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45 Ways To Ensure You Never Get Your Heart Broken Again

You don't respond to any of his texts or calls until he does something desperate. 
Kirsten Corley
September 7, 2016
“The experts’ advice on improving a marriage? To focus on the four As— attention, appreciation, affection, and attraction.”
— Nicholas Sparks, The Wedding (Novel Learning Series Book 2)
Tagged: Relationship Advice, Love, Making Relationships Work, Attention, Appreciation, affection, Attraction
“Instead of working so hard to please him, work harder to please yourself…because ultimately, this is what will truly please him.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Tagged: Why Men Love Bitches, Relationships, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“It becomes a burden if you lean on him too much. He is only human, and he has his own problems. Show him that you'll be an equal partner, which means that you also have something to contribute.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Tagged: Why Men Love Bitches, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Have you met his friends and family? It’s fairly conventional to wait a while before introducing a new partner to your parents, but after a few dates you should have at least met some of his friends in passing.”
— Eric Monroe, What He REALLY Means When He Says… - The Ultimate Guide to Understanding Men, Knowing What They REALLY Think and How to Read Their Minds in Every Situation
Tagged: Relationship Advice, Dating Advice, Dating Rules
“Does he pay attention to the things you tell him about yourself? If you told him today that you love Italian food, would he mention it in conversation next week? If you expressed an interest in opera, do you think he’d arrange a date at the opera house? If he’s interested in things about you, then he’s interested in getting to know you. And if he wants to try the things you like though he’s never been interested in them before now, that’s even better.”
— Eric Monroe, What He REALLY Means When He Says… - The Ultimate Guide to Understanding Men, Knowing What They REALLY Think and How to Read Their Minds in Every Situation
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Dating Rules
“You must want to be treated right by the right man far more than you want male attention.”
— Bruce Bryans, He’s Not That Interested, He’s Just Passing Time: 40 Unmistakable Behaviors Of Men Who Avoid Commitment And Play Games With Women
Tagged: Guy Advice, Dating Advice, Relationship Advice
“If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you he will.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Relationship Advice, Dating Advice
“Men don't forget how much they like you. So put down the phone.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice
“Beware of the word friend it is often used by men or women who that love them to excuse the most unfriendly behavior. Personally when I pick my friends I like to pick the ones that don't make me cry myself to sleep at night.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just not That Into You
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice
“It doesn't count unless he says it sober.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just not That Into You
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice
“Stop taking his calls and really let him know what it's like to live without him.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice
“Classy is walking away with your head held high graciously with your dignity. Being a doormat is offering to drive him to the dentist for a root canal.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice
“The biggest variable between a bitch and a woman who is too nice is fear. The bitch shows that she’s not afraid to be without him.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl- A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“If you smother him, he’ll go into defense mode and look for an escape route to protect his freedom.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice
“If you tell him you are not interested in jumping into a relationship with both feet, he will set out to try to change your mind.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“If a man has to wait before he sleeps with a woman, he’ll not only perceive her as more beautiful, he’ll also take time to appreciate who she is.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“Let him think he’s in control. He’ll automatically start doing things you want done because he’ll always want to look like ‘a king’ in your eyes.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“The more control you have over yourself, the more of a hold you will have on his heart.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Marry Bitches: A Woman's Guide to Winning Her Man's Heart
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice, Why Men Love Bitches, Why Men Marry Bitches
“Don’t even mention the word ‘commitment.’ That’s the whole trick. The less you say about it, the closer you are to getting one.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Marry Bitches: A Woman's Guide to Winning Her Man's Heart
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Why Men Love Bitches, Why Men Marry Bitches
“The magic formula is to give a little . . . and then pull back. Give a little . . . and then pull back.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Marry Bitches: A Woman's Guide to Winning Her Man's Heart
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Why Men Love Bitches, Why Men Marry Bitches
“Talking about feelings to a man will feel like work. When he’s with a woman, he wants it to feel like fun.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Tagged: Guy Advice, Dating Advice, Relationship Advice
“In the beginning, the only thing you need to pay attention to is whether he keeps coming around, because he’ll only be able to suspend or hide his emotions for so long.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“You have to show that you won’t accept mistreatment. Then you will keep his respect.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“Don’t give a reward for bad behavior.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Truly powerful people don’t explain why they want respect. They simply don’t engage someone who doesn’t give it to them.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Being a challenge will not only increase your chances of maintaining his interest, but it will also separate the lazy men from the ambitious ones.”
— Bruce Bryans, Never Chase Men Again: 38 Dating Secrets To Get The Guy, Keep Him Interested, And Prevent Dead-End Relationships
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“Do not confuse a great guy with the right guy. A man might be an irresistible catch and yet he may still not be ready or willing to give you the commitment you want.”
— Bruce Bryans, Never Chase Men Again: 38 Dating Secrets To Get The Guy, Keep Him Interested, And Prevent Dead-End Relationships
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“Ladies, I’m here to tell you that if a man tells you he has a commitment problem, nine times out of ten it simply means that he has a problem committing to you.”
— Bruce Bryans, Never Chase Men Again: 38 Dating Secrets To Get The Guy, Keep Him Interested, And Prevent Dead-End Relationships
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“We all have insecurities. It’s only human. But when it comes to dating men, you don’t want to do or say anything that clearly communicates that you don’t believe you’re worth it.”
— Bruce Bryans, Never Chase Men Again: 38 Dating Secrets To Get The Guy, Keep Him Interested, And Prevent Dead-End Relationships
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“You don’t respond to any of his texts or calls until he does something desperate [like] shows up. Or he calls and leaves a voice mail. Something that makes it very clear to you that he’s interested.”
— Taylor Swift, Taylor Swift Dating Tips
Tagged: Guy Advice, Relationship Advice