God & Man

This Is How To Make Him Last Longer So You Actually Have A Chance To Orgasm

Squeeze the base of his penis. 
Holly Riordan
February 14, 2017
“Have him masturbate beforehand. Ejaculating an hour or two beforehand makes it harder for a man to come quickly.”
— Frank, 7 Ways to Make Sex Last Longer
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, Sex, masturbation
“New positions and sensations will distract him and make him last longer.”
— Frank, 7 Ways to Make Sex Last Longer
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, Distractions, sex positions
“Squeeze the base of his penis. Think of it like bending a hose in half to stop the flow of water, but definitely do not bend his penis in half under any circumstances. Just give it a firm grip.”
— Frank, 7 Ways to Make Sex Last Longer
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, penis, Sex
“Start by suggesting moves like girl on top, which will help you control the pace (and slow it down if he's getting too close).”
— Maggie Parker, 5 Ways to Help Him Last Longer in Bed
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, sex positions, Pacing
“You can pick up some condoms or analgesic sprays like Promescent to help him last longer.”
— Maggie Parker, 5 Ways to Help Him Last Longer in Bed
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, condoms, birth control
“You know Kegels can help you have stronger orgasms, and a new study found those exact same exercises could also help men. Seriously. So teach him how to do man-Kegels—it's an easy, medication-free way to help him control his erection.”
— Maggie Parker, 5 Ways to Help Him Last Longer in Bed
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, kegels, erection
“Tell him to aim for one thrust every few seconds, then gradually (like, every two minutes) take it up a notch, to the point where there's a thrust every second or so. If he feels like he's going to come, he should stop thrusting and wait a few seconds until he can control himself and start up again.”
— Healthy Women, 5 Ways to Help Him Last Longer in Bed | HealthyWomen
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, thrusting, Control
“If your guy has a go-to move that always gets him off, switch it up.”
— Healthy Women, 5 Ways to Help Him Last Longer in Bed | HealthyWomen
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, sex positions, Sex
“A round of vigorous foreplay before sex can work wonders. Getting him to ejaculate before the main event should delay the finish line.”
— Healthy Women, 5 Ways to Help Him Last Longer in Bed | HealthyWomen
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, foreplay, Ejaculate
“Stop and start: You can help your partner with this method by first sexually stimulating him until he feels he is about to climax. Then stop for 30 seconds. Repeat until he consciously wants to climax. This helps your partner learn how to control the release.”
— Jennifer Cullen, 8 Ways to Help Your Man Last Longer
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, edging, climax
“Encourage him to masturbate more frequently. Reaching orgasm more often on his own can help him delay his ejaculation when he's with you.”
— Jennifer Cullen, 8 Ways to Help Your Man Last Longer
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, masturbation, orgasm
“A cock ring can be nice to look at, but it’s also functional. The pressure it applies to the shaft of the penis helps to slow down climaxing by decreasing blood flow.”
— Jennifer Cullen, 8 Ways to Help Your Man Last Longer
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, Cock Ring, sex toys
“Showing him that you understand the situation will help in reducing the pressure on his mind. Tell him, for example, that you enjoy sex with him whether or not you reach orgasm. This will ensure that that he keeps performing without any fear of disappointing you. And as he becomes more confident, he is likely to start lasting longer out of his own efforts.”
— Dave Martinez, 5 Ways to Make Your Man Last Longer in Bed- YouQueen
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, Sex, Communication
“Monitor your man’s rhythm and breathing as you are having sex. Once you notice a slight increase in his pace, ask him to stop any movement. You can then start asking him about things that are unrelated to sex just to make him stop thinking about sex. Keep the conversation going until you feel that he has calmed down and he is breathing normally, again.”
— Dave Martinez, 5 Ways to Make Your Man Last Longer in Bed- YouQueen - YouQueen
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, Sex, Pacing
“Use medication.”
— Dave Martinez, 5 Ways to Make Your Man Last Longer in Bed- YouQueen
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, medication, Meds
“Try positions that involve slow and steady sex over fast and furious. Positions that are physically tricky can also help him last longer since he’ll have to devote some of his attention to his acrobatics and balancing act.”
— Coleen Singer, 7 HOT AF Sex Positions That Make Him Last The Longest
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, sex positions, Sex
“Doggy style, standing in the shower or up against the wall, and all those on-your-feet moves may have a last-longer effect.”
— Carol Queen, 7 HOT AF Sex Positions That Make Him Last The Longest
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, sex positions, doggy style
“Some guys have a trick where if you pull down gently on their balls, they won't come as quickly. This is probably one of those distraction moves; plus, ordinarily just before he’s about to ejaculate, his testicles will elevate.”
— Carol Queen, 7 HOT AF Sex Positions That Make Him Last The Longest
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, balls, testicles
“For some people, the booze kills the bedroom action. For men, this can be the inability to perform or maintain an erection. Alcohol is a depressant, not a stimulant. It might help him relax after a long day at work, but it might also be getting him too relaxed. Offer him a massage instead or promise to mix him his favorite drink only after the two of you have had some quality time in the bedroom.”
— Elizabeth Yetter, 15 Ways To Get Your Man To Last Longer In Bed
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, Alcohol, Drunk Sex
“Have him make his thrusts shallow and don’t let him enter you all the way. Deep thrusts can make him reach the big O faster than short, shallow thrusts.”
— Elizabeth Yetter, 15 Ways To Get Your Man To Last Longer In Bed
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, Sex, thrusting
“Deep breathing produces a relaxed state and helps him let go of any anxiety he may be feeling about being able to get it on. Both you and your partner can practice deep breathing together, before having sex or starting with the foreplay.”
— Elizabeth Yetter, 15 Ways To Get Your Man To Last Longer In Bed
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, breathing, Breathing Exercises
“Try to do it more often. When your man gets more accustomed to doing it, he’ll freak out less about how hot it is and contain himself at least for a few more minutes.”
— Ashley Uzer, 8 Tips from Guys for Making Your BF Last Longer In Bed
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, Sex, Frequent Sex
“If you’ve never heard of a ‘pee boner’ before, you’re not alone. Turns out just like girls should go pee afterwards (to prevent UTIs), guys should pee before to help them last longer.”
— Ashley Uzer, 8 Tips from Guys for Making Your BF Last Longer In Bed
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, Sex, Boners
“If your man finished but you want to keep going, have him go down on you or engage in other foreplay while he takes a few minutes to get hard again. He’ll last way longer the second time and he certainly won’t mind getting to do you again.”
— Ashley Uzer, 8 Tips from Guys for Making Your BF Last Longer In Bed
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, Oral Sex, Sex
“A massage before sex accompanied with conversation about the task at hand can help put his mind at ease. Whisper to him the things you would like to see happen when the erotic play does begin and speak positive affirmations to him that gives him the confidence he needs to satisfy you. Adding in aromatherapy candles and relaxing massage oil will help facilitate relaxation.”
— Glamazon Tyomi, 4 Ways To Help Him Last Longer
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, massage, Relaxation
“Over stimulation or increased sensitivity during intercourse can be stopped by using desensitizing sprays specially formulated to prevent PE.”
— Glamazon Tyomi, 4 Ways To Help Him Last Longer
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, Sex, Desensitizing Sprays
“Ask your lover to relax on the bed and then take your time lavishing his body with slow touch. Every time your lover tries to touch you, lightly slap their hand away and let them know that you are in control for the moment.”
— Charlotte & Chris Pleasure Mechanics, 5 Ways To Spice Up Your Foreplay And Make Him Last Longer
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, Sex, Control
“For men, a great handjob is a delicious way to learn how to suspend arousal without climaxing. Develop your handjob techniques so you can bring him to the edge of orgasm and then suspend him there, prolonging his arousal and helping him learn how to stay hard longer. This will give you both more time to build arousal before you get to intercourse.”
— Charlotte & Chris Pleasure Mechanics, 5 Ways To Spice Up Your Foreplay And Make Him Last Longer
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, handjob, arousal
“When you have a fixed pattern and routine to your sex, your man can pretty much predict your moves and thus he might come sooner than expected.”
— Shreya Suresh Kumar, How to last longer in bed: 5 ways to help men last longer during sex!
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, Sex, Variety
“When your man is about to ejaculate just stop him or ask him to stop stroking.”
— Shreya Suresh Kumar, How to last longer in bed: 5 ways to help men last longer during sex!
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, Ejaculate, Sex