Elena Montemurro

50 Quotes That Will Determine If Your Boyfriend Is A Dirty Rotten Cheater

Cheaters like to call from bathrooms, because it disguises the noise. 
Holly Riordan
August 31, 2016
“If you post a photo on Facebook, or other social media site, and tag him and it appears on his page, but none of his friends like or comment on the photo, he has blocked his world from your existence.

Or, if other women are writing on his page, yet you can't see what they write, he has strategically blocked you from this line of communication. The blocks are in place so you don't find out about the other woman or women in his life.”
— Liz Crokin, 8 Telltale Signs Your Boyfriend Is Definitely Cheating On You
Tagged: Cheating, Social Media, Facebook, blocking
“If you go over to his house and notice something as subtle as a glass on the nightstand on your side of his bed that you never left there, it could be a sign someone else slept in his bed.

Or, maybe, the day after he told you he had ‘the guys’ over the night before, you discover every CD in his stereo from ‘guys night’ is chick music, like Adele, Florence and the Machine and Norah Jones. No straight dude invites the guys over and rocks that kind of music all night.

Perhaps, he's out of condoms and the last time you were over, he had a full pack. Sometimes, the smallest clues are the biggest indicators.”
— Liz Crokin, 8 Telltale Signs Your Boyfriend Is Definitely Cheating On You
Tagged: Cheating, condoms, Music, Clues
“If the only photos your boyfriend posts when you're together are just of him, ‘Houston, we have a problem!’ If you go on vacations and dates with your boyfriend, but his social media presence reflects he’s either alone or out with his buddies, there’s a reason for that.”
— Liz Crokin, 8 Telltale Signs Your Boyfriend Is Definitely Cheating On You
Tagged: Cheating, Selfies, Social Media, photographs
“Being angry in an instant — or being overly nice — is a red flag. There's no real reason for him to leave, so he has to create one. New activities, such as him going out all the time (but never mentions it until afterward) is a glaring example. If he was going somewhere and had no reason to hide it, he would most likely talk about it with you.”
— Charles J. Orlando, 10 Telltale Signs A Man Is Cheating On You
Tagged: Cheating, Moody, red flags, secrecy
“Cheating men change physically. Their love handles disappear, their posture changes and their muscle tone/definition returns. It's the body's primal means of preparing for courtship — he's readying himself to attract a mate.”
— Charles J. Orlando, 10 Telltale Signs A Man Is Cheating On You
Tagged: Cheating, Appearance, muscles, Weight
“Most cheating men will need an untraceable way to pay for things: gifts, meals, hotels, trips, etc. Reloadable credit cards, PayPal accounts, and eBay purchases are all great ways to hide large or frequent transactions. Definitely investigate large, random transfers or cash withdrawals.”
— Charles J. Orlando, 10 Telltale Signs A Man Is Cheating On You
Tagged: Cheating, Money, transactions, financial
“Is he out several nights a week meeting with clients, vendors, agencies and people from his department or team? Have you been excluded from the social gatherings, and then learn other spouses had attended? This is a pretty good indication that he’s up to something.”
— Patti Blue Hayes, 6 Not-So-Obvious Signs He's Cheating On You
Tagged: Cheating, Work, Career
“If your husband has changed his protocol and passwords, it might be worth taking a closer look.”
— Patti Blue Hayes, 6 Not-So-Obvious Signs He's Cheating On You
Tagged: Cheating, Phone, passwords, Secrets
“He also asked me to completely shave off all my ‘you know where’ hair. I kept asking him why he wanted me to do that, but now I know it was because one of the women he had sex with must have had a Brazilian.”
— Patti Blue Hayes, 6 Not-So-Obvious Signs He's Cheating On You
Tagged: Cheating, Sex, hair, pubic hair
“Your best friend just matched with him on Tinder. He claims it's just for fun, but there are plenty of fun apps where the objective isn't to have sex with everyone.”
— Frank Kobola, 13 Signs He Might Be Cheating
Tagged: Cheating, Tinder, Dating sites, apps
“He turns off his phone screen every time you walk in the room.”
— Frank Kobola, 13 Signs He Might Be Cheating
Tagged: Cheating, Phone, Secrets, Privacy
“He says he wants to stay in and then your friend sees him out at a bar. He says he's going to bed and then posts a pic of himself doing shots with a bunch of girls.”
— Frank Kobola, 13 Signs He Might Be Cheating
Tagged: Cheating, Lies, Flirting, evidence
“Guilt gifts are common when someone is getting nookie on the side. If a partner who has never thought to buy you flowers before suddenly starts bringing home roses on the regular, something may be amiss.”
— Bethany Ramos, Is your partner cheating on you? These signs are dead giveaways
Tagged: Cheating, guilty, gifts, Flowers
“A partner who is suddenly not interested in sex, barring depression and other medical issues, may be getting their needs met somewhere else.”
— Bethany Ramos, Is your partner cheating on you? These signs are dead giveaways
Tagged: Cheating, Sex, libido, sex life
“It's inadvisable to marry someone who was cheating in an affair with you — when you're the spouse, you'll get cheated on. People who feel entitled to sex any way they can get it will always rationalize cheating and just keep doing it”
— Tina B. Tessina, Is your partner cheating on you? These signs are dead giveaways
Tagged: Cheating, Marriage, repeat, Sex, affair
“Your gut doesn't lie. Let's say your husband has had an old college friend in his life for years, and up until last month, you felt totally fine about it. But now there's something about his tone when he mentions her that puts a knot in your stomach. Don't ignore that.”
— Hannah Hickok, 5 Major Signs He's Cheating On You—Emotionally, At Least
Tagged: Cheating, Gut, Feelings, Instinct
“Even if your husband is still sleeping with you, you may pick up on subtle signs that he's not fully present: A lack of eye contact, feeling rushed to get it over with, and no intimacy afterward.”
— Hannah Hickok, 5 Major Signs He's Cheating On You—Emotionally, At Least
Tagged: Cheating, Sex, Eye Contact, Intimacy
“People alter their voices when speaking to people with whom they are romantically involved on the phone (men tend to speak to female partners in a higher-than-normal tone of voice, while women tend to speak in a lower pitch to male partners). So if your partner starts laying on the seduction with someone other than you on the phone, you might need to start paying attention.”
— Lara Rutherford-Morrison, 6 Signs Someone Might Really Be Cheating And You're Not Actually Just Paranoid
Tagged: Cheating, voice, phone calls, tone
“If your partner starts going to a lot of effort to keep his or her phone away from you — taking it into the bathroom, freaking out if you try to use it to check the weather, refusing to answer it while you’re in the room — then that may be a sign that something’s up.”
— Lara Rutherford-Morrison, 6 Signs Someone Might Really Be Cheating And You're Not Actually Just Paranoid
Tagged: Cheating, Texting, phone calls, Secrets
“A proud and faithful person wants to be seen with you. If your man isn’t taking you around their normal hangouts, then there could be something going on within the city limits.”
— Maxwell Billieon, 8 Signs He's The Cheating Type
Tagged: Cheating, Privacy, Faithful
“If you don’t know your man’s friends or family after you’ve gotten serious, there may be someone else who does.”
— Maxwell Billieon, 8 Signs He's The Cheating Type
Tagged: Cheating, Family, Friends, serious relationships
“Cheaters like to call from bathrooms because it disguises the noise from the room or the person they are actually around. If they are in a place they shouldn’t be or with someone that they shouldn’t be with, then the bathroom is the perfect should barrier to shield suspicion.”
— Maxwell Billieon, 8 Signs He's The Cheating Type
Tagged: Cheating, bathroom, phone calls, Privacy
“Your mate never talks to you. You live together but don't interact. He has become cold and inconsiderate of your feelings.”
— Raymond B. Green, 32 Signs That He's Cheating
Tagged: Cheating, Interaction, Communication, Heartless
“You mate acts guilty when you do something nice for him or her. You are supposed to be the person who is making life miserable and the relationship untenable. By doing something nice, you force the cheater to think about what he or she is doing.”
— Raymond B. Green, 32 Signs That He's Cheating
Tagged: Cheating, guilty, kindness, Regret
“Your mate turns the table and accuses you of cheating but has no evidence.”
— Raymond B. Green, 32 Signs That He's Cheating
Tagged: Cheating, accusations, evidence
“You know that exhilarating feeling you get when you meet someone new and exciting? You want to tell the world about him. One of my exes began talking about a guy a lot near the end of our relationship — he just always seemed to be at her social gatherings that I didn't happen to attend. Sure enough, after she dumped me, she began dating him.”
— Rich Santos, 9 Signs of Cheating You Need to Know
Tagged: Cheating, talking, bragging
“His friends will certainly remain loyal to him in most cases. They will not let you know what's going on, but they will definitely be racked with guilt, and their behavior may change slightly when they are around you while protecting his secret.”
— Rich Santos, 9 Signs of Cheating You Need to Know
Tagged: Cheating, Guilt, Secrets, Friends
“If he consistently breaches your trust, it's establishing a pattern of behavior that leads to cheating. Do yourself a favor: If he keeps lying, whether these lies are big or small, get out while you can and don't let him talk his way back in.”
— Rich Santos, 9 Signs of Cheating You Need to Know
Tagged: Cheating, Lies, Trust
“People usually fear the most what they know lives inside of them. A crazy jealous, suspicious and controlling man usually is so because he has first-hand proof that cheating happens…via himself.”
— Julia Austin, Girl, Keep Your Eyes Open: Signs He'll Cheat, Way Before He Does
Tagged: Cheating, Fear, Jealous, controlling
“The guy has odd reasons for you not to come to certain parties or get-togethers, like it will all be people from work and you’ll be bored, or it’s more of a guy’s night, or you won’t like the bar. Come on; a guy that really likes you and isn’t up to anything shady wants you around! Even if you would be bored, he wants you there to keep him company! But, if there is the potential to cheat, or even just act inappropriately with other women, he won’t want you there.”
— Julia Austin, Girl, Keep Your Eyes Open: Signs He'll Cheat, Way Before He Does
Tagged: Cheating, Flirting, shady, suspicious