“I don’t get why girls aren’t supposed to make the first move considering boys are so stupid you’ll be waiting 7.5 months for the guy you like to even figure out you like him.”— Ellie, twitter.com
“Send the first message. Make a move and keep the conversation flowing. There’s no need to wait several hours before responding to a message.”— Natalie Nanowski, ellecanada.com
“Instigate a conversation about making the first move. Conversation usually drifts to the topic of dating. Mentioning that you usually don't make the first move could stick in his memory and encourage him to accept the invitation.”— Chelsea Hoffman, datingtips.match.com
“If all else fails, and your guy just doesn’t seem to be getting the hint (the subtle and not-so-subtle ones), why not make the move on him? Kiss him! He might have been waiting for you to make the first move!”— Jelena Jovanovic, love.allwomenstalk.com
“Not taking the lead. Don’t wait to get asked to dance…meaning you’ve got to take the lead. You don’t have to wait for your partner to ask you to have sex or make love with them. Get involved, get into bed, take the lead and get your partner into bed with you. You’ll both have a lot of fun and enjoy…”— Charlene Bert, galtime.com
“Whisper in his ear how badly you want him inside you, or stick you hand down his pants. If you really want to rock his world, wake him with a morning BJ.”— Adrienne Mansfield, mandecoder.com
“It may be hard for you to come right out and say ‘I want you’ but you can show it by sitting close and placing your hand in between his legs, giving him a massage or kissing his neck. If he doesn’t seem to be getting the message or isn’t responding, be more aggressive with your actions by nibbling o…”— Eileen Bailey, healthcentral.com
“Instead of waiting for him to ask you for oral sex, just start doing it.”— Chris Taylor, forgivenwife.com
“Try a kiss on his neck or a little ear-nibbling while he's on the computer or watching TV.”— Denise Schipani, womansday.com
“When you get the thought, pounce on it (and pounce on HIM, too!) Start kissing him. Let your hands wander pretty much immediately (seriously–women don’t like guys to GO FOR IT right away, so we often assume men need the lead up, too. They don’t. Just zero in!). Don’t second guess yourself. You’ll be…”— Sheila Wray Gregoire, tolovehonorandvacuum.com
“If you see him at a night club or party, go up and ask him to dance. If he seems willing but shy, pull him onto the dance floor!”— Diana Bradley, beyondtalk.net
“Always approach from the front. Nobody likes being snuck up on by a stranger.”— Patrick Allan, lifehacker.com
“Go to one of your favorite coffee shops a few times a week to meet up with friends or read a book like the hipster you are. Soon enough, you’ll start to notice some regulars, just like you. If one of those regulars catches your eye, consider buying him an iced coffee to cool him off because he’s jus…”— Marisa Tesoro, hercampus.com
“If you want to go out again, let him know by bringing up something you talked about earlier ("So when do I get to beat you at Guitar Hero?"). Ready for a kiss? Don't rush out of the car when he drops you off — move closer to him and keep eye contact. If it's on his mind too, he'll lean in!”— Elisa Benson, seventeen.com
“The next time you're with the person you want to kiss, start flirting. Once you two are pretty flirty, get as close to them as possible. When you're really close, and the moment feels right, just lean in and put your lips on theirs, and take it from there! It's easier to do than talk about, honestly…”— Jessica Booth, gurl.com
“I traced a finger along my bottom lip as I wondered what his erection would look like, and how I should seduce him. I thought what kind of approach would work best: whether to go in slow and seductively, or whether I should make him notice me in some hard and fast way.”— Fiona Thrust, amazon.com