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27 Ways To Turn A Man On (And Make Him Remember You Forever)

Dating experts spill their best and timeless tips for turning on a guy. 
Mélanie Berliet
September 1, 2016
“Sending your man a naughty message while you’re at work is a great way to get him out of his head at the corporate grind and get excited to be home.”
— Stefan Ziglar, Sexting: Sexting Tips for Women: 200 Sexting Tips to turn him on!
Tagged: How Turn A Guy On, Dirty Text Messages, Sex
“Compliment him sexually: Even telling him simply he looks strong, he’s smart, funny, sexy, etc. are all still turn ons.”
— Stefan Ziglar, Sexting: Sexting Tips for Women: 200 Sexting Tips to turn him on!
Tagged: Compliment, Sex, Turn On Your Guy
“Remember that physical fun is easily forgotten; make sure you give him emotional fun.”
— Ellen Degraw, Learn the Secrets the Best Strippers Use to Seduce Men that Most Women will Never Know - Make him desire you like he never desired any woman before
Tagged: Emotional Fun, Seduction Tips
“Seduction is simply causing the other person to imagine being sexual with you. And the biggest key to successfully being seductive is simply being comfortable acting sexual with someone else (whether it’s subtly or obviously). That’s it.”
— Eric Charles, Ask a Guy: Exactly How To Turn A Guy On (How To Seduce A Guy, Part 2)
Tagged: Seduction Tips, How To Turn Him On
“NOTHING IS SEXIER than a woman who SHARES all her rich colors with a man. It makes him feel so honored to be in on the secret that is her true self.”
— Sophia Vergara, Addict Him - Make Him Want You In 1 Simple Step
Tagged: How To Turn Him On, Seduction Tips, Seduce Him
“A man’s imagination will be the most powerful tool to seducing him. A man’s imagination makes him obsess about an idea that has been planted in his mind. If he has an idea of something he wants, he will tear down walls to satisfy his primal urge and conquer the idea he has planted in his mind. This is why role playing can be so powerful to seducing men. A man gets to use his imagination and fulfill on one of his fantasies. If you have costumes and you can find new unfamiliar physical places to act out and”
— Eugene Marks, How To Seduce A Man,Turn Him On,Make Him Want Me and Get Him In The Mood: Find His Hot Buttons And Drive Him Crazy
Tagged: roleplaying, Sex, Seduction Tips, Why Roleplaying Is Important
“So men enjoy mystery just like a woman does. But comfort bores men. Men tend to fantasize more than women. And men tend to look at sex as a destination.”
— Eugene Marks, How To Seduce A Man,Turn Him On,Make Him Want Me and Get Him In The Mood: Find His Hot Buttons And Drive Him Crazy
Tagged: Seduce Him
“Seduce him with your eyes, with your smile, with your words. Explore him bit by bit. Give him feather-like touches and soft kisses when you two are not alone or in a public place. Make him want to grab you when he cannot.”
— Sandra Misti, How to Drive Him Crazy in Bed: Tease, Ride, and Please
Tagged: How To Seduce Him, Turn Him On
“There is something about saying dirty things during sex that could really drive him nuts.”
— Sandra Misti, How to Drive Him Crazy in Bed: Tease, Ride, and Please
Tagged: Seduce Him
“One good way to drive him crazy is to start kissing him on the lips and slowly go down on his body.”
— Sandra Misti, How to Drive Him Crazy in Bed: Tease, Ride, and Please
Tagged: How To Turn Him On
“Leave him a very naughty note telling him about a sexual fantasy that you have long been keeping to yourself.”
— Sandra Misti, How to Drive Him Crazy in Bed: Tease, Ride, and Please
Tagged: Turn Him On, How To Turn Him On, Seduction Tips
“If you truly want to turn your man on in a way that no other woman can, then you need to find out his kinks and fetishes. But for guys, these are often something really personal and private.Guys are usually very nervous and shy about revealing them to anyone, so if you surprise him and directly ask him what really turns him on and what his kinks are, then he might try to dodge the question. So my first advice is to avoid asking him about them directly.

Instead, I suggest you be indirect in your questioning. Wait until you’re both in bed. Right before sex is the perfect time.”
— Sean Jameson, 5 Guaranteed Ways To Turn A Guy On That That Will Make You Irresistible In The Bedroom
Tagged: Turn Him On
“Kiss his neck. Men are just as sensitive in that spot as women are.”
— Holly Riordan, 26 Seriously Sexy Things He Wants You To Do While Riding Him
Tagged: Sex, Kissing, How To Turn Him On
“Grab his hand and suck on one of his fingers. It’ll make him imagine what it would be like to have his cock in your mouth.”
— Holly Riordan, 26 Seriously Sexy Things He Wants You To Do While Riding Him
Tagged: Sex, How To Turn Him On
“No man can resist a woman in control of herself paired with the confidence to take him sexually.”
— Desiree Dean, 202 Sex Tips Every Woman NEEDS to Know
Tagged: Sex, How To Turn Him On
“Undress him slowly, layer by layer, piece by piece until he is naked before you. Try taking your time and whenever more of his skin is exposed, stimulate that area either with your mouth or your hands.”
— Desiree Dean, 202 Sex Tips Every Woman NEEDS to Know
Tagged: Sex, How To Turn Him On
“For something totally different and out of left field, put his erect penis between your hands as if you were praying to God. In this position, you can stroke him up and down and it will offer him a completely new stroke and different sensation, contributing to it being the holy grail of all sessions. All of the pun intended.”
— Desiree Dean, 202 Sex Tips Every Woman NEEDS to Know
Tagged: How To Give A HandJob, hand jobs, Sex
“Film It. Making a dirty homemade movie is probably one of the hottest things that you and your man can do.”
— Desiree Dean, 202 Sex Tips Every Woman NEEDS to Know
Tagged: Sex, How To Turn Him On
“Whether you decide to adorn a sexy maid get up, a schoolgirl outfit or a hot cop, dressing up in these lingerie-esque outfits is a surefire way to feed into one of his biggest fantasies. In his mind, he gets to pretend that you are someone else, which feeds into a whole slew of other sexual fantasies that he might be concocted in his mind.”
— Desiree Dean, 202 Sex Tips Every Woman NEEDS to Know
Tagged: Sex, How To Turn Him On, lingerie
“As much as women are taught to be more vocal in the bedroom, that doesn’t always necessarily have to be the case. Sometimes, less is more and sometimes, even lesser is way more. Silent sex can be incredibly hot, when all you focus on is your breathing and his breathing, and the sounds that your bodies make as they move as one.”
— Desiree Dean, 202 Sex Tips Every Woman NEEDS to Know
Tagged: How To Turn Him On
“Play coy and shy: If you’re going to take control at times, you also have to go the other extreme. Play coy and shy when you’re trying to turn on a guy. Tease him and push him away, but make him come back. Seduce him with blindfolds and feathers, and gently tease him like a shy, cute anime. And he’ll love you for it.”
— Loverpanky, Tips on Turning a Guy On - How to Turn On a Guy
Tagged: How To Turn A Guy On, How To Be Sexy
“Tell him you had a dream about him.”
— Mélanie Berliet, 10 Simple Ways To Drive Him Crazy (Without Even Getting Naked)
Tagged: Sex, How To Turn On A Guy
“Picture a woman biting her bottom lip. Sexy, right? Why exactly remains unclear, but what’s certain is that a little bottom lip nibbling can go a long way in seducing a man. When a woman shows a little tooth, she somehow exudes an extremely appealing mix of vulnerability and pensiveness.”
— Mélanie Berliet, 10 Simple Ways To Drive Him Crazy (Without Even Getting Naked)
Tagged: Seduction Tips, How To Turn On A Guy
“When you show up in a red dress. Yeah, there's a reason Valentine's Day is all about the color red. Studies show that it's the color most closely associated with arousal. So next time you're trying to seduce someone, throw on a red dress.”
— Frank Kobola, 13 Things That Make Guys Irrationally Horny
Tagged: How To Turn On A Guy, Red, Sexy Colors
“Watch porn together: In general, most men get aroused by watching porn. When their girlfriends comes up with the idea and perhaps even surprises them with it – is like a fantasy coming to life.”
— Kyle Cammon, 5 Naughty Tips On How To Get Your Boyfriend To Have Sex With You
Tagged: Porn, How To Turn On A Guy
“Anticipation has tremendous power over your psyche. First of all, it gets you two thinking about sex and secondly, it will make you long for that special moment. Overall, building in some sexual tension will get you excited about one another.”
— Kyle Cammon, 5 Naughty Tips On How To Get Your Boyfriend To Have Sex With You
Tagged: How To Turn On A Guy, Anticipation, Psychological Foreplay
“Pretty much every straight man on Earth will tell you he couldn’t care less about where he hooks up with a woman, so long as they do the deed. Even still, you can powerfully separate yourself from all other women by making your seduction a unique experience onto itself. By creating a unique and sensual environment for seduction, you pull a man out of his ordinary mental space and transport him to a world that is entirely and exclusively associated with blissful sexual pleasure.”
— Eric Charles, Ask a Guy: Exactly How To Turn A Guy On (How To Seduce A Guy, Part 2)
Tagged: Turn Him On, How To Make Sex Special