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You're Settling And I'd Hate To See You Not Get Everything You Deserve

Because we all need a wake up call from time to time. 
Rania Naim
July 12, 2016
“When someone leaves, it's because someone else is about to arrive.”
— Paulo Coelho, The Zahir
Tagged: Loss, Pain, Leaving, New Beginnings, Starting Over, Endings, Saying Goodbye, Goodbyes, Change
“There ain’t no way you can hold onto something that wants to go, you understand? You can only love what you got while you got it.”
— Kate DiCamillo, Because Of Winn-Dixie
Tagged: Love, Leaving, Saying Goodbye, Holding On, Relationships
“Until you value yourself, you won't value your time. Until you value your time, you will not do anything with it.”
— M. Scott Peck,, The Road Less Traveled: A New Psychology of Love, Traditional Values and Spiritual Growth
Tagged: Loving Yourself, Time, Value Yourself, Wisdom
“But here’s the deal, sweet stranger. You deserve to be the protagonist of your own wonderful, bizarre, terrifying little life. If you decide you are enough, you are enough. You don’t need to wait for some grand external validation of your worth before you offer your kindest heart to yourself.”
— Kathy Brown, A Letter To The Woman Who Won’t Buy Herself Flowers
Tagged: Selfish, Self-Love, Being Selfish, Loving Yourself
“No message is also a message.”
— Six Word Story, Six word story
“Any man who makes you feel as if you have to change who you are, as a person, to be with him, is a man that will leave you as soon as he meets the woman he's trying to make you out to be. ”
— Mr. Amari Soul, Reflections Of A Man
Tagged: Man, Woman, Relationships
“Why settle for being a 'side' or a 'main' when there is a good man out there waiting to make you his 'only.'”
— Mr. Amari Soul, Reflections Of A Man
Tagged: Man, Woman, Relationships
“Don’t be flattered that he misses you. He should miss you. You are deeply missable. However, the only reason he can miss you is because he’s choosing, every day, not to be with you.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Breakups, Dating, Missing Someone, Moving On
“What I can do is paint you a picture of what you’ll never see when you’re with a guy who’s really into you: You’ll never see you staring maniacally at your phone, willing it to ring. You’ll never see you ruining an evening with friends because you’re calling for your messages every fifteen seconds. You’ll never see you hating yourself for calling him when you know you shouldn’t have. What you will see is you being treated so well that no phone antics will be necessary. You’ll be too busy being adored.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Breakups, Relationships, Dating, Love, Insecurity
“You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love and affection."”
— Buddha, Facebook
“Be strong enough to let go and wise enough to wait for what you deserve.”
— Unknown, Mindbloom -
“You deserve something you don't have to question, you deserve someone who is sure about you.”
— R.H. Sin, Tumblr
“I'm too full of life to be half loved”
— Unknown, Sweet Senderipity
“I will not try to convince you to love me, to respect me, to commit to me. I deserve better than that; I am better than that...Goodbye.”
— Steve Maraboli, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience
“I have too much universe in me. I deserve more than the sky and a couple of stars.”
— Robert Drake, Beautiful And Damned
“You lost her and it wasn't because she was hard to hold, or love, or touch but because she was made of your absence, of all the things you ignored and all the beautiful poetry you read but failed to understand”
— Robert Drake, Beautiful And Damned
Tagged: Love, Passion
“You were enough, maybe you were too much, maybe he prefers less and you deserve more.”
— R.H. Sin, Tumblr
“Never let a person get comfortable disrespecting you”
— Unknown, Simple Reminders
“You deserve someone who stays no matter how passionately you display your love and how fearlessly you show your emotions. You deserve someone who is not afraid of the way you love them.”
— Rania Naim, You Don’t Deserve Someone Who Comes Back, You Deserve Someone Who Never Leaves
“You don't deserve someone who comes back, you deserve someone who never leaves.”
— Rania Naim, You Don’t Deserve Someone Who Comes Back, You Deserve Someone Who Never Leaves
“You don’t deserve to be half-loved. You deserve to be loved wholeheartedly. You deserve someone who is willing to fight for you, someone who doesn’t use lame excuses for their lack of attention or someone who is always too busy to make time for you.”
— Rania Naim, You Don’t Deserve A Chill Kind Of Love, You Deserve Magic
“You deserve every fantasy to become reality. You deserve those cliches you watch in movies, to come to reality before your eyes and not just on a screen.”
— Kirsten Corley, To My Fellow Women, This Is How You Deserve To Be Treated
“You deserve a guy who doesn’t just spend the night, but spends the morning.”
— Marisa Donnelly, To My Fellow Women, Please Don’t Settle
“But honey, believe me when I tell you, there are wonderful men out there; I’ve seen them. The kind of men who will value you, whose only concern is your happiness. These men will look at you like you are magical. Like you possess the secrets to the world.”
— Rose Goodman, Wait For The One Who Loves You How You Deserve To Be Loved
“We accept the love we think we deserve.”
— Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower
“If she’s amazing, she won’t be easy. If she’s easy, she won’t be amazing. If she’s worth it, you won’t give up. If you give up, you’re not worthy. … Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.”
— Bob Marley, 30 Bob Marley Quotes On Life, Love and Money
“A girl doesn’t need anyone that doesn’t need her.”
— Marilyn Monroe, 28 Beautiful Marilyn Monroe Quotes on Life, Love, & Happiness
“If I get married, I want to be very married.”
— Audrey Hepburn, Audrey Hepburn: 19 of her most inspirational quotes
“An EX should stay an EX. They’re an Example of false love and an Explanation of why you deserve better.”
— Unknown, Short Confessional Letter To My Ex Girlfriend/Boyfriend
Tagged: Exes, Moving On
“You deserve love and security, a combination that warms the core of your heart. You deserve knowledge that the person you are with wants to be there and, more importantly, won’t run away when times get tough.”
— Kyle Freelander, What The Person You Deserve Is Like