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21 TellTale Red Flags That Will Send Guys Running

She uses urgent problems to invite attention and gain sympathy. 
Kirsten Corley
November 22, 2016
“Guys like this understand that birds of a feather do, in fact, flock together. They understand that you and your friends will have many shared beliefs, interests, and even personalities. In many cases, for a guy who’s considering whether or not to commit to you, it may quickly occur to him that if he can’t stand your friends now, there’s a good chance he might not be able to stand you in the near future.”
— Bruce Bryans, Dating Deal Breakers That Drive Men Away
Tagged: Guy Advice, Dating Advice, Relationship Advice
“Treating strangers, service personnel, and people of lower social status like garbage: If a woman has the habit of treating those of lesser station than herself like garbage, the only kinds of men she’ll attract will be guys who either treat others the same way or guys who don’t respect themselves enough to pass on such women. ”
— Bruce Bryans, Dating Deal Breakers That Drive Men Away
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“She disappears or does not respond in a reasonable amount of time
when communicating with a man, and does not give a valid excuse for
doing so.”
— Bruce Bryans, Dating Deal Breakers That Drive Men Away
Tagged: Guy Advice, Relationship Advice, Dating Advice
“A high-maintenance woman, in the negative sense of the phrase, is basically a woman who requires an unreasonable amount of time, attention, and  resources from a man to keep her happy (if she ever is) and therefore, maintain her interest.”
— Bruce Bryans, Dating Deal Breakers That Drive Men Away
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“The mistake some women make in this regard is that they simply don’t know how to be supportive both in enthusiasm and in significant action. If you’ve been dating a guy for several weeks and he feels a strong enough connection with you to tell you that he wants to purchase his own Starbucks franchise someday, don’t simply log it away in the back of your mind as if he said something inconsequential. Communicate your enthusiasm by asking him questions about this aspiration of his and more importantly, at some point be sure to thank him for sharing his dreams with you.”
— Bruce Bryans, Dating Deal Breakers That Drive Men Away
Tagged: Dating Tips, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“The thing is, most men secretly crave appreciation, but they’ll never admit it for fear of looking needy or weak. The more you appreciate a man, I mean REALLY appreciate him, the better he’ll feel about himself. The better he feels about himself the more confident he will be in his ability to love you, romance you, and make you happy.”
— Bruce Bryans, Dating Deal Breakers That Drive Men Away
Tagged: Dating Advice, Dating Tips, Relationship Advice
“One of the most irresistible qualities that high-quality men desperately want in a woman is this: Complete acceptance of him for the man he is. If you can love a man unconditionally, even accepting the ugly things about him, he’ll develop an emotional connection with you that won’t be easily broken because he’ll feel as if you just ‘get him.”
— Bruce Bryans, Dating Deal Breakers That Drive Men Away
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“Accepting a man and being receptive of him in every way is one of the core ways a woman radiates her femininity to keep a man helplessly hooked and captivated by her.”
— Bruce Bryans, Dating Deal Breaker That Drive Men Away
Tagged: Relationship Advice, Guy Advice, Dating Advice
“Unfortunately, getting jealous whenever your guy interacts with other women never works in your favor. Whether your jealousy shows itself through violent outbursts or passive-aggressive pettiness doesn’t matter. There’s always some form of collateral damage that will cause his trust, respect, and adoration for you to corrode over time.”
— Bruce Bryans, Dating Deal Breakers Drive Him Away
Tagged: Dating, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“Being unreasonably jealous whenever he spends time with his friends: Time with the men isn’t merely just for fun and friendship. It keeps him sane, grounded in his masculinity, and far more capable to deal with both the challenges of life and the challenges he’ll face with his woman.”
— Bruce Bryans, Dating Deal Breakers That Drive Men Away
Tagged: Relationship Advice, Guy Advice, Dating Advice
“If you’re dating a really sociable or high status man, one who has a quality network of friends, instead of trying to compete with his affections learn to appreciate him for the great importance he’s placed in his male friendships.”
— Bruce Bryans, Dating Deal Breakers That Drive Men Away
Tagged: Relationship Advice, Guy Advice, Dating Advice
“She manipulates those around her in order to create conflict that has her at the center of it all.”
— Bruce Bryans, Dating Deal Breaker That Drive Men Away
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“She uses urgent problems to invite attention and gain sympathy.”
— Bruce Bryans, Dating Deal Breakers That Drive Men Away
Tagged: Dating Tips, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“In the elaborate tales of life, she’s always the victim.”
— Bruce Bryans, Dating Deal Breakers That Drive Men Away
Tagged: Dating Tips, Relationship Advice, Guys Advice
“Being self-centered or self-absorbed communicates to  a man that any interest you are showing him is merely agenda based. What this means is that even if you actually do like him, nothing you do will get this message across because he’ll feel as if your interest in him is simply based on what he can do for you. This is relationship suicide.”
— Bruce Bryans, Dating Deal Breakers That Drive Him Away
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Don’t let your goals, your incredibly interesting life, or your love life agenda dominate your interactions with men to the point of being narcissistic.”
— Bruce Bryans, Dating Deal Breakers That Drive Men Away
Tagged: Dating Tips, Relationship Tips
“People with low self-esteem don’t trust their judgment, don’t trust their gut instincts, and are afraid of being wrong.”
— Sabrina Alexis, Everything You Need To Know If You Want Love That Lasts
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“A big mistake insecure women make in the early stages of dating is trying to sell themselves to a guy. This can be completely innocent, but it comes from a deeper sense of insecurity and inadequacy.”
— Sabrina Alexis, Everything You Need To Know If You Want Love That Lasts
Tagged: Guy Advice, Dating Advice, Relationship Advice
“Only insecure people put up with treatment that is unacceptable, in large part because they feel on some level that that’s what they deserve.”
— Sabrina Alexis, Everything You Need To Know If You Want Love That Lasts
Tagged: Relationships, Love, Self love
“An insecure person will unconsciously seek out relationships with men who are insecure and who will make them feel more insecure. They will want the unavailable guys, the guys who can’t commit, the guys who have walls up. These are the ones they will feel infatuated by, not the ones who show real, genuine interest. Oftentimes this happens because on an unconscious level, the insecure girl feels that if she can break through his walls, or get him to change his ways,   then   she’ll really be worthy and valuable. This never, ever works. Instead, she just ends up compromising her integrity even further by chasing the relationship.”
— Sabrina Alexis, Everything You Need To Know If You Want Love That Lasts
Tagged: Relationship Advice, Guy Advice