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50 Quotes That Will Expose His Lying Ass If He's Only Been Using You For Sex

You've never been with him and not been intimate.
Holly Riordan
September 2, 2016
“He gets frustrated when you invite him over to watch a movie and actually just want to watch a movie.”
— Frank Kobola, 14 Signs He's Only Interested in Sex
Tagged: using you, Sex, dates
“You never meet his friends. The less information you have about him, the easier it is for him to ghost you. If you don't know who he hangs out with, or where he lives, or what his last name is, he can disappear like a phantom into the night.”
— Frank Kobola, 14 Signs He's Only Interested in Sex
Tagged: using you, Friends, Ghosting
“He makes it really hard for you to sleep over. He never straight-up says you have to leave (That wouldn't get him a next hookup!) but he always has a "thing" really early the next morning.”
— Frank Kobola, 14 Signs He's Only Interested in Sex
Tagged: using you, Sex, Hookup
“He only notices how you look. While it’s great when someone appreciates your appearance and how terrific you look, you want to be loved and adored for your inner qualities, too. Men who are sincerely interested in a relationship with you will compliment you for qualities such as your intelligence, sense of humor, and values.”
— Larry Schwimmer, 10 Signs He Only Wants to Have Sex with You
Tagged: using you, looks, compliments, beauty
“Dates are pizza at your place. Men who are interested in courting you and getting to know you - want to be out in public, doing things with you, whether it’s going to a gallery opening or a chic new restaurant for a romantic dinner. Men who are only interested in sex don’t want to invest time or money in developing a relationship with you.”
— Larry Schwimmer, 10 Signs He Only Wants to Have Sex with You!
Tagged: using you, dates, Money, Time, Sex
“He gets angry if you don’t want to have sex. When a man loves your company and enjoys being with you - he just wants to be near you. You can invite him over to play a board game or to watch a movie.”
— Larry Schwimmer, 10 Signs He Only Wants to Have Sex with You
Tagged: using you, angry, Sex
“If your guy seems to always be MIA during the weekends, this is a clear sign that he is reserving weekends for someone else on his literal to-do list, or keeping his options open to meet other women.”
— Tristan Coopersmith, Booty call or is he in it for more?
Tagged: using you, Weekends, MIA
“A guy who is really into you will communicate regularly. A guy who is in it to sex it, calls, texts, emails and pops-over only when he is feeling frisky and knows that you will indulge his desires. If the sight of your man's name on your caller ID surprises you, chances are, this is a sex only situation.”
— Tristan Coopersmith, Booty call or is he in it for more?
Tagged: using you, Sex, Texting, booty calls
“He told you straight up that he doesn't want a girlfriend, doesn't have time for a girlfriend, can't deal with a girlfriend... and just wants to have casual fun. It is up to you if you want to listen... but remember, most guys don't want to deliver news that women don't want to hear unless they really mean it.”
— Tristan Coopersmith, Booty call or is he in it for more?
Tagged: using you, casual, Fun
“He skimps on foreplay. You've gone down on this guy how many times? And he never repays the favor? Well—it sounds like he's getting screwed, and you're getting screwed over.”
— Clint Carter, 9 Signs He's Only Interested in Sex
Tagged: using you, foreplay, blowjobs
“He's a little too good at making sure you don't forget anything. Don't forget your jacket. Oh, and here's your bra. And your lipstick. And your bobby pin.”
— Clint Carter, 9 Signs He's Only Interested in Sex
Tagged: using you, forget, personal items
“He never asks about your friends. Or your family. Or your job. If a guy's just looking for a fuck buddy, he'll avoid all the messy stuff.”
— Clint Carter, 9 Signs He's Only Interested in Sex
Tagged: using you, Communication, personal life
“There is zero cuddling happening. Sex can be a very intimate act. If your partner doesn’t show any physical affection outside of the act of sex itself, the sex is probably all they’re interested in.”
— Meredith Hirt, 15 Unmistakeable Signs Your Crush Is Using You For Sex
Tagged: using you, cuddling, affection, Sex
“They rarely talk to you when fully clothed. If you run into them at school or around town, it’s like you don’t even exist. Yet just a few nights ago you were naked together.”
— Meredith Hirt, 15 Unmistakeable Signs Your Crush Is Using You For Sex - Gurl.com
Tagged: using you, Naked, Communication
“They never talk about the future. You don’t have to plan your wedding and your house and kids, but bringing up plans to hang out in the future is a good sign—and not doing it is kind of a bad one. They should be making more room for you in their schedule with more preparation than just a late night text.”
— Meredith Hirt, 15 Unmistakeable Signs Your Crush Is Using You For Sex - Gurl.com
Tagged: using you, Future, Communication
“You’re his rebound. Are you dating a guy who’s just broken up with his girl? Or does your boyfriend spend a lot of time talking about his ex? If you’re dating a guy who’s still obsessed with his past, there’s a good chance that he’s still not over his ex and is using your intimacy only to stitch his heartbreak up.”
— Gerry Sanders, Is He Interested in You for All the Wrong Reasons?
Tagged: using you, rebound, Heartbroken, Exes
“If you’re a girl with a lot of money in the purse, you always need to be cautious about the kind of guys you date. Almost always, more than half the guys you date would be after your money than anything else.”
— Gerry Sanders, Is He Interested in You for All the Wrong Reasons?
Tagged: using you, Money, finances
“He always cancels plans with you. You're looking forward to hanging out together, but as soon as you are supposed to see him, he sends you a text saying he has to cancel.”
— Christy Goldstein, 5 Undeniable Signs He's Using You
Tagged: using you, plans, excuses, Texting
“He tells you everything you want to hear, but doesn't show you the things he says.
Actions speak louder than words, so if he's just filling you up with charming and charismatic words, without proving what he says is true, it's time to move on.”
— Christy Goldstein, 5 Undeniable Signs He's Using You
Tagged: using you, actions, Words, Lies
“He knows everything about you, but your knowledge of him is limited. Relationships are for learning about each other and seeing if you two are compatible. If he tells you very little about himself, he's either hiding something or he just doesn't want you to know him.”
— Christy Goldstein, 5 Undeniable Signs He's Using You
Tagged: using you, Relationships, Communication
“He may have bragged about how much money he makes and how much he spends, but when it comes time to pay, he always has an excuse for not taking the bill. He shouldn’t necessarily foot the bill for all your dates; the whole ‘the man should pay’ notion isn’t really fair. It’s fine to trade off paying for each other or splitting the bill. But not wanting to spend on you at all is definitely not normal if he really likes you.”
— Deepika Singhania, 10 Telltale Signs He Is Just Using You | New Love Times
Tagged: using you, Money, checks, finances
“You say you’re dating him, but you never really go out on dates together or do other things that couples usually do. He always just wants to ‘hang out’ with you when alcohol is involved, like at a party or a bar. In fact, that’s the only time he shows up for dates. If you call him to do anything else with you, he will likely cancel or not respond at all.”
— Deepika Singhania, 10 Telltale Signs He Is Just Using You | New Love Times
Tagged: using you, Alcohol, parties, bars
“He’s told you that you’re ‘hot’ but never that you’re ‘beautiful.'”
— Deepika Singhania, 10 Telltale Signs He Is Just Using You | New Love Times
Tagged: using you, Hot, Beautiful, compliments, beauty
“From the first time you met him and spent time alone together, you’ve slept together. You’ve never been with him and not been intimate.”
— Ryder Ramsey, 13 Signs He's Using You
Tagged: using you, Sex, Intimacy, Alone
“When you go out, he doesn’t really care if other guys look at you. In fact, he might actually like it. If you flirt with other guys or even tell him that you’re dating other people, it doesn’t phase him. He’s not interested in claiming you as his own.”
— Ryder Ramsey, 13 Signs He's Using You
Tagged: using you, Jealousy, other men
“As much as you’d like to, you know that at the end of the day, he’s not going to be there for you. Sure, he might be a nice guy and you might really like spending time with him. However, he’s not really in this to take care of you or be the guy that you can always depend on.”
— Ryder Ramsey, 13 Signs He's Using You
Tagged: using you, dependable, disappointing
“He shows no interest in getting to know you or your interests. All conversations quickly veer towards what he wants to do with you (or to you) when he gets you in bed.”
— Lorna Poole, 5 Brutal Ways To Know If He's Just Using You For Sex
Tagged: using you, sexting, dirty talk
“He dodges the 'where is this relationship going?' conversation.”
— Lorna Poole, 5 Brutal Ways To Know If He's Just Using You For Sex
Tagged: using you, Relationship, Sex, the talk
“He's never once called you his girlfriend though it's been months since you met and you've been seeing each other on and off. You ask him why; he avoids the question. He's so good at avoiding the question, in fact, that you've given up asking.”
— Lorna Poole, 5 Brutal Ways To Know If He's Just Using You For Sex
Tagged: using you, Girlfriend, relationship status
“When you’re in public and he’s giving women elevator eyes and making comments about their looks, you can be sure his heart is not with you. He’s just out for a good time.”
— Shannon Yrizarry, Is He Using Me ? 10 Signs He’s Just Using You
Tagged: using you, Flirting, staring