50 Sex Moves That Will Give Him The Most Extreme Orgasm Of His Life

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50 Sex Moves That Will Give Him The Most Extreme Orgasm Of His Life

Try experimenting with gentle, breathy kisses.

Holly RiordanJanuary 4, 2017

Touch your breasts. Cup them in your hands while you bounce. Play with your nipples. Do whatever you can to draw his attention to the area.

— Holly Riordan, 26 Seriously Sexy Things He Wants You To Do While Riding Him

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Pinch, tug, suck on his testicles. Linger. Dawdle. Don't make this an afterthought. This is a destination in itself.

— L. L. Wing, 12 Amazing Sex Tricks He Secretly Wants You to Know

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Pull his hair a little bit. It adds an extra excitement to your fooling around sessions and can sometimes lead you to a new sexual discovery; some people love rough sex and others just don’t. You’ll never know until you try.

— Jillian Paulson, 20 Sex Tips We All Wish We Were Taught In High School

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A light bite on the top of the earlobe, running your tongue up the length of the edge, or even just deep breathing (behind his ear, not into it) is always guaranteed to make him quiver.

— Marissa Gold, 10 Spots Guys Really Want You to Touch

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Try this hands-on approach to increasing sensation during intercourse: Form a ring with two fingers and your thumb and gently hold down the skin at the base of his penis.

— Jennifer Benjamin, Simple sex tricks that make reaching orgasm feel less like rocket science

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Surprise him with a hand job when he least expects it. While he's chilling on the couch, cuddle up next to him, trail your fingers down his chest, and unbutton his pants. As you grab him, whisper that you're doing all the work this time.

— Holly Eagleson, 12 Dirty Moves to Try Tonight

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Keep your high heels on while you and your guy do the deed. They'll make your legs look ultra sexy.

— Christie Griffin, 31 Days of Sex

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He probably grabs your butt frequently. Returning the favor will show him you are still physically attracted to him and his body. Let him know just looking at him still does something to you.

— Jackie Bledsoe, 7 Places Your Man Wants You to Touch Him | Babble

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Bring a bunch of pillows into the bedroom. They'll help to achieve -- and enjoy -- new sexual positions.

— Becky, 15 Sex Tips For Women (From Men)

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Switch up your usual cowgirl by facing away from your guy and giving him an awesome view as you ride him. For even more control, lean forward or back to change the angle of his penis inside you.

— Anna Borges, 7 Sex Moves That Put YOU in Control

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Touch yourself. Men are extremely turned on by the fact that you are able to pleasure yourself all on your own.

— Kiley Coleman, 15 Unexpected Moves in Bed Men Love

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Leave the curtains and/or bedroom door wide open. If getting busy in public is too much of a stretch, create the illusion of letting strangers watch to start. Tapping into voyeurism even just a smidge can be hot.

— Mélanie Berliet, Totally Doable: 50 Simple Sex Tips For Couples That Want To Have Fun Together In Bed Forever

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Swallow. I would explain this one further, but my mouth is full.

— Amelia McDonell-Parry, 8 Things Men Want Women To Do In Bed

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Next time you're ready to make love and he isn't particularly interested, put on a sexy shirt and nothing else (except maybe black thigh-high stockings and a pair of heels) and assume a provocative position, with your back against the headboard, legs open and bent at the knees. Place two fingers in an inverted V straddling your clitoris.

— Susan Crain Bakos, The 7 Sex Moves Men Love Most

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Show total devotion by being more submissive.

— Jack Hutson, 7 Tips on How to Satisfy Him in Bed Better Than Any Other Woman

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Next time you feel like snapping a naughty photo of yourself, don't e-mail or text it to your man right way. Wait until you're in the same room, restaurant or building and then go ahead and hit send — it's so unexpected that way!

— Marissa Gold, 8 Sex Moves Every Woman Should Try Once

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He likes your soft touch. He likes to feel your skin on his skin. Lay on him when his shirt is off. Embrace him and make sure your hands reach some skin. Whether your hands are cold or hot, he’ll enjoy it.

— Jackie Bledsoe, 7 Places Your Man Wants You to Touch Him | Babble

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Wetter is better: When trying to please your man in bed with oral sex, you'll find that using lots of saliva is something that he likes very much. Why? Because when you give your man a really wet one, it feels more sensual and just provides better stimulation.

— Sean Jameson, 5 Powerful, TOTALLY Irresistible Ways To Please Your Guy In Bed

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Catch him by the collar after work and drag him to the bedroom for a good old shagging.

— Kiley Coleman, 15 Unexpected Moves in Bed Men Love

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Grip his butt hard while in missionary, scratch his chest and the sides of his torso while in girl-on-top, or yank his head toward you to give him a passionate, damn-straight kind of kiss. If those moves elicit an excited response, firmly spank his butt, lightly bite his shoulder, or tug his hair in the act, you devilish thing.

— Jennifer Benjamin, Bad-Girl Sex Tricks

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A back rub can loosen the tension and make that stress run right out of him. Back rubs should become a regular type of touch as it will relax your man and allow him to be free (mentally and emotionally) to engage with you.

— Jackie Bledsoe, 7 Places Your Man Wants You to Touch Him | Babble

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The next time you've having sex, wrap your arms around him and gently drag your nails across his back, butt or thighs from top to bottom, applying as little pressure as possible. The slight touch will send shivers down his spine… and enhance the feeling of everything else.

— Marissa Gold, 8 Sex Moves Every Woman Should Try Once

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Start by lightly circling the outside of his anus with your fingers or tongue. Try a small, thin vibrator. If your man wants you to proceed with penetration, you can lubricate the vibrator, or use a lubricated, covered finger.

— L. L. Wing, 12 Amazing Sex Tricks He Secretly Wants You to Know

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Take one of his fingers into your mouth and suck gently on it. Slide it in and out. For some reason, this makes dudes freak out.

— Jillian Paulson, 20 Sex Tips We All Wish We Were Taught In High School

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If you're a girl who's into blindfolds, handcuffs, whips, chains, etc. then show up with all of it.

— Kiley Coleman, 15 Unexpected Moves in Bed Men Love

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Do Kegels exercises while he’s inside of you. You’ll enjoy the sensation as much as he does.

— Holly Riordan, 26 Seriously Sexy Things He Wants You To Do While Riding Him

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Try experimenting with gentle, breathy kisses.

— Marissa Gold, 10 Spots Guys Really Want You to Touch

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Make a sex tape. You don’t have to be fame hungry to enjoy the process of shooting a sexy video starring you and your lover. Just position your phone so it’s pointed towards the bed, seduce each other, and roll around between the sheets. The only thing better than making a sex tape is watching it together later.

— Mélanie Berliet, Totally Doable: 50 Simple Sex Tips For Couples That Want To Have Fun Together In Bed Forever

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Before a date, entice your guy over to your place early, and let him watch you masturbate before you leave for the evening, telling him he can have his turn later.

— Holly Eagleson, 12 Dirty Moves to Try Tonight

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Rolling pin: Run this baker's basic over his back and thighs during an erotic massage.

— Jennifer Benjamin, Bad-Girl Sex Tricks

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Be active in bed, flexible, let him move you around.

— Jack Hutson, 7 Tips on How to Satisfy Him in Bed Better Than Any Other Woman

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Kneel on the edge of the bed and have your man stand behind you. Lie with your chest flat on the bed and elevate your hips at a steeper angle than you would normally do in this position. This elongates the vaginal barrel, making the fit tighter and creating additional stimulation for both of you.

— Susan Crain Bakos, The 7 Sex Moves Men Love Most

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Many of us tend to stick to the same tongue motion and rhythm, so mixing it up can be extremely erotic for your guy. Grab the sides of his face and try slowly circling your tongue around his, licking the tip of his tongue with yours, or even pressing the top of your tongue against his.

— Marissa Gold, 10 Spots Guys Really Want You to Touch

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Blush brush: Skip the pricey feathers you find at sex shops, and use this to tickle his neck, chest, arms, and package.

— Jennifer Benjamin, Bad-Girl Sex Tricks

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Hold onto a wall or headboard for support as you straddle his face. Then, you can let him do his thing, or you can really take control by having him hold his tongue firm as you gyrate your hips to your liking.

— Anna Borges, 7 Sex Moves That Put YOU in Control

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Try a lap-dance or a sexy strip-tease. That doesn't mean you have to spend a fortune on lingerie -- you can easily remove the frumpiest clothes sexily.

— Becky, 15 Sex Tips For Women (From Men)

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Try doing the same things you always do in the bedroom, but slow down to one-fourth of the normal speed. You and your guy will have time to really bond, and since you'll be feeling sensation over a longer period of time, both your orgasms will likely be out of this world.

— Christie Griffin, 31 Days of Sex

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Lie on the bed with your hands tied together, and let him devour you.

— Holly Eagleson, 12 Dirty Moves to Try Tonight

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While you’re telling him what you want him to do and how to do it, get a little filthy with your vocabulary.

— Amelia McDonell-Parry, 8 Things Men Want Women To Do In Bed

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Who doesn't love getting naked? Still, there's something so primal about clothes-on sex. While wearing a skirt or dress, get on the edge of the bed.

— Jennifer Benjamin, Simple sex tricks that make reaching orgasm feel less like rocket science

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You don’t have to go crazy and contort yourselves when you’re having sex. Sometimes just adjusting yourself a little bit – like lifting your legs up in the air during missionary, or squeezing your Kegel muscles during girl-on-top – can dramatically change the way things feel.

— Jillian Paulson, 20 Sex Tips We All Wish We Were Taught In High School

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Dare to have sex in public. There are tons of public places that are actually quite private, so you don’t have to risk getting arrested for public indecency to enjoy the thrill of pushing a boundary. Find a bathroom stall at a restaurant that locks and execute a quickie, or park your car in an alley or a sparsely populated lot and go crazy in the back seat like teenagers desperate for a sex sanctuary.

— Mélanie Berliet, Totally Doable: 50 Simple Sex Tips For Couples That Want To Have Fun Together In Bed Forever

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Kiss his neck. Men are just as sensitive in that spot as women are.

— Holly Riordan, 26 Seriously Sexy Things He Wants You To Do While Riding Him

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Talk dirty to him. If you're not used to it, it may feel WAY awkward, but the more you do it, the more second-nature it will become. And there's a bonus! It may turn you on, too.

— Becky, 15 Sex Tips For Women (From Men)

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Play with flavored lubricants. There are dozens to choose from, like chocolate pudding flavor, strawberry, tangerine. Even if you don't really need lubricants for intercourse, they're wholesomely lewd, and they increase sensation.

— L. L. Wing, 12 Amazing Sex Tricks He Secretly Wants You to Know

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Straddle your guy during your next bedroom session and begin to pull off his shirt. As it reaches his wrists, stop pulling. Grab the shirt with one hand (grasp the part in the middle between his arms) and use it to pin his wrists back to the bed like makeshift handcuffs. The more confident you are about doing it, the better. You'll be in control, and he won't have a clue what hit him. But he'll like it.

— Marissa Gold, 8 Sex Moves Every Woman Should Try Once

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No matter what position you're in, you can enhance the experience by gently exhaling on each other's skin.

— Jennifer Benjamin, Simple sex tricks that make reaching orgasm feel less like rocket science

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If he's having trouble getting a firm erection, rub a small amount of oil or lubricant onto your palms and put one hand firmly around the base of his penis. Work the other hand from the base up to the head in a circular, twisting motion, as if you were following a winding staircase up his appendage. Caress the head with your palm. Then start at the bottom again.

— Susan Crain Bakos, The 7 Sex Moves Men Love Most

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Role playing can be great and it will make your sex life a lot more fun.

— Jack Hutson, 7 Tips on How to Satisfy Him in Bed Better Than Any Other Woman

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Getting busy against a wall brings out an intense gotta-have-you-now-thrill. It can be tricky though, so try lifting your leg or have him bend his knees a bit.

— Christie Griffin, 31 Days of Sex

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