Ego will try to convince you that because your trauma is deeper than others, you cannot be healed. In reality, ego knows it will be destroyed in the healing process & so it tells this story in an attempt to save itself.
Perpetual victims thrive off the feeling of otherness. They would rather their traumatic experiences be singular than shared so they have a reason to avoid the healing process. Perpetual victimhood is caused by ego & results in an irrational attachment to trauma.