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50 Signs Your Relationship Is Destined To End Soon

He's trying to change you.  
Holly Riordan
November 23, 2016
“He’s slowly talking to you less. Though the loss of communication doesn’t hit you right away, if a guy is looking to break up with you, he will definitely slowly reduce the amount of communication you guys have. Maybe he will stop texting you as much and phone calls come to a complete cease. When communication slowly fades away, he may be plotting a way out. But he’s obviously trying to do it quietly.”
— Ashley Page, 14 Signs He's Probably Gonna Break Up With You -- Sorry!
Tagged: Breaking Up, Communication, Texting
“You don’t feel close to him anymore. At one point in time you two were inseparable. You loved being around him and how he made you feel. You felt connected on a variety of levels. But now you feel the complete opposite of how you used to. You don’t feel as loved or cared about and he doesn’t make any efforts to remedy it.”
— Ashley Page, 14 Signs He's Probably Gonna Break Up With You -- Sorry!
Tagged: Breaking Up, Closeness, Distance
“He’s talking about a lot of change. He wants to go back to school and get another degree. He wants to take up a job in another city. He wants to buy a home. If a guy is looking to break up with you, he may talk about a lot of new plans that he has but these plans don’t really involve you.”
— Ashley Page, 14 Signs He's Probably Gonna Break Up With You -- Sorry!
Tagged: Breaking Up, Change, moving, Leaving
“He ignores you a lot and is constantly checking his phone. He wants to be someplace else and not with you.”
— Farrah Gray, 12 Signs He Wants To Break Up With You
Tagged: Breaking Up, Ignoring, Texting, Phone
“He’s not around much anymore. That’s just the way some of us are. Many guys would rather avoid you than tell you what’s up.”
— Farrah Gray, 12 Signs He Wants To Break Up With You
Tagged: Breaking Up, Avoidance, Ignoring
“He’s inconsiderate and could turn downright mean. Your feelings don’t matter to him that much anymore, but he doesn’t have the nuggets to be straight with you.”
— Farrah Gray, 12 Signs He Wants To Break Up With You
Tagged: Breaking Up, mean, Rude
“He does not hold your hand anymore. Men who like being part of a relationship enjoy holding your hand while you are walking down the street. A man who walks ahead of you is dismissive of you and the relationship.”
— Donna, Signs Your Boyfriend Wants to Break Up with You- VisiHow
Tagged: Breaking Up, Holding Hands, PDA
“If he treats you like you are nosy when you ask questions about his life, it is an indication that he might have a private life separate from you. Men who are happy with you have not problem sharing details about their life with you.”
— Donna, Signs Your Boyfriend Wants to Break Up with You- VisiHow
Tagged: Breaking Up, Nosy, Secrets
“He is defensive when you ask him about his day or how it went.”
— Donna, Signs Your Boyfriend Wants to Break Up with You- VisiHow
Tagged: Breaking Up, Secrets, defensive
“If your boyfriend suddenly starts flirting with other girls knowing full well you can see him doing it - in person or on Facebook - he's sending you a message.”
— Jessica Booth, 10 Signs He's Trying To Make You Break Up With Him- Gurl.com
Tagged: Breaking Up, Flirting, Facebook
“If he suddenly becomes MIA and starts cancelling plans, or stops asking to hang out, or bails on you at the last minute, he's trying to make you angry. He's trying to make you mad enough to actually end the relationship. He knows exactly what he's doing.”
— Jessica Booth, 10 Signs He's Trying To Make You Break Up With Him- Gurl.com
Tagged: Breaking Up, MIA, cancels, Ditching
“If he's trying to get you to break up with him, he's also probably going to stop wanting to go places with you, like out with your friends or something. He's trying to distance himself from you, and the last thing he's going to want to do is to act like a happy couple in front of others.”
— Jessica Booth, 10 Signs He's Trying To Make You Break Up With Him- Gurl.com
Tagged: Breaking Up, public, private, Alone
“His excuses become more and more unbelievable.”
— Hope Wright, 10 Signs He Wants To Break Up With You
Tagged: Breaking Up, excuses, Lies
“He calls you by the wrong name.”
— Hope Wright, 10 Signs He Wants To Break Up With You
Tagged: Breaking Up, Cheating, Names
“He says he wants to break up with you.”
— Hope Wright, 10 Signs He Wants To Break Up With You
Tagged: Breaking Up, Honesty, blunt
“When a guy doesn't know exactly how to tell a girl that he doesn't want to be with her, he'll get frustrated easier with her and he'll start snapping at her.”
— Heather Jensen, 7 Telling Signs He's About To Break Up With You
Tagged: Breaking Up, Frustrating, Snapping, Fighting
“If your guy is gone for days at a time and you don't know where he is, that isn't a good sign.”
— Heather Jensen, 7 Telling Signs He's About To Break Up With You
Tagged: Breaking Up, MIA, Secrets
“The most common sign that something is seriously wrong is that something just doesn’t feel right between the two of you anymore. Usually, this is a sign that he’s unhappy with how the relationship is going.”
— Ossiana Tepfenhart, 20 Signs He's About To Dump You
Tagged: Breaking Up, Gut, Feelings
“Remember how he used to get all ticked off when you would flirt with other guys? Those were the good ol’ days. Now he seems to even be encouraging you to chat with people that aren’t him. This is a sign that he’s given up.”
— Ossiana Tepfenhart, 20 Signs He's About To Dump You
Tagged: Breaking Up, Flirting, careless
“If a guy loses interest in sleeping with you, it’s a sign that he’s ready to move on. This is a doubly bad sign if sex is the most common way he’s shown affection to you.”
— Ossiana Tepfenhart, 20 Signs He's About To Dump You
Tagged: Breaking Up, Sex, libido
“He gives you the 'I Need Space' speech.”
— Amy Keyishian, 6 Signs Breaking Up is on Your Boy's Mind
Tagged: Breaking Up, Space, Distance
“The very things about you that he used to find cute, he now finds irritating.”
— Amy Keyishian, 6 Signs Breaking Up is on Your Boy's Mind
Tagged: Breaking Up, Irritated, annoyed, Change
“You guys used to talk several times a week, but lately, the calls come less often. He says he's busy at work, but it just doesn't ring true. Just like your phone.”
— Amy Keyishian, 6 Signs Breaking Up is on Your Boy's Mind
Tagged: Breaking Up, Ignoring, MIA, Busy
“His social media pictures have all be changed from that silly snap of him pretending to shoot a gun to something... well, sexier.”
— Becky, 20 Signs He's About To Dump You
Tagged: Breaking Up, Social Media, photographs, Sexy
“He's taking back all of the things he's left at your pad - from that one lone sock to his X Men DVD collection.”
— Becky, 20 Signs He's About To Dump You
Tagged: Breaking Up, Belongings, DVDs
“He's unfriended and unfollowed you on Facebook and Twitter.”
— Becky, 20 Signs He's About To Dump You
Tagged: Breaking Up, Facebook, Twitter, delete
“He no longer talks about things in the future.”
— Scott Christian, How to Tell If He's Trying to Get You to Break Up With Him
Tagged: Breaking Up, Future, Quiet
“He just turns into a total dick.”
— Scott Christian, How to Tell If He's Trying to Get You to Break Up With Him
Tagged: Breaking Up, mean, Rude
“They don't ask about your day. Like, ever.”
— Bibi Deitz, 12 Clues Your Partner Wants To End Your Relationship
Tagged: Breaking Up, Quiet, Selfish
“When you do a date, it's a group thing.”
— Bibi Deitz, 12 Clues Your Partner Wants To End Your Relationship
Tagged: Breaking Up, dates, Group Dates, Friends