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22 Powerful Realtionship Insights From “Men Don’t Love Women Like You” That Will Turn You Into A Champion Dater

G.L Lambert is a best-selling author and popular blogger. All quotes below are from the book "Men Don't Love Women Like You." 
Mélanie Berliet
September 1, 2016
“Insecurity is the root of weakness because it causes your dominant thoughts to be controlled by the fear of not being good enough.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Insecurity, Dating, Lack of Confidence
“Nothing bad will happen because bad no longer exists when you understand that you are being controlled by true self who only wants to live life to the fullest.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Life, Inspirational
“Other people are only as powerful as you allow them to be in your world. Shrink the thoughts you give them, and you will literally shrink their role in your life.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: It's All In Your Head
“Be nice to people, be kind, and be considerate all you want, but at the end of the day, never put someone else before you.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Be Nice
“You have to remember to remember until you can detach yourself from the impatience, the stress, and the anxiety that will cause you to relapse into the lie that you are the character, not the creator.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: You're In Control
“No man who is meant for you will get away. There is no such thing as the right man at the wrong time or any other basic bitch romantic belief that make men into limited editions.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Dating, Finding The Right Person
“Ak not what you can do for a man, but what a man can do for you. That should be a motto to live by for progressive women, but how many of you actually practice that?”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Dating, The Birds And the Bees
“Making a man earn you is common sense, but when driven by a fear that the latest Mr. Right will pass you up, you overcompensate. Give him everything for free and watch how you get nothing in return but your time wasted.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Dating, Dating Tips, He Has To Earn It
“You control who gains access to your heart, but the first step is preventing these bums from gaining access to your ears.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Love, Dating
“Providers do not judge women; takers do. Be proud of your accomplishments, but remember you achieved those things for your self-benefit, not to be more attractive to some guy so he will choose you over the next chick.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Dating
“Every obstacle in life will fade away once success becomes the only goal allowed to enter your mind.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Obstacles, Inspirational
“To know what you want is to open yourself up to getting what you want.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Know What You Want, Dating, Know Yourself Before You Start Dating
“The key to flirting is to not give a fuck about how you come across. Erase the fear of rejection or judgment and embrace the confidence of how you look and how you talk.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Flirting, Dating
“The coldest women are really the warmest if you hit the right spots.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Women, Dating
“You will spend so much energy investing in a man, trying to understand a man, and putting up with that man’s shit. Is it really because you love him? Or is it because you hate to fail?”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Dating, Investment
“You deserve the affection that you kept trying to pour into others. You deserve the same motivation that you tried to inspire in others. You deserve the high of happy, without the low of sadness. You deserve the joy of being spoiled, without the catch of having to repay. You deserve the relaxation of trust, without the paranoia of betrayal. You deserve to be confident, without the reminder to be humble. You deserve to look at your reflection with eyes of awe, not judgment. You deserve to be held forever, not for a night. You deserve to be first, second, and third. You deserve to have everything you want. You deserve this power. It is who you are and who you will always be. Men don’t love women like you. They worship them.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Mantras, What You Deserve, The Life You Are Supposed To Be Living
“The mission of a first date is to hear this man out in order to see where he’s coming from with his sales pitch. Is he trying hard to impress you, or is he half-assing because he thinks he has already won? Is he trying too hard to seem perfect, or is he being a real dude who can poke fun at himself? The best way to complete this mission is to look him in the eye with your bullshit filter set to high.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Sniff Him Out, How To Know If A Guy Likes You, Is He Committed?
“Men are little boys. Little boys like to play games.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Playing Games, Boys Are Infants, Players, Dating
“Saying all a man wants is sex is like saying that all a business owner wants is money. It’s true at the basest level, but there is always a larger vision.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Sex, Understanding Sex, What Women Want
“No longer give those people, or anything they did, power over you!”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Power over You, Overcoming Your Past
“What you want to happen is not what you actually think will happen.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Reality vs. Expectations
“If it’s been 60 days, and you’re not ready to upgrade a man to boyfriend status, cut him off.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: When To Cut Him Off, Getting A Boyfriend, Dating