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50 Oral Sex Tips To Give Her The Most Intense Orgasm Of Her Whole Damn Life

Don't approach it like you are doing her a favor. 
Holly Riordan
August 17, 2016
“Your partner probably knows the position that’s most comfortable for her to be in, but if she’s open to suggestions, put a pillow under her butt to lift her pelvis up, which will give you great leverage—and make her feel fantastic.”
— Erin Stevens, The Best Oral Sex of Her Life: 7 Easy Steps
Tagged: Oral Sex, sex positions, pillows, Sex
“You must start off in a teasing manner in the beginning. A slight lick of the tongue going up and down is good, licking the thighs at first and then slowly starting to move down, gaining intensity and speed.”
— Erin Stevens, The Best Oral Sex of Her Life: 7 Easy Steps
Tagged: Oral Sex, teasing, licking, speed
“Don’t be afraid of breaking out the vibrator! It can be an invaluable tool to the art of oral. The average woman takes 20 minutes to climax from oral sex, so you’re going to be there for a while. There’s no shame in implementing the help of a tried-and-true toy.”
— Erin Stevens, The Best Oral Sex of Her Life: 7 Easy Steps
Tagged: Oral Sex, vibrator, sex toys
“Keep reminding that she looks, smells, and tastes amazing at each step of the process. The more at ease she feels, the more she’ll be able to enjoy herself.”
— Vanessa Marin, How To Go Down On A Girl For The First Time, In 7 Sexy Steps
Tagged: Oral Sex, compliments, Comfort
“A great way to get a sense of what she likes is to start tracing your tongue in a wide circle around her clitoris, without touching it. Slowly work your way closer to the clit, then eventually do circles on top of the clit. See what she responds to, or ask her where she likes it best.”
— Vanessa Marin, How To Go Down On A Girl For The First Time, In 7 Sexy Steps
Tagged: Oral Sex, clitoris, licking
“Try wetting your finger with her vaginal juices, then slowly easing it into her. You can move your hand in and out, or make a ‘come here’ motion that will stroke her G-spot. You can also use a finger to trace the folds of her labia, or use your hands to pull her labia further apart, or to stroke her thighs or breasts.”
— Vanessa Marin, How To Go Down On A Girl For The First Time, In 7 Sexy Steps
Tagged: Oral Sex, penetration, g-spot
“Pay attention to what she’s doing. If she’s squirming, moaning, and clawing at the sheets, congratulations! Keep up the good work. If she looks bored, she probably is, which means it’s time to employ a different technique.”
— Zeynep Yenisey, 7 Things To Know Before You Go Down On Her
Tagged: Oral Sex, Listening, pay attention
“When you get into a good rhythm and she’s about to orgasm, resist the urge to speed up or change anything. Trust that you both communicate honestly enough that she'll tell you if something's not working.”
— Zeynep Yenisey, 7 Things To Know Before You Go Down On Her
Tagged: Oral Sex, orgasm, Communication, Trust
“There are so many things you can do with your tongue that you've got no excuse not to try different techniques and see what she likes. You can make your tongue flat, pointy, stiff, or soft, you can draw circles, suck, or flick... the list goes on.”
— Zeynep Yenisey, 7 Things To Know Before You Go Down On Her
“Not too much chin, please. Overly chinny oral sex for women is like overly toothy oral sex for men.”
— Anna Breslaw, How Not to Go Down on a Girl
Tagged: Oral Sex, chins, Mistakes
“That five o'clock shadow that looked super hot on you while we were at dinner does not feel hot when it is brushing against the sensitive petals of a lady's Wonder Orchid. Furthermore, spin class with crotchal beard-burn hurts like a motherfucker. Be more considerate!”
— Anna Breslaw, How Not to Go Down on a Girl
Tagged: Oral Sex, beard, scratching, shaving
“Don't approach it like you are doing her a favor. You're going down on her, not reluctantly skipping your fantasy sports game to go to her zitty cousin's graduation dinner.”
— Anna Breslaw, How Not to Go Down on a Girl
Tagged: Oral Sex, favors, Enthusiasm
“I suggest that you turn your mouth, or your whole body, sideways to meet it where it is – and make out with it. Soft kisses at first, all over. Then, bring the tongue in, lightly at first – keeping your lips glued to hers, literally just like you were kissing her real mouth. Let the tongue go deeper, suck the clit, its shaft and hood (the whole central area of the pussy) in and out of your mouth. Sink your tongue inside her vagina. Have fun.”
— Alisa Bowman, How To Go Down On A Woman
Tagged: Oral Sex, Kissing, licking
“Take your time getting there. Unless it’s one of those intense sexual hook-ups where the throw-down is in over-drive or you only have 10 minutes until the kids come home from school, don’t go straight for the goods. Take some time to kiss her whole body, every once in a while brush by her pussy – with your lips, your fingers your tongue – just enough to let it know you’re on your way.”
— Alisa Bowman, How To Go Down On A Woman
Tagged: Oral Sex, teasing, Patience
“A surprising number of people don’t know this – but the clit isn’t just a little button floating in the pussy. The button is connected to a shaft – much like the penis. It’s incredibly stimulating to have a finger on each side of the shaft rubbing up and down – just as you would do to a penis. (Up and down can either mean from the base up to the clit or back and forth from the top of the pussy towards the bottom). Of course, the tongue can also rub the shaft and the lips can move around it as they would on a cock.”
— Alisa Bowman, How To Go Down On A Woman
Tagged: Oral Sex, clitoris, licking
“You might occasionally want to gently suck her clitoris, as the suction can give a different sensation. Some women will like this, some won’t. And even a girl that likes it one day may not the next day.”
— Karen Martinez, How To Give A Woman Oral Sex - Advice From A Girl For Guys
Tagged: Oral Sex, clitoris, sucking
“It’s really important to use the flatter and softer part of your tongue – especially at the start when she may not be fully aroused and not ready for the additional pressure and speed that the tip can bring.”
— Karen Martinez, How To Give A Woman Oral Sex - Advice From A Girl For Guys
Tagged: Oral Sex, tongue, arousal, pressure, speed
“When giving a woman oral sex, try to get yourself into a position where your hands are free to add an extra element. If you’re able to caress her body and breasts while giving oral, then great.”
— Karen Martinez, How To Give A Woman Oral Sex – Advice From A Girl For Guys
Tagged: Oral Sex, sex positions, hands
“Now if you really want to take things up a notch, and you’re pretty open-minded sexually, consider lick around her other hole while you are down there. Rimming will give her multiple sensations, and you will prove your commitment to her naked body!”
— Tasha Reign, 8 Tips For Going Down On A Girl, According To Tasha Reign
Tagged: Oral Sex, anal, rimming
“Take your time! Guys are always rushing through this and trying to get right to the sex before it’s time! Make her orgasm first, so you can fuck her silly after. She will enjoy sex so much better when she’s properly warmed up!”
— Tasha Reign, 8 Tips For Going Down On A Girl, According To Tasha Reign
Tagged: Oral Sex, Patience, orgasm
“Make sure your tongue is as consistent and active as you would want her to be when she goes down on you. Follow the same pattern, over and over again, with a hint of variety for fun.”
— Tasha Reign, 8 Tips For Going Down On A Girl, According To Tasha Reign
Tagged: Oral Sex, licking, Patterns, Variety
“My clitoris is a sensitive creature. Please do not tongue-punch her as if you’re trying to retrieve a very stubborn sprinkle from a tub of molasses.”
— Tatiana Pérez, 13 Women On The One Thing They Wish All Guys Knew About Oral Sex
Tagged: Oral Sex, licking, clitoris
“Hey, guys, you know how it doesn’t feel that great when a girl goes down on you after spending a week in the Sahara without water or, like, a stick of gum? It’s always smart to hydrate beforehand.”
— Tatiana Pérez, 13 Women On The One Thing They Wish All Guys Knew About Oral Sex
Tagged: Oral Sex, hydrate, Water
“Trim your nails! Trim your goddamn nails.”
— Tatiana Pérez, 13 Women On The One Thing They Wish All Guys Knew About Oral Sex
Tagged: Oral Sex, nails, hygiene
“Tell your girl she’s beautiful, and let her know how into it you are, too. That’ll go a long way.”
— Korin Miller, 15 Things We REALLY Wish Guys Knew About Giving Oral
Tagged: Oral Sex, compliments, beauty, Comfort
“While we know you want to use every tool you’ve got when you’re down there, never, ever use your teeth.”
— Korin Miller, 15 Things We REALLY Wish Guys Knew About Giving Oral
Tagged: Oral Sex, teeth, Mistakes
“Know that trick you read where spelling the alphabet on her ladybits with your tongue is the best thing ever? It’s not. It’s just weird.”
— Korin Miller, 15 Things We REALLY Wish Guys Knew About Giving Oral
Tagged: Oral Sex, tongue, licking
“Once you make it to her clit and vagina, gently lick all around. Direct stimulation can be too intense for some, so explore the surrounding area. Ask her where she likes to be touched. You don't have to be rough with your mouth unless she wants you to. It's always best to start off slow, unless she specifically requests otherwise. Some women do like it when you roughly use your tongue and mouth, but only do so if she asks.”
— Heather Jennings, 6 Oral Sex Techniques That Deserve Some Kind Of Medal
Tagged: Oral Sex, rough, licking, direct stimulation
“Try the reverse hug technique. This shouldn't be too hard if you're in good shape. You'll need to hold her upside down in front of you. Her head and shoulders should rest on the bed, and her back should rest against your chest and stomach. Hold her up a bit so that she won't feel too much pressure around her neck. Just wrap your arms around her stomach and lower your face between her legs.”
— Heather Jennings, 6 Oral Sex Techniques That Deserve Some Kind Of Medal
Tagged: Oral Sex, sex positions, sex techniques
“Another fun oral position to try is "under the sink." She stands right next to the side of the bed and squats down a little. There should just be enough room for you to lay on your back on the bed and place your head between her legs. She is mostly in control of her own pleasure. She can squat further, tilt, lean back, etc. This position is pretty easy for you both to do. She just needs to give you enough room so that you don't strain your neck.”
— Heather Jennings, 6 Oral Sex Techniques That Deserve Some Kind Of Medal
Tagged: Oral Sex, sex positions, bedroom