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Follow These Flirting Tips For Girls That Like Girls, So She Realizes You're Not Just Being Friendly

A simple compliment, when done in a very sincere, charming way, can open a lot of doors.
Holly Riordan
January 18, 2017
“Eye contact is so important no matter who you are flirting with, but most of the time, girls will respond better when you meet their eyes!”
— Heather Jensen, 17 Lesbian Flirting Tips ...
Tagged: Lesbian, Eye Contact, Flirting
“Be confident. Does that sound cliche? It might, but that’s because it’s true. No one’s going to believe in your game if you don’t believe in your game (even if you’re not the gaming type). And confidence, not to be confused with cockiness or flashiness, is attractive.”
— Phoenix, How To Pick Up Chicks: A Lesbian Guide to Getting Girl-on-Girl Action
Tagged: Lesbian, Confidence, Attractive
“Figure out what makes you look cute and do it. I like to smirk and nod. My girlfriend apparently used to wink to pick up girls. Did you know that people still winked? That’s because they don’t, and that’s why it worked.”
— Phoenix, How To Pick Up Chicks: A Lesbian Guide to Getting Girl-on-Girl Action
Tagged: Lesbian, Winking, Flirting, smiling
“Touch. This doesn’t mean grope. This doesn’t mean yawn and put your arm around or sticking hands inside of pockets and keeping them warm while I’m still here. This means putting your hand on her arm when you laugh or putting your arm around her shoulders (no fake yawning allowed).”
— Phoenix, How To Pick Up Chicks: A Lesbian Guide to Getting Girl-on-Girl Action
Tagged: Lesbian, touching, Flirting
“Compliment her. As women, we know what a compliment can do. A simple compliment, when done in a very sincere, charming way, can open a lot of doors.”
— Lesbian News, 5 lesbian-style flirting tips
Tagged: Lesbian, compliments, charming
“When you’re flirting, you want the girl to feel comfortable. When you’re flirting, it’s like hosting a party and you’re inviting her in. You don’t want to make your guest get bored. You also want to make her feel important. One way of being a good host is to pretend you’re a talk show host and ask your guest questions. One advantage to this is that you get to know things about her.”
— Lesbian News, 5 lesbian-style flirting tips
Tagged: Lesbian, Questions, Listening
“Nothing beats honesty. If the flirting fails, you can say to yourself, you were just being honest. It’s better than being insincere and failing.”
— Lesbian News, 5 lesbian-style flirting tips
Tagged: Lesbian, Honesty, Flirting
“If you're sitting across from each other, gently put your hand on hers. Don't move it away unless she does.”
— Kathy Belge, 11 Essential Lesbian Flirting Tips
Tagged: Lesbian, touching, Holding Hands
“Offer to get her a drink if you're at a party or bar together.”
— Kathy Belge, 11 Essential Lesbian Flirting Tips
Tagged: Lesbian, Alcohol, Drinks
“It may sound corny, but open a door for her to walk through.”
— Kathy Belge, 11 Essential Lesbian Flirting Tips
Tagged: Lesbian, polite, Flirting
“Touch her hand while talking to her, brush your skin against her arm while sharing a few laughs or wrap your arms around her shoulders. If possible, purposely sit very close to her or twirl her hair. If she doesn’t resist, then consider your job half done!”
— Nina Rizon, 7 Flirting Tips to Get You Some Girl on Girl Action
Tagged: Lesbian, touching, hair
“Bark up the right tree. This is a must! A prelude to the whole flirting scene is knowing first that you are flirting with the same breed.”
— Nina Rizon, 7 Flirting Tips to Get You Some Girl on Girl Action
Tagged: Lesbian, sexuality, Sexual Orientation
“Know your style, dress to impress, wear your best perfume, and most importantly, be comfortable with yourself and your whole self-package.”
— Nina Rizon, 7 Flirting Tips to Get You Some Girl on Girl Action
Tagged: Lesbian, perfume, clothing
“Obviously you should drop hints that you like the other person – that’s what flirting is. At the same time though, drop hints as to your own sexual orientation. This quickly makes the problem of finding out if they’re gay or not obsolete – as once they know you’re into women they’ll figure out what’s going on and they’ll either start flirting back… or move away slightly…”
— Adam Sinicki, Flirting Tips for Lesbians
Tagged: Lesbian, sexuality, Sexual Orientation
“Move the conversation to talk about dating and relationships. This is a great time to drop in that you’re gay, but at the same time it gets them thinking about you in that way. At the same time you can also discuss your interests and preferences when it comes to dating which is a great way to find out if you’re compatible and it allows you to discuss a common interest – something that straight people can’t really utilize in the same way.”
— Adam Sinicki, Flirting Tips for Lesbians
Tagged: Lesbian, sexuality, Sexual Orientation
“Offer to share clothes and makeup. It’s intimate if you’re sharing something like lipstick, and at the same time it gets them feeling ‘obligated’ and further wanting to please you. Likewise you can ask to share something of theirs – and if it’s makeup that’s a great way to get them on their own as you go to freshen up together too.”
— Adam Sinicki, Flirting Tips for Lesbians
Tagged: Lesbian, Makeup, sharing
“First and foremost, try to spend more time with her. Remember that attention is very valuable for women.”
— Flirt, How to Flirt With a Lesbian- Blog Flirt.com
Tagged: Lesbian, Time, Attention
“Lean in. When spending time with her and talking, find an opportunity or a reason to lean in. In this case, you’ll be closer to her. Besides, you’ll let her feel your perfume and the connection between you, if any. Yes, girls adore a good aroma.”
— Flirt, How to Flirt With a Lesbian- Blog Flirt.com
Tagged: Lesbian, perfume, scent
“Keep the conversation short. Even if it’s going really well, exit early. You will leave on a high note and create a sense of urgency. This will leave her intrigued and wanting a bit more of you.”
— Rocky Merchant, The 4-Step Guide For Girl On Girl Flirting When You're At The Bar
Tagged: Lesbian, Conversation, Mystery
“Keep it light and friendly. Just place a few fingers lightly on top of her forearm, shoulder or – if you’re very bold – the small of her back. This will send a flattering and unequivocal message you’re romantically interested in her.”
— Rocky Merchant, The 4-Step Guide For Girl On Girl Flirting When You're At The Bar
Tagged: Lesbian, touching, Flirting
“Try commenting on something unique about the atmosphere, like the bar decor or on something she might be wearing. This shows you’re paying attention. For example, if she’s wearing something to stand out – jewelry, unique clothing or a princess tiara – comment on it.”
— Rocky Merchant, The 4-Step Guide For Girl On Girl Flirting When You're At The Bar
Tagged: Lesbian, Conversation Starter, comments
“Try to keep the conversation lighthearted — after all, most of us seem more sexual attractive when we’re laughing and smiling than when we’re scowling.”
— The Love Queen, Flirting Advice- Flirt like an Expert! - The Love Queen
Tagged: Lesbian, Conversation, Laughing
“After the conversation has gone on for a while, say how much you enjoy talking with him/her and say you hope the two of you can meet again at a later date.”
— The Love Queen, Flirting Advice- Flirt like an Expert! - The Love Queen
Tagged: Lesbian, Conversation, Goodbyes
“Your opening remark will set the tone for your conversation, so be careful to steer clear of negativity (if you’re at a bar, for instance, don’t complain about how weak the drinks are or how bad the service is). Don’t lose your nerve and ask them something so general (like directions to the nearest bus stop or whether the bar serves food) that they can’t tell you’re trying to flirt.”
— The Love Queen, Flirting Advice- Flirt like an Expert! - The Love Queen
Tagged: Lesbian, Conversation Starter, Positivity
“Memorize a great joke (or one that's so bad it's good). Knowing you can pull it out anytime means you'll never have an awkward pause in conversation. Plus, if you make someone laugh, you're totally in.”
— Elisa Benson, 30 Easy Flirting Tips That Any Girl Can Do
Tagged: Lesbian, humor, Jokes
“Send a quick flirty text a minute after you trade numbers. It will take them by surprise and make them smile.”
— Elisa Benson, 30 Easy Flirting Tips That Any Girl Can Do
Tagged: Lesbian, Texting, Surprises
“Leave them wanting more. Go in for a kiss at the end of the night — but then turn your head and whisper you had a nice time instead.”
— Elisa Benson, 30 Easy Flirting Tips That Any Girl Can Do
Tagged: Lesbian, Kissing, teasing
“Flick your hair to the other side slowly with one hand while talking.”
— Cheryl James, 30 Subtle, Obvious and Really Sexy Flirting Tips for Girls
Tagged: Lesbian, Flirting, hair
“The next time you need to get up to go to the bathroom, do that thing where you needlessly brush them as you walk past, like, ‘OMG it’s so crowded in here, sorry I have to squeeze by you!'”
— Arianna Rebolini, Katie Heaney, 9 Foolproof Flirting Tips For The Socially Awkward
Tagged: Lesbian, touching, Flirting
“If every time you hang out – or fairly early in the conversation with an attractive new person at a party – the conversation repeatedly turns to being queer, what it means, how you experience it, how you came out, etc…then it’s worth considering it might be a hint. Bonus points for meeting each other’s eyes intensely and then looking away.”
— Sasha Garwood, 9 Signs the Girl You Like Is Actually Into You and Not Just Being Polite
Tagged: Lesbian, sexuality, Flirting