitoris, Pleasure
“Warm up your erogenous zones with your own fingers. Not only will this smooth your transition to the more intense buzzing of a vibrator, but it will also re-familiarize you with your personal anatomy.”
— Hannah Cutts, 8 Tips for Using Your Vibrator the First Time
Tagged: vibrator, masturbation, fingers
“You can allow the vibrator to slip inside your vagina, simulating sexual intercourse (but with a buzz). Return to your vibrator’s lowest setting and insert the tip into your vagina slowly, never pushing so far that you feel uncomfortable or lose your grip on the toy.”
— Hannah Cutts, 8 Tips for Using Your Vibrator the First Time
Tagged: vibrator, Vagina, Intercourse
“Press the vibrator against your clitoris while your partner continues his/her thrusting motion. Or switch things up and insert the vibrator inside your vagina while your partner provides manual or oral stimulation to the clitoris.”
— Hannah Cutts, 8 Tips for Using Your Vibrator the First Time
Tagged: vibrator, Sex, Vagina
“If you’ve never had an orgasm before, you may find it easier to have your first one with a vibrator. If you’re regularly able to orgasm in other ways, you may find your orgasms to be much more intense when they’re coming from a vibrator.”
— Vanessa Marin, A Newcomers Guide to Masturbating with a Vibrator
Tagged: vibrator, orgasm, masturbation, Sex, sex toys, Vibrators, shopping guide, orgasm, masturbation, Health, After Hours, Lifehacker
“In purchasing your first vibrator, my first recommendation is that you make an investment. You may be tempted to buy something cheap if you’ve never used a sex toy before, but I really think you’re better served saving up your pennies to buy a high-quality product. More money typically buys more thoughtful design, a more powerful and durable motor, and body-safe materials. You won’t regret it.”
— Vanessa Marin, A Newcomers Guide to Masturbating with a Vibrator
Tagged: vibrator, First Vibrator, sex toys
“I suggest using your vibrator in conjunction with lube, which will help your toy glide gently across your clitoris instead of tugging at it. If you have a silicone toy, you want to avoid silicone lubes, which can break down your new purchase.”
— Vanessa Marin, A Newcomers Guide to Masturbating with a Vibrator
Tagged: vibrator, lube, silicone
“Always start on a low setting and work your way up. If a vibrator feels too strong at first you can put a towel between you and the vibrator, or just press it lightly against your body.”
— Cory Silverberg, Batteries Not Included: How to Use a Vibrator
Tagged: vibrator, towel, Settings
“If your vibrator has a point or an edge try touching yourself with the finest point of the vibrator. Next put the widest or flattest part of your vibrator against your body. When you focus on one point, the vibrations can feel more intense than when the vibration is being dispersed around a wider area.”
— Cory Silverberg, Batteries Not Included: How to Use a Vibrator
Tagged: vibrator, sex toys, masturbation
“Get in the habit of taking your batteries out of the vibrator each time your finished using it. If you leave the batteries in, the vibrator may turn on to a very low speed (or you may leave it on low without knowing it) and this can both burn out the motor and make for some embarrassing moments when everyone at dinner is wondering where that buzzing is coming from.”
— Cory Silverberg, Batteries Not Included: How to Use a Vibrator
Tagged: vibrator, Batteries, Buzzing
“Have your partner slowly run your vibrator up and down your upper thighs, getting close to your clitoris but not quite touching it.”
— Korin Miller, 9 New Ways to Orgasm with a Vibrator
Tagged: vibrator, Sex, foreplay
“Your neck is an erogenous zone, too, so take advantage. Lie back on your bed, close your eyes, and lightly run your vibe up and down one of side of your neck before switching to the other side.”
— Korin Miller, 9 New Ways to Orgasm with a Vibrator
Tagged: vibrator, neck, erogenous zones
“Lie down in bed, and put a few pillows under your butt to prop yourself up. While your guy is giving you oral, run your vibe back and forth across your nipples.”
— Korin Miller, 9 New Ways to Orgasm with a Vibrator
Tagged: vibrator, nipples, Oral Sex
“During oral, hold the side of your vibe against your cheek as you take him in and out. Your wet, quivering mouth will feel unexpected and arousing.”
— Bethany Heitman, Sexy Ways to Use a Vibrator With Him
Tagged: vibrator, Oral Sex, blowjobs
“Lay him on the bed, turn it on, and rub it over him. Start at his knees, run up his upper thighs, and circle it around the bulge in his pants. This way, he'll get comfortable with the feeling.”
— Bethany Heitman, Sexy Ways to Use a Vibrator With Him
Tagged: vibrator, thighs, boner
“Turn it down low, and wrap it in your panties to lessen the sensation. Then hold the vibrator against his boys while you fondle his shaft. A guy's testicles can't take very much stimulation, so the muffled shaking is right.”
— Bethany Heitman, Sexy Ways to Use a Vibrator With Him
Tagged: vibrator, testicles, balls
“Use your bullet vibrator to bring yourself to the edge, then repeat and repeat until you can’t repeat any more. Especially useful when you’ve got a night in lined up and you’ve got no decent box sets to watch on Netflix.”
— The Debrief, How To Use A Bullet Vibrator
Tagged: vibrator, Bullet Vibrator, edging
“Pulse settings give you a bit of a contrast. It’s essentially a clitoral massage, and exploring these massage settings means even more excuses to lock yourself in your bedroom with some loud music and a hard-drive full of porn.”
— The Debrief, How To Use A Bullet Vibrator
Tagged: vibrator, massage, Pulsing
“Make sure you’ve got it fully charged (or with fresh batteries) before you begin. It’s fun, and time flies, and nothing’s worse than having a sex toy die on you when you’re a bare three seconds from climax.”
— The Debrief, How To Use A Bullet Vibrator
Tagged: vibrator, Batteries, sex toys
“Play music while you use your vibrator. Of course, you don’t want the music to be so loud that someone will bang on your door.”
— Joan Price, How To Use A Vibrator Discreetly
Tagged: vibrator, Music, private
“Choose a waterproof vibrator to use in the tub or shower. The shower masks any vibrator noise, but not everyone can accomplish an orgasm standing up, and often we need a long time to get aroused enough. We can be more relaxed in the bathtub, but some vibrators make more noise under water.”
— Joan Price, How To Use A Vibrator Discreetly
Tagged: vibrator, orgasm, shower
“Once you have become fully acquainted with your new toy/best friend, you can then increase your pleasure by adding new toys to your collection to use with your vibrator which can often be a much more effective method of multi-stimulation than using a product with all the bits attached.”
— Scarlett Robinson, How To Use a Vibrator
Tagged: vibrator, sex toys, stimulation
“If your vibrator only has one or two speed setting you can increase the build up by starting stimulation over clothes – don’t take your knickers off straight away!”
— Scarlett Robinson, How To Use a Vibrator
Tagged: vibrator, Fully Clothed, Settings
“I have a waterproof vibrator and I like to use it all over my body, starting from my feet, going up the back of my legs, butt cheeks, anus rimming, nipples, neck, ears, lips… everywhere!”
— Scarlett Robinson, How To Use a Vibrator
Tagged: vibrator, Waterproof Vibrator, nipples
“First, get in a position you find comfortable, such as on your back or on your stomach.”
— Eve, How to Use a Vibrator for the First Time | Adam and Eve
Tagged: vibrator, positions, sex toys
“You wouldn’t put the dishes up without washing them, and the same thing applies to your vibrator. Make sure to always wash your vibe with warm water and soap or specialized sex toy cleaner after each use.”
— Eve, How to Use a Vibrator for the First Time | Adam and Eve
Tagged: vibrator, Washing, sex toys
“Apply a little lube to yourself as well as the vibrator.”
— Eve, How to Use a Vibrator for the First Time | Adam and Eve
Tagged: vibrator, lube, Lubricant
“If you want to be really safe, wash your toys before every use, too.”
— Anna Borges, 13 Incredibly Useful Tips Everyone With Sex Toys Should Know
Tagged: vibrator, Washing, hygiene