How To Be Good At Sex Quotes

Tame it though we may try, sex has a recurring tendency to wreak havoc across our lives: It leads us to destroy our relationships, threatens our productivity, and compels us to stay up too late in nightclubs talking to people whom we don’t like but whose exposed midriffs we nevertheless strongly wish to touch. Sex remains in absurd, and perhaps irreconcilable, conflict with some of our highest commitments and values. [...] Perhaps we should accept that sex is inherently rather odd instead of blaming ourselves for not responding in more normal ways to its confusing impulses.

— Alain de Botton, How to Think More About Sex

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Of course, when I’m dating someone, I want them to value me for my ideas and accomplishments and humor or whatever. But when I’m fucking someone, I want them to value my lack of a gag reflex.

— Karley Sciortino, What Do Your Sexual Fantasies Say About You?

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I have this friend—she’s a polyamorous molecular biologist who’s into extreme BDSM (obviously). Recently, she told me that she regularly masturbates to the idea of men having sex with animals. Despite being generally prepared to hear something extreme come out of her mouth, I was still pretty shocked when she said that. But her explanation of the fantasy made sense to me. She told me, ‘It’s not that I’m into animals. Rather, I’m turned-on by the idea that a man is so horny, so compelled by the power of his sexuality, that he would literally fuck anything—even a donkey.’ And that is something I get.

— Karley Sciortino, What Do Your Sexual Fantasies Say About You?

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I once had a guy tell me that he doesn’t go down on women because he’s a germaphobe. Are you kidding me? How am I supposed to relax and feel good about myself after you basically called my vagina dirty? It’s so much more of a turn-on to be with someone who’s kind of gross—someone who wants to smell my dirty underwear and lick my teeth and spit in my mouth. Like, I’m in my 30s now—I’m too old to date a guy who won’t kiss me after I give him a blow job.

— Karley Sciortino, What Do Your Sexual Fantasies Say About You?

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I don’t think we need to file all of our actions under ‘feminist’ or ‘not feminist’—especially since consensual sex kind of exists in a political vacuum: It’s pretty much the one place that we can just do things and move on, no angry think-piece needed.

— Karley Sciortino, What Do Your Sexual Fantasies Say About You?

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I need to talk and not with my mouth.

— Ryan Adams, Infinity Blues

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Have sex a few times and you quickly learn: The person you’re banging is just another human, like you.

— Kate Sloan, Being Slutty Made Me More Empathetic

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That's your job in this hard world, to keep your love alive and see that you get on, no matter what. Pull your act together and just go on.

— Stephen King, The Shining,

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Orgasms are like the price of heels at Balenciaga. If you have to ask, get the fuck out.

— Sarah Nicole Prickett, How to Have Sex With Me One Time

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— Alain de Botton, How to Think More About Sex

Of course, when I’m dating someone, I want them to value me for my ideas and accomplishments and humor or whatever. But when I’m fucking someone, I want them to value my lack of a gag reflex.

— Karley Sciortino, What Do Your Sexual Fantasies Say About You?

— Karley Sciortino, What Do Your Sexual Fantasies Say About You?

— Karley Sciortino, What Do Your Sexual Fantasies Say About You?

I don’t think we need to file all of our actions under ‘feminist’ or ‘not feminist’—especially since consensual sex kind of exists in a political vacuum: It’s pretty much the one place that we can just do things and move on, no angry think-piece needed.

— Karley Sciortino, What Do Your Sexual Fantasies Say About You?

I need to talk and not with my mouth.

— Ryan Adams, Infinity Blues

Have sex a few times and you quickly learn: The person you’re banging is just another human, like you.

— Kate Sloan, Being Slutty Made Me More Empathetic

That's your job in this hard world, to keep your love alive and see that you get on, no matter what. Pull your act together and just go on.

— Stephen King, The Shining,

Orgasms are like the price of heels at Balenciaga. If you have to ask, get the fuck out.

— Sarah Nicole Prickett, How to Have Sex With Me One Time