Growing up, people called me: Bossy. Conceited. Arrogant. But the truth is - boys would act the same way I did, but they'd call him: Ambitious. Visionary. A Leader.  You know what? At first it affected me, but then I decided that I wasn't going to change myself to please other people. I kept doing my thing. I surrounded myself with people who got me. Got that I wasn't trying to be "bossy" - that I was just trying to get things done.