Face to face anal. This position is preferred if you are looking for extra intimacy during the act. Start with your partner sitting as you mount his lap, face-to-face. Once again — as the partner on top, you can control depth of penetration to stay comfy. Face-to-face anal has the added bonus of extra stimulation for a woman: breasts, clitoris, go crazy! Johnson and Michaels love face-to-face anal for the toe-tingling intimacy it provides. They confirm, this position facilitates using eye contact and breath to build even more arousal.