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50 Sex Moves That Will Give Him The Most Extreme Orgasm Of His Life

Try experimenting with gentle, breathy kisses. 
Holly Riordan
January 4, 2017
“Next time you're ready to make love and he isn't particularly interested, put on a sexy shirt and nothing else (except maybe black thigh-high stockings and a pair of heels) and assume a provocative position, with your back against the headboard, legs open and bent at the knees. Place two fingers in an inverted V straddling your clitoris.”
— Susan Crain Bakos, The 7 Sex Moves Men Love Most
Tagged: sex moves, Provocative, Sexy Clothing
“If he's having trouble getting a firm erection, rub a small amount of oil or lubricant onto your palms and put one hand firmly around the base of his penis. Work the other hand from the base up to the head in a circular, twisting motion, as if you were following a winding staircase up his appendage. Caress the head with your palm. Then start at the bottom again.”
— Susan Crain Bakos, The 7 Sex Moves Men Love Most
Tagged: sex moves, Lubricant, lube
“Kneel on the edge of the bed and have your man stand behind you. Lie with your chest flat on the bed and elevate your hips at a steeper angle than you would normally do in this position. This elongates the vaginal barrel, making the fit tighter and creating additional stimulation for both of you.”
— Susan Crain Bakos, The 7 Sex Moves Men Love Most
Tagged: sex moves, doggy style, Behind
“Start by lightly circling the outside of his anus with your fingers or tongue. Try a small, thin vibrator. If your man wants you to proceed with penetration, you can lubricate the vibrator, or use a lubricated, covered finger.”
— L. L. Wing, 12 Amazing Sex Tricks He Secretly Wants You to Know
Tagged: sex moves, Anal Sex, vibrator
“Pinch, tug, suck on his testicles. Linger. Dawdle. Don't make this an afterthought. This is a destination in itself.”
— L. L. Wing, 12 Amazing Sex Tricks He Secretly Wants You to Know
Tagged: sex moves, testicles, balls
“Play with flavored lubricants. There are dozens to choose from, like chocolate pudding flavor, strawberry, tangerine. Even if you don't really need lubricants for intercourse, they're wholesomely lewd, and they increase sensation.”
— L. L. Wing, 12 Amazing Sex Tricks He Secretly Wants You to Know
Tagged: sex moves, lube, Flavored Lube
“Try a lap-dance or a sexy strip-tease. That doesn't mean you have to spend a fortune on lingerie -- you can easily remove the frumpiest clothes sexily.”
— Becky, 15 Sex Tips For Women(From Men)
Tagged: sex moves, lap dance, strip tease
“Talk dirty to him. If you're not used to it, it may feel WAY awkward, but the more you do it, the more second-nature it will become. And there's a bonus! It may turn you on, too.”
— Becky, 15 Sex Tips For Women(From Men)
Tagged: sex moves, talk dirty, dirty talk
“Bring a bunch of pillows into the bedroom. They'll help to achieve -- and enjoy -- new sexual positions.”
— Becky, 15 Sex Tips For Women(From Men)
Tagged: sex moves, pillows, sex positions
“Switch up your usual cowgirl by facing away from your guy and giving him an awesome view as you ride him. For even more control, lean forward or back to change the angle of his penis inside you.”
— Anna Borges, 7 Sex Moves That Put YOU in Control
Tagged: sex moves, sex positions, reverse cowgirl
“Hold onto a wall or headboard for support as you straddle his face. Then, you can let him do his thing, or you can really take control by having him hold his tongue firm as you gyrate your hips to your liking.”
— Anna Borges, 7 Sex Moves That Put YOU in Control
Tagged: sex moves, Oral Sex, straddling
“Grip his butt hard while in missionary, scratch his chest and the sides of his torso while in girl-on-top, or yank his head toward you to give him a passionate, damn-straight kind of kiss. If those moves elicit an excited response, firmly spank his butt, lightly bite his shoulder, or tug his hair in the act, you devilish thing.”
— Jennifer Benjamin, Bad-Girl Sex Tricks
Tagged: sex moves, scratching, Kissing, spanking
“Blush brush: Skip the pricey feathers you find at sex shops, and use this to tickle his neck, chest, arms, and package.”
— Jennifer Benjamin, Bad-Girl Sex Tricks
Tagged: sex moves, feathers, Brushes
“Rolling pin: Run this baker's basic over his back and thighs during an erotic massage.”
— Jennifer Benjamin, Bad-Girl Sex Tricks
Tagged: sex moves, massage, erotic
“If you're a girl who's into blindfolds, handcuffs, whips, chains, etc. then show up with all of it.”
— Kiley Coleman, 15 Unexpected Moves in Bed Men Love
Tagged: sex moves, sex toys, handcuffs
“Touch yourself. Men are extremely turned on by the fact that you are able to pleasure yourself all on your own.”
— Kiley Coleman, 15 Unexpected Moves in Bed Men Love
Tagged: sex moves, touch yourself, masturbation
“Catch him by the collar after work and drag him to the bedroom for a good old shagging.”
— Kiley Coleman, 15 Unexpected Moves in Bed Men Love
Tagged: sex moves, spontaneous, unexpected
“Try experimenting with gentle, breathy kisses.”
— Marissa Gold, 10 Spots Guys Really Want You to Touch
Tagged: sex moves, Kissing, Experimentation
“Many of us tend to stick to the same tongue motion and rhythm, so mixing it up can be extremely erotic for your guy. Grab the sides of his face and try slowly circling your tongue around his, licking the tip of his tongue with yours, or even pressing the top of your tongue against his.”
— Marissa Gold, 10 Spots Guys Really Want You to Touch
Tagged: sex moves, Kissing, French Kissing
“A light bite on the top of the earlobe, running your tongue up the length of the edge, or even just deep breathing (behind his ear, not into it) is always guaranteed to make him quiver.”
— Marissa Gold, 10 Spots Guys Really Want You to Touch
Tagged: sex moves, biting, Ears
“A back rub can loosen the tension and make that stress run right out of him. Back rubs should become a regular type of touch as it will relax your man and allow him to be free (mentally and emotionally) to engage with you.”
— Jackie Bledsoe, 7 Places Your Man Wants You to Touch Him | Babble
Tagged: sex moves, massage, back rub
“He probably grabs your butt frequently. Returning the favor will show him you are still physically attracted to him and his body. Let him know just looking at him still does something to you.”
— Jackie Bledsoe, 7 Places Your Man Wants You to Touch Him | Babble
Tagged: sex moves, butt, touches
“He likes your soft touch. He likes to feel your skin on his skin. Lay on him when his shirt is off. Embrace him and make sure your hands reach some skin. Whether your hands are cold or hot, he’ll enjoy it.”
— Jackie Bledsoe, 7 Places Your Man Wants You to Touch Him | Babble
Tagged: sex moves, touches, cuddling
“Wetter is better: When trying to please your man in bed with oral sex, you'll find that using lots of saliva is something that he likes very much. Why? Because when you give your man a really wet one, it feels more sensual and just provides better stimulation.”
— Sean Jameson, 5 Powerful, TOTALLY Irresistible Ways To Please Your Guy In Bed
Tagged: sex moves, Oral Sex, saliva
“Be active in bed, flexible, let him move you around.”
— Jack Hutson, 7 Tips on How to Satisfy Him in Bed Better Than Any Other Woman
Tagged: sex moves, Flexible, Active
“Role playing can be great and it will make your sex life a lot more fun.”
— Jack Hutson, 7 Tips on How to Satisfy Him in Bed Better Than Any Other Woman
Tagged: sex moves, Role Play, pretending
“Show total devotion by being more submissive.”
— Jack Hutson, 7 Tips on How to Satisfy Him in Bed Better Than Any Other Woman
Tagged: sex moves, submissive, dominant
“The next time you've having sex, wrap your arms around him and gently drag your nails across his back, butt or thighs from top to bottom, applying as little pressure as possible. The slight touch will send shivers down his spine… and enhance the feeling of everything else.”
— Marissa Gold, 8 Sex Moves Every Woman Should Try Once
Tagged: sex moves, scratching, Light Touches
“Straddle your guy during your next bedroom session and begin to pull off his shirt. As it reaches his wrists, stop pulling. Grab the shirt with one hand (grasp the part in the middle between his arms) and use it to pin his wrists back to the bed like makeshift handcuffs. The more confident you are about doing it, the better. You'll be in control, and he won't have a clue what hit him. But he'll like it.”
— Marissa Gold, 8 Sex Moves Every Woman Should Try Once
Tagged: sex moves, Dominance, Control
“Next time you feel like snapping a naughty photo of yourself, don't e-mail or text it to your man right way. Wait until you're in the same room, restaurant or building and then go ahead and hit send — it's so unexpected that way!”
— Marissa Gold, 8 Sex Moves Every Woman Should Try Once
Tagged: sex moves, nudes, unexpected