Look Catalog

22 Ways To Attract A Man Without Even Trying

The key to flirting is to not give a fuck about how I come across. 
Kirsten Corley
October 17, 2016
“If you look in the mirror and see everything that’s wrong, that means when you go out in public other people will also see everything that’s wrong. No matter what you wear to mask yourself, if you give into the idea that a part of your body needs improvement, then it becomes a bulls-eye for others to hit.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Insecurities, Improvement, Flaws
“You create your insecurity, not other people.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Insecurity, Flaws, Worst Enemy
“The only thing wrong with your body is that you think there’s something wrong with your body.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Flaws, Insecurities, Self Worth
“Attraction isn’t about being the prettiest, it’s about that intangible sex appeal of knowing you’re the shit.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Attraction, Self Worth, Appeal
“The moment you stop noticing it as a blemish, the rest of the world will follow. If you’re a bigger girl and want to drop some weight, gold star for you, but for now, you are the size you are and you can’t hide out until that gym routine begins to yield results. Your confidence has to be built on who you are right now, not who you will become.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Insecure, Relationships, Self Worth
“If you aren’t happy, then you will continue to meet those people that mirror your own thoughts about your looks.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Happiness, Self Worth, Relationships
“You don’t owe anyone your kindness until they earn it and even then they have to maintain it.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: kindness, Self Worth
“You will always attract someone who gives you what you fear if fear remains more dominant than confidence.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Fear, Attraction, Relationships
“The first step in rewriting your love story is to put you in the leading role and never compromise that position.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Love Story, Relationships, Self Worth, Self love
“Indecision is a sign of fear, and if you’re afraid to open up to yourself and clearly admit what you want in a relationship, then you are [not ready].”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Fear, Relationships
“Why you were failing on autopilot, is that you were conflicted and dishonest. You didn’t know who you were. You were coasting, attracting a mixed bag of men into your life that netted you mixed results. Be honest and declare what you want. Why is it so hard for typical women to admit that they want a man? Why would a grown woman pretend as if she’s happy with being single when she’s really miserable alone? Because if they hide behind the excuse of not being ready or the apathy of ‘if it happens it happens,’ it gives them an easy out when they fail. Losers love to act indifferent because they’re already mentally preparing themselves not to come away with what they really want.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Wants, Needs, Relationships, Honesty
“Let me simplify this process. To want a relationship means that you want something serious. The days of friends with benefits, just talking, hook ups, situationships, and agreeing to see where it goes, are dead!”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Relationship, Dating, Wants, Needs
“Just because you’re not physically looking for love, doesn’t mean you aren’t wishing for it. I don’t care what’s going on in your life, if you’re able to have a social life, you’re able to date. If you’re able to date, you’re able to have a relationship. If you’re able to have a relationship, then what’s the problem?”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Relationships, Dating, Successful Relationships
“Every guy you invest time and energy in from this day forward must be Top Shelf, A1, Alpha Male, husband material, not a work in progress, not a struggle story, and never generic Dick!”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Dating, Standards, Relationships
“You will get the man who is perfect for you, but first you have to declare it. Every morning that you wake up after you look in the mirror at the sexiest woman in the world, tell your reflection: I Want Something Serious!”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Reflection, Self Worth
“Flirting isn’t about saying sexual things, winking, or licking your lips, it’s about being comfortable in your skin around a man whose dick you want to ride.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Confidence
“The key to flirting is to not give a fuck about how you come across. Erase the fear of rejection or judgment and embrace the confidence of how you look and how you talk.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Confidence, Self Worth, Relationships
“You see someone you like, you set your goal that you will go for him, then allow your universe to bend to your will accordingly. It all starts with a declaration in your mind, speak it to make it feel real in your projection, but it is always the vibration of your mind, that voice that’s always speaking to you within, which you must announce your intention.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Dating, Relationships, crushes
“If your everything is telling you that he is the one, then take him. He’s right there, a phone call away, bring him to you.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Dating, Relationships, crushes
“Life unfolds in the moment, stay in the moment, and let your story play out in the way that benefits you”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Dating, Relationships
“Know what you want. Get what you want. It’s that simple! Set your intentions that you want someone as great. Feel your attractiveness, project your sex appeal, and bathe in the confidence of the truth: Life always works out in your favor.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Dating, Relationships, sex appeal
“Confidence is no longer fueled by how good your hair looks, what outfit you’re wearing that day, if your skin is blemish free that week, or if you’re in the ‘right place at the right time,’ at a given moment. Strangers will pop into your world, offline and online. Old flames will come back with new interest. Men who never noticed you before will suddenly be all over you. It will scare you at first because these things will begin to happen rapidly not long after you finish this book. This isn’t a miracle; this is your new reality.”
— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You
Tagged: Attraction, Relationships