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16 Ways To Get A Man To Commit And What You Might've Been Doing Wrong Before

If you bring up you want a relationship too soon, he'll think you want one with anyone. 
Katie Mather
September 14, 2016
“Men want to feel manly and significant. They want to provide for you; it’s just in their nature to be that way. However, a man will only want to give to a woman who can happily receive what he has to offer, not one who is going to make unnecessary demands in order to feel good about herself and secure in the relationship.”
— Sabrina Alexis, Everything You Need To Know If You Want Love That Lasts
Tagged: What Men Want, Dating, How Men Think, Dating Tips
“A high-quality man who knows what he wants will NOT settle for just any woman to build a meaningful relationship with. Men like this want a woman who exudes high character. And though she may be beautiful on the outside, he expects her inner worth to be far superior to the women around her.”
— Bruce Bryans, The 7 Irresistible Qualities Men Want In A Woman: What High-Quality Men Secretly Look For When Choosing The One
Tagged: How To Get A Guy To Like You, Dating Secrets To Win Him Over, Dating Tips, Men, Falling In Love, inner beauty
“When a man realizes that you are the woman he wants for the long-term, his interactions with you will do two things: 1. Stoke your romantic desire for him, and 2. Create relationship comfort.”
— Bruce Bryans, He’s Not That Interested, He’s Just Passing Time: 40 Unmistakable Behaviors Of Men Who Avoid Commitment And Play Games With Women
Tagged: How To Get A Guy To Like You, Dating Tips, Dating Advice
“Making a man earn you is common sense, but when driven by a fear that the latest Mr. Right will pass you up, you overcompensate. Give him everything for free and watch how you get nothing in return but your time wasted.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Dating, Dating Tips, He Has To Earn It
“Men love independent women because they leave them alone. They love chasing women who are busy. It gives them a thrill, as big as a touchdown or a home run.”
— Ellen Fein, All the Rules: Time-Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right
Tagged: Independent Women, What Men Want, Dating Tips
“Always try to show utter contentment with him, yourself, the world. Be carefree. You’ll get less wrinkles and backaches; you’ll feel less stress. He’ll want you more when you’re the easygoing girl he dated— a creature unlike any other.”
— Ellen Fein, All the Rules: Time-Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right
Tagged: Dating Tips
“Never risk your self-respect by trying to force a man to take an interest in you. It is better to disregard a man who displays a wavering interest than to lose both your dignity and sanity fighting for his attention.”
— Bruce Bryans, Never Chase Men Again: 38 Dating Secrets To Get The Guy, Keep Him Interested, And Prevent Dead-End Relationships
Tagged: Relationship Advice, Dating Tips, Guy Advice
“The thing is, most men secretly crave appreciation, but they’ll never admit it for fear of looking needy or weak. The more you appreciate a man, I mean REALLY appreciate him, the better he’ll feel about himself. The better he feels about himself the more confident he will be in his ability to love you, romance you, and make you happy.”
— Bruce Bryans, Dating Deal Breakers That Drive Men Away
Tagged: Dating Advice, Dating Tips, Relationship Advice
“I can promise you one thing, they are not staring at their phone waiting for you to answer. I know its been 20 minutes. But guy time and girl time are two very different things. If you suddenly lose your shit and send a triple text, he's gonna feel a sense of threat and retreat. Put your phone down. Walk away. And behave normally.”
— Kirsten Corley, Guy Advice
Tagged: Dating Tips, Relationship Advice
“Instead of approaching a guy with the intention that he might be The One, do it with the notion that you will never see or talk to him again.”
— Matthew Hussey, Get the Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve by Matthew Hussey, Stephen Hussey(July 8, 2014) Audio CD
Tagged: Dating Tips, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“When a man takes a romantic interest in you I suggest you follow his lead at a pace that is most comfortable with you.”
— Bruce Bryans, How to Hook Mr. Right from the First Few Dates - Bruce Bryans
Tagged: Dating Tips, Relationship Advice
“Men feel love very differently from women. Where women crave love and affection as their primary relationship needs, men desperately crave respect and admiration.”
— Bruce Bryans, The 7 Irresistible Qualities Men Want In A Woman: What High-Quality Men Secretly Look For When Choosing “The One”
Tagged: Dating Tips, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“If a girl and I end up hooking up quickly, it doesn't necessarily mean I've written her off. All she needs to do to maintain my interest is…be awesome. Be interesting and interested in me. Plan cool events. For example, 'Hey, I've got an extra ticket to this show tonight. Want to go?' Go out and do things I'd want to do, and then invite me. Chances are I'll probably join you. Be willing to embrace the things men love.”
— Sam M., Dating Tips From Guys
Tagged: Dating Tips, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“Even if a guy is relationship ready, if you bring up on date three that you’re ready for a relationship he’ll likely question whether you really want to be in a relationship with HIM or if you’re ready for a relationship with anyone. He’s going to wonder how, after two dinners and one museum trip, you already know that you want him to be your boyfriend.”
— Marni Battista, Dating Tips for Women From Men | eHarmony Advice
Tagged: Tips To Commit, Dating, Relationship, Advice
“Men are simply not attracted to women who try and convince them to be in a more serious relationship with them. Instead, men are deeply and naturally attracted to women who live their lives and have certain ‘standards’ when it comes to interacting with men. And one of the unspoken standards that is most attractive to a man is a woman who is what I call ‘selective.'”
— Christian Carter, What Makes A Man Want Exclusivity With You | eHarmony Advice
Tagged: Get Him To Commit, Commitment, Men, Dating, Relationships, Attraction
“When you present your needs and boundaries like this, the right man will realize he’d be a fool to lose you. The right man will step up to the plate and ASK YOU for the commitment you’re after…and he’ll swell up thinking it was his idea all along and that he’s ‘won’ you.”
— Christian Carter, What Makes A Man Want Exclusivity With You | eHarmony Advice
Tagged: Get Him To Commit, Commitment, Men, Dating, Relationships, Attraction