Brooke Shemaria

50 Fierce Flirting Tips That Will Make Your Crush Go Crazy For You

Swing your hips. Men love this. 
Holly Riordan
October 5, 2016
“Get closer. Then break eye contact just long enough to glance down at his lips. It's a subtle cue that you're open to a kiss.”
— Elisa Benson, 30 Easy Flirting Tips That Any Girl Can Do
Tagged: flirting tips, Eye Contact, Kissing
“Wear dangly earrings. They draw attention to the smooth curves of our neck — it's a classy way to subtly show skin.”
— Elisa Benson, 30 Easy Flirting Tips That Any Girl Can Do
Tagged: flirting tips, earrings, jewelry
“Master the bump-and-flatter. Run into a hottie at a crowded party. Say, "Oh, sorry — I become a total klutz around cute guys." Then just introduce yourself.”
— Elisa Benson, 30 Easy Flirting Tips That Any Girl Can Do
Tagged: flirting tips, introduction, Accidents
“Buy them a drink. You can do this by going up to them and saying, ‘Can I buy you a drink?’ or you can do that thing on TV where you tell the server you’re paying for their next one.”
— Arianna Rebolini, 9 Foolproof Flirting Tips For The Socially Awkward
Tagged: flirting tips, bar, Drinks, Alcohol
“Tell your mutual friend that you think this person is cute and seems pretty funny. Ask if she could set you guys up, or at the very least, help you coordinate a group hangout during which you would meet.”
— Arianna Rebolini, 9 Foolproof Flirting Tips For The Socially Awkward
Tagged: flirting tips, Friends, group date, matchmaking
“Give them your number. There is nothing to lose.”
— Arianna Rebolini, 9 Foolproof Flirting Tips For The Socially Awkward
Tagged: flirting tips, Phone Number, first move
“Complain about something together. Find something small or insignificant that bothers both of you: maybe the giant deer head on the wall that you both laughed about. Poking fun at the same things helps you get closer, and it also puts you on the same team!”
— Marni Battista, 5 Tried-And-True Flirting Tips For Attracting ANY Guy
Tagged: flirting tips, Complaining, complaints
“Make genuine, consistent eye contact. Let him know you're paying attention to what he's saying. Smile often when you're with him (And not at the guy behind him). Smile at him.”
— Marni Battista, 5 Tried-And-True Flirting Tips For Attracting ANY Guy
Tagged: flirting tips, Eye Contact, smiling, body language
“Don't interrupt him with your story that betters his. If he's sharing that he went hiking in Joshua Tree, don't share about how you did that too, but what was really awesome was your trip to Yosemite. Truly listen and reflect back what you hear him saying.”
— Marni Battista, 5 Tried-And-True Flirting Tips For Attracting ANY Guy
Tagged: flirting tips, Listening, Conversation
“Confidence is almost always ranked by guys as the most attractive trait a woman can have, so ooze it.”
— Brittany Talarico, Make Men Worship You
Tagged: flirting tips, Confidence, Self-Confidence
“Turn sideways in your chair, cross your legs, arch your back, and run your fingers through your hair.”
— Korin Miller, 25 Ways to Become a Legendary Flirt
Tagged: flirting tips, body language, sexiness
“When I'm getting hit on by someone cute at a bar, I start to bite the end of my straw... or lightly suck on it.”
— Anonymous, 4 Silent Moves That'll Turn Him On Without Fail
Tagged: flirting tips, sucking, hit on, bar
“Find a reason to talk to the person. If you're in a class with them, come up with a question about an assignment. If they're standing in line behind you at a concert, ask about the band. Get creative, and be ready to respond to whatever they say.”
— Holly Ashworth, Flirt Like a Pro With These 10 Tips
Tagged: flirting tips, Communication, Questions
“You'll get a way better response if you chat about fun, happy stuff (like your new puppy) than serious or sad stuff (like when your puppy got hit by a car).”
— Holly Ashworth, Flirt Like a Pro With These 10 Tips
Tagged: flirting tips, Conversation, Fun, casual
“Pick one thing you like about the way they look - like their hair, their smile or a piece of clothing. Let them know in a friendly way how much you like it. It'll make them feel good and will open them up to you.”
— Holly Ashworth, Flirt Like a Pro With These 10 Tips
Tagged: flirting tips, compliments, Appearance
“Casually touch your crush's arm as if you're simply emphasizing a point.”
— Crystal Schwanke, Flirting Tips for Teenagers
Tagged: flirting tips, touching, casual
“The cardinal rule is to be yourself. However trite it may sound, it's true. If you can't impress your crush by being true to who you are, do you really want to spend much more time with him or her?”
— Crystal Schwanke, Flirting Tips for Teenagers
Tagged: flirting tips, Be yourself, Personality
“Display your sense of humor. Laugh at their jokes if they're funny and tell a couple of your own. Don't be afraid to let them know that they're funny with words in addition to a giggle or guffaw.”
— Crystal Schwanke, Flirting Tips for Teenagers
Tagged: flirting tips, humor, Funny, Laughter
“Go to one of your favorite coffee shops a few times a week to meet up with friends or read a book like the hipster you are. Soon enough, you’ll start to notice some regulars, just like you. If one of those regulars catches your eye, consider buying him an iced coffee to cool him off because he’s just that hot.”
— Marisa Tesoro, 7 Flirting Tips to Try This Summer
Tagged: flirting tips, Routine, first move
“Lean on him with an excuse while talking to him by adjusting your heel, or losing your balance, or while walking through a crowd.”
— Cheryl James, 30 Subtle, Obvious and Really Sexy Flirting Tips for Girls
Tagged: flirting tips, touching, casual, excuses
“Flick your hair to the other side slowly with one hand while talking to him. Guys are suckers for this move.”
— Cheryl James, 30 Subtle, Obvious and Really Sexy Flirting Tips for Girls
Tagged: flirting tips, body language, hair
“Give him a lingering, soft hug while saying goodbye. But make sure you’ve lifted your chest high enough for him to feel your breasts against his body.”
— Cheryl James, 30 Subtle, Obvious and Really Sexy Flirting Tips for Girls
Tagged: flirting tips, hugs, breasts
“Wear red lipstick.”
— Jen Kim, How to Flirt Without it Seeming Like You're Flirting
Tagged: flirting tips, Makeup, lipstick
“Make sure you’re accentuating your best features.”
— Michelle Keldgord, How to Flirt With a Guy at Work
Tagged: flirting tips, beauty, features
“Asking him for help will make him feel like a big tough guy that can take care of you-- think of it as him being the Superman to your Lois Lane.”
— Michelle Keldgord, How to Flirt With a Guy at Work
Tagged: flirting tips, help, Questions
“Leaving a sweet note on his desk is super cute, and will definitely put a smile on his face.”
— Michelle Keldgord, How to Flirt With a Guy at Work
Tagged: flirting tips, love note, smiling
“Don't dumb yourself down by giggling at everything he says or asking questions you already know the answers to.”
— Kristen Flanagan, Flirting 101: The Dos and Don'ts of Getting Guys to Notice You
Tagged: flirting tips, giggling, intelligent
“If you're spending a night out with girlfriends and can't seem to work up the courage to approach a guy who's caught your interest, ask a friend to step in.”
— Kristen Flanagan, Flirting 101: The Dos and Don'ts of Getting Guys to Notice You
Tagged: flirting tips, wingwoman, Friends
“Don't sit there and obsess over every word he says and don't think too much into anything. If you're not overthinking, you'll feel more relaxed and then you'll be more happy... and then you'll be on your A-game.”
— Jessica Booth, 10 Tips On How To Flirt Like A Pro - Gurl.com
Tagged: flirting tips, relax, Happiness
“Try running your hands through your hair (once, don't overdo it or you'll look crazy), tracing your finger along your collarbone (again, don't overdo it) or licking your lips (AGAIN, once!).”
— Jessica Booth, 10 Tips On How To Flirt Like A Pro - Gurl.com
Tagged: flirting tips, body language, Lips, hair