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50 Super Steamy Items To Add To Your Sex Bucket List

50 Super Steamy Items To Add To Your Sex Bucket List

Try anal sex.

Learn to give yourself multiple orgasms.

— Sasha Brown-Worsham, The Ultimate Sexual Bucket List: 75 Sex Acts to Try Before You Die

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Read erotica. 50 Shades of Grey is crap. Read the Beautiful series by Christina Lauren and get back to me.

— Casey Mullins, 9 Things To Put On Your Sex Bucket List — And 3 You Can Skip

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Sex with someone of the same sex. Exploring someone’s body that is similar to yours can be electrifying and even educational as well as opening you up to erotic pleasures you’ve never tried before!

— Rebecca Lowrie, Try some Tantra - 10 sex tricks to try at least once

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Try anal sex.

— Wally Bryton, 42 Ideas For Your Sex Bucket List

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Bathe together. Draw a warm bath and take out those aromatic oils to make the experience even more sensual. Then, lead your special someone to the bathtub as you both undress—and don’t forget the flower petals and tea light candles.

— Tiffany Grace Reyes, Sexual Bucket List - 17 Fun Sex Ideas You HAVE to Try!

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Keep the lights on. Make a no-blankets rule, and enjoy the view—he sure will.

— Elizabeth Narin, Your Ultimate Sex To-Do List

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Sex marathon. Ever just devote an entire day, and maybe the night, to having sex? During a sex marathon, you do just that, taking to the bed for hours on end, trying new positions, toys, lubes, you name it. Yes, this definitely could get exhausting (and I recommend you give yourself time to eat, and have a break, of course) but it could also be insanely fun.

— Kristin Magaldi, 13 Things To Put On Your Ultimate Sex Bucket List

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Tie your man to the bed and give him a blowjob or handjob.

— Sean Jameson, 9 Kinky Sex Ideas

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Sex while blindfolded. The easiest way to take sex ever so slightly out of your comfort zone. Need convincing? Just think: All other senses heightened.

— Ellen Scott, 23 sex things everyone should try at least once

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At least attempt to sext.

— Danielle Pryor, The Sexual Bucket List You Didn't Know You Needed

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Perform a striptease. While you’re wearing that lacy number, why not put it to good use? Pick your favorite sexy song (‘You Can Leave Your Hat On’ by Joe Cocker and ‘Pony’ by Ginuwine are good choices), turn down the lights, and have your partner sit on a chair or the couch. Trace sexy circles with your hips, bend over and touch your toes, and straddle his lap—bring those moves you’ve seen in movies and music videos to life. If you want to tease him even more, tell him he’s not allowed to touch you until the striptease is over.

— Sabrina Rogers-Anderson, Your One-a-Month Sex Bucket List

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Get a lap dance.

— Erin Stevens, Your Ultimate Sex Bucket List

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Give him icy oral. Add an unexpected element to your mouth routine by having ice on hand before you go down on your guy.

— Faye Brennan, Top Ten: The Ultimate Hot-Sex Bucket List

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Tantra. Tantra isn’t just fluffy feathers and luxurious touch, it’s a way of totally reframing sexuality into something sacred, ecstatic and mind-blowingly amazing.

— Rebecca Lowrie, 10 sex tricks to try at least once

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Play strip poker.

— Wally Bryton, 42 Ideas For Your Sex Bucket List

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Sex in the rain. There is something inherently sexy about a dripping wet body, so sex in the rain is a no-brainer. Try it on a warm, sunny day and enjoy the sensation of the cool rain splashing against your hot bodies.

— Jessica O'Reilly, Your Summer Sex Bucket List: 5 Must-Try Ideas | iVillage.ca

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Go skinny dipping.

— Lisette Mejia, The Ultimate Summer Couples Bucket List

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Sex swing. If your plan is to have sex with this one person for the rest of your life then you MUST spice things up, and the sex swing is just good old fashion fun. Guys on top, girls on top, it doesn’t matter because the sex swing allows so many different positions and methods.

— Kyle Dowling, 9 Sex Acts That Every Couple Should Try

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Have a fling with your friend’s roommate. See how long you can keep this from your friend.

— Liz Newman, The NYC Sex and Dating Bucket List

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Have phone sex.

— Gabrielle Moore, 50 Hot Tips For Your Sexual Bucket List - Eligible Magazine

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Sex with someone who doesn't speak any English.

— Danielle Pryor, The Sexual Bucket List You Didn't Know You Needed

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Shaving each other can make you see your favorite body parts of your partner in a whole new light and even give you a deeper appreciation of each other. Shaving requires a lot of trust and you must also be comfortable enough with each other, especially if you are going to snip off those growing hairs in each other’s private parts. It’s a fun and sexy test of your relationship.

— Tiffany Grace Reyes, Sexual Bucket List - 17 Fun Sex Ideas You HAVE to Try!

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Have one night stand.

— Wally Bryton, 42 Ideas For Your Sex Bucket List

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Giving your man a blowjob or handjob in front of other people.

— Sean Jameson, 9 Kinky Sex Ideas: Very Freaky Tips To Spice Up Sex

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Spanking. If more hardcore BDSM is not your cup of tea, then at least try to bring some spanking into your sexual repertoire. After all, many forms of rope playing involve spanking and power play. You don’t need to have any equipment, but be sure to do it right and aim for the fatty, full parts of your partner’s behind.

— Tiffany Grace Reyes, Sexual Bucket List - 17 Fun Sex Ideas You HAVE to Try!

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Watch erotic flicks that turn you both on.

— Faye Brennan, Top Ten: The Ultimate Hot-Sex Bucket List

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Get a couples massage.

— Augusta Falletta, The Couples Bucket List You'll Actually Want To Do

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Give him a sensual massage. There’s nothing like a naked, oily rubdown to get you in the mood. Put a large towel down on the bed and have your partner lie on his stomach. Using scented massage oil, rub his back, shoulders, arms, neck, and head with your hands.

— Sabrina Rogers-Anderson, Your One-a-Month Sex Bucket List

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Threesome. When it comes to sexual experimentation, having a threesome is the classic. After all, what is more daring than having sex with not one but two different people?

— Kristin Magaldi, 13 Things To Put On Your Ultimate Sex Bucket List

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Get freaky on film.

— Erin Stevens, Your Ultimate Sex Bucket List

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Touch each other under the dinner table out at a restaurant.

— Gabrielle Moore, 50 Hot Tips For Your Sexual Bucket List - Eligible Magazine

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Call someone out when they’ve finished and you haven’t. No, orgasms aren’t necessary to great sex, and sex shouldn’t be treated in a super goal-driven way. But on those occasions when you definitely could have an orgasm, but the person you’re sexing has already finished and rolled over, it’s time to say something.

— Ellen Scott, 23 sex things everyone should try at least once

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Get tied up.

— Erin Stevens, Your Ultimate Sex Bucket List

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Body paint each other.

— Lisette Mejia, The Ultimate Summer Couples Bucket List

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Using a vibrator. Um, there are still people who don't own one? Women, get on the vibratory train! If you're not comfortable taking care of business alone, go ahead and involve your partner.

— Casey Mullins, 9 Things To Put On Your Sex Bucket List — And 3 You Can Skip

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Rock sexy lingerie. And keep it on during the act.

— Elizabeth Narins, Your Ultimate Sex To-Do List

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Using feather ticklers.

— Casey Mullins, 9 Things To Put On Your Sex Bucket List — And 3 You Can Skip

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Share fantasies. Fantasies are a creative way to keep your sex life fun and interesting. Fantasies can be as simple as having sex in a daring place to something more elaborate that involves costumes and props. Fantasies are a great way to explore different parts of yourself and your partner too.

— Rebecca Lowrie, 10 sex tricks to try at least once

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Take adult sex ed. You go to cooking or yoga classes, so why not brush up on your sex skills, too?

— Faye Brennan, Top Ten: The Ultimate Hot-Sex Bucket List

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Be a voyeur and watch others having sex.

— Sasha Brown-Worsham, The Ultimate Sexual Bucket List: 75 Sex Acts to Try Before You Die

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Wear cuffs and a collar that can be tied together quickly and easily.

— Sean Jameson, 9 Kinky Sex Ideas: Very Freaky Tips To Spice Up Sex

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Play with your food. Bring a selection of enticing foods into the bedroom. Chocolate sauce, whipped cream, and strawberries all make for sensual additions to a romp. Drizzle or place them on various body parts and lick or nibble them off. When your sweet tooth is satisfied, your sexual appetite will be reaching fever pitch.

— Sabrina Rogers-Anderson, Your One-a-Month Sex Bucket List

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Eat spaghetti like Lady and the Tramp.

— Lisette Mejia, The Ultimate Summer Couples Bucket List

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Lock down a booty call with someone who lives near you. Maybe even in your building, if you’re ballsy enough for that potential fallout.

— Liz Newman, The NYC Sex and Dating Bucket List

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Have a quickie. Sometimes feeling rushed can be pretty hot.

— Ellen Scott, 23 sex things everyone should try at least once

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Masturbate, obviously. If you can't get yourself off, then no one else will.

— Danielle Pryor, The Sexual Bucket List You Didn't Know You Needed

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Spend an entire day naked together.

— Gabrielle Moore, 50 Hot Tips For Your Sexual Bucket List - Eligible Magazine

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The G-spot orgasm. It may take some mastering at first, but getting in touch with your G-spot could definitely transform your sex life. The best way to practice? Try good old doggy style, as featured in the picture above. It's the best position to hit the G-spot because your partner's penis is naturally angled downward, giving him easier access to it.

— Kristin Magaldi, 13 Things To Put On Your Ultimate Sex Bucket List

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Sex outside. The fear of getting caught adds a thrill, while the fresh air makes the deed feel even more primal.

— Elizabeth Narins, Your Ultimate Sex To-Do List

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Kiss a girl.

— Sasha Brown-Worsham, The Ultimate Sexual Bucket List: 75 Sex Acts to Try Before You Die

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