“The problem is not in the girl who needed too much from him or the guy who exuded a fake arrogance to hide his vulnerability.

The problem is that these people are mirroring back to us our own issues, and we keep switching people, but WE are the one common denominator.
Their neediness, their arrogance, their vulnerability, even their excess weight or the hair on their toes you think is weird. All of the judgment we have for others, is really a reflection of the judgment we are heaping on ourselves every day.”

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