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13 Things To Remember Before The First Date

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13 Things To Remember Before The First Date

All you will ever owe a man is your company.

I’m promoting realistic thoughts that you aren’t competing with other women of the world, only the woman looking back at you in the mirror.

— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You

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Being unhappy with your looks will sabotage this entire mission because you will feel awkward instead of sexy.

— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You

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We do not date with that weak outlook on physical appearance, so no matter how long it takes for you to fall in love with that person staring back at you in the mirror, hold off on dating, and put in that time!

— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You

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When a man wants a woman, the effort will always come off as effortless! There is no debate about price.

— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You

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All you will ever owe a man is your company. Be comfortable in the role as a prize, not apologetic.

— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You

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You don’t have to prove that you’re an independent woman with her own money, he needs to prove that he sees a Queen worth spoiling. Stop trying to show that you have it to spend, and allow him to show that he believes in you enough to spend!

— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You

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Set your price on the first date and keep it high.

— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You: The Brutal Truth About Dating, Relationships, and How to Go from Placeholder to Game Changer

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This is what most men do. They shut up and listen! As a result of listening, they figure out the best way to endear themselves to that woman. By the time a woman goes home, she’s under the impression that she found a man that gets her, is sweet, and also inspiring.

— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You: The Brutal Truth About Dating, Relationships, and How to Go from Placeholder to Game Changer

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Maybe you’re dealing with, ‘Damn, my wallet is at home,’ guy. No matter the reason, the result is that when the check comes and you tell him thank you, he asks for some kind of money from you… What to do? Pay it. There is no need to argue your stance on how men should do things. I don’t care if he sticks you with the entire bill or just the tip. Keep your cool and smile as you slide your card or cash in the fold. Internally, he has now committed suicide. RIP, because this dude is officially dead to you once you leave that restaurant. In the end, he revealed how much he values a woman like you.

— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You: The Brutal Truth About Dating, Relationships, and How to Go from Placeholder to Game Changer

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Men love to be teased when the woman teasing them is accessible. He has to believe that he will one day fuck you, or why date you. Don’t worry about how he will perceive your seduction. Are you easy? Clearly you aren’t because your panties will remain up at the end of the night and your hands nor mouth will touch his dick. You can be provocative all night, but leave him without doing anything sexual; that earns his respect.

— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You!: The Brutal Truth About Dating, Relationships, and How to Go from Placeholder to Game Changer

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Sex on the first date is another monster with other steps that need to be laid out and hit, so, for now, act as if that isn’t an option at all. I repeat, do not have sex at this point! You have to go home alone.

— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You: The Brutal Truth About Dating, Relationships, and How to Go from Placeholder to Game Changer

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Have some respect for yourself and set boundaries. A man won’t like it, but he will respect it in the long run.

— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You: The Brutal Truth About Dating, Relationships, and How to Go from Placeholder to Game Changer

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After you say your goodnights there may be one last communication before you go to sleep, and that’s the, ‘Made it home’ text. The adrenaline of a date doesn’t end there. If this was one of the best dates you’ve been on and the chemistry was crazy, going to sleep becomes harder than trying to eat just one French fry. Remain strong. No phone sex. No nudes. No sexting. No Video Calls. Nothing! You went on a date; it was good, now put it to rest by putting your hormones to bed. I don’t care if you stay up thinking about him for the next hour, it’s better to crave than to cave.

— G.L. Lambert, Men Don't Love Women Like You: The Brutal Truth About Dating, Relationships, and How to Go from Placeholder to Game Changer

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