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Kirsten Corley

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Jersey Girl born and raised. Love for reading and writing.
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“A lot of people walk around not saying how they feel about each other. But every so often you'll meet someone who is brave enough to admit there is something between you two. Because the chances are if you feel it so deeply they do to. You just can't let fear get in the way of it. I can promise you something, the only thing worse than rejection is finding out years later when it's too late that they felt the exact same way about you.”
— Kirsten Corley, Fan Messages
Tagged: crushes, Dating, Taking Chances
“I always compare healthy relationships to rubber bands. They will always have equal tension on each opposite side. But breakups are someone letting go of their end of it. And we want to hold on, we want to fix it but in reality we can't force someone to want to 'pick up' their end of it. And as much as endings hurt, you gotta respect them because it's their choice and right. ”
— Kirsten Corley, Fan Messages
Tagged: Breakups, Endings, Letting Go
“You should never feel bad or guilty about caving and texting them. Guilt is derived from our conscious which directs us to do the right thing. When you feel a sense of guilt when it comes to relationships that's your subconscious sending a red flag this way you don't feel hurt or rejected. You gotta trust yourself more and follow it. ”
— Kirsten Corley, Fan Messages
Tagged: Relationships, Healthy Relationships
“When you go out of your way to make someone jealous, whether it snapping your whole life after a breakup, using insta to show you're out with someone or texting them useless shit just to see if they answer, what you are really doing is further confirming their decision to have ended it. If you decide to do none of those things and live your life not advertising it, what they are gonna do is wonder what they hell you are up to and who you are with.
Trying to make someone jealous does the complete opposite. Trust me. I've lived it. ”
— Kirsten Corley, Fan Messages
Tagged: Relationship Advice, Dating Advice, breakup
“Guys will pull away just to see how you respond to it. If you go bat shit crazy they run for the hills...So for now let him go. I promise you he'll come back if you just stand still. Remember anything you chase runs further. ”
— Kirsten Corley, Fan Messages
Tagged: Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Anger I believe is a wasted emotion. Because under the surface of that emotion is really pain, disappointment, confusion. People would rather curse you off then admit you hurt them. But what I realized is if you want the last word and if you want it to matter, 'Fuck you' doesn't do that. Don't allow anger to consume you. Anger hurts only you in the end. ”
— Kirsten Corley, Fan Advice
Tagged: Anger, Pain
“When you end things gracefully people are always gonna wanna come back. Eventually the smoke will clear, emotions will simmer. But if you kept your cool as best you could even when they went off the wall, one day they'll realize how poorly they handled the situation and want to make right for their own peace of mind.”
— Kirsten Corley, Fan Messages
Tagged: Relationships, Ending, goodbye
“One thing I've learned from my own relationships is it doesn't matter how busy someone is or how much they have on their plate. If you matter, they will make time for you.”
— Kirsten Corley, Fan Messages
Tagged: Relationships, Priority
“We are all afraid, but on the other side of fear and rejection is everything we've ever hoped for, if only we can muster the courage to pursue it.”
— Kirsten Corley, Fan Messages
Tagged: Fear Love, Rejection, Hope
“I think one of the most important things to realize is it's a person that hurt you and not love. Don't mix up the two. Don't allow anyone to taint your views on what love actually is. Because real love isn't pain.  ”
— Kirsten Corley, Fan Messages
Tagged: Relationships, Define Love