Paul Hudson

12 Times Paul Hudson Beautifully Captivated The Complexity Of Love And Heartbreak

Love you're going to wish you did more of it. You're going to wish you risked having your heart broken. 
Kirsten Corley
September 28, 2016
“These are uncharted waters. Once you were the lighthouse that guided me to shore, making me feel safe and certain knowing where I can find home, but that light no longer shines.”
— Paul Hudson, A Letter To The Person I Don’t Think I’ll Ever Get Over
Tagged: Dating, hurt, Pain
“I have long debated what love actually is … but now I know. It’s caring. Not because you want to or because you feel like you should, but because you don’t have any other options available to you. Regardless of whether or not we can remain friends, I will always care for you.”
— Paul Hudson, Everything You Want To Say To The Person You'll Never Get Over
Tagged: hurt, Pain, Heartbreak, Friends
“The thing about love is that it gives you insight not only into who someone is but into who he’s capable of being.”
— Paul Hudson, Why You Need To Stop Thinking You'll Be The One To Change Him
Tagged: Love, First Love, Heartbreak, Potenial
“True love manifests only when the love is shared. Until that point, what you have isn't really real. Until you fully know someone, you can’t love that person for the right reasons.”
— Paul Hudson, A Love Unshared: How To Get Over Your Unrequited Love
Tagged: Dating, True Love, Relationships
“In the end, love comes down to a decision. You have to consciously decide that you love your partner, and you need to decide this every day for the rest of your shared life.”
— Paul Hudson, Why Love Isn't Something You Find, It's A Choice You Have To Make
Tagged: Understanding Love, Relationships
“Sometimes we have to let go of those we've loved. Sometimes that’s the only way to continue on living happily. Sometimes those you love become strangers.

And life goes on.”
— Paul Hudson, What It’s Like When Someone You Loved Becomes Someone You Used To Know
Tagged: Relationships, Love, Dating
“We're desperate to love. And because we're so desperate, we find ourselves falling for people who we realize aren’t worthy of our love.”
— Paul Hudson, How To Know When You Aren't Just Eager To Love, You're Ready To Love
Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Love
“But like all addictions, this only leads to trouble. When you fall for the wrong person, you open yourself up to risk. You might make mistakes that take years to solve. And for many people, a relationship can become so toxic that it’s impossible to fully bounce back.”
— Paul Hudson, How To Know When You Aren't Just Eager To Love, You're Ready To Love
Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Love, Toxic
“Vulnerability allows us to create love. And if you aren’t being open, the person you love isn’t going to fall for you. I’ll grant that it is possible to make someone fall in love with you. You just can’t force it. It will take time and patience. It will also be hard, but it will also most definitely be worth it.”
— Paul Hudson, Why Waiting For The One You Love To Love You Back Is Hard But Worth It
Tagged: Dating, Love, Relationships
“We're all a bit bruised, a bit scarred and jaded. Some days are certainly going to be darker. But at the end of the day, your happiness is truly a choice. And a relationship isn’t going to ‘fix’ you.”
— Paul Hudson, Why The Longer You've Been Single, The Better You'll Be In A Relationship
Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Love
“It's having your heart break every time you miss your partner, every time you have to say goodbye, every time you get a little jealous or worried about your companion’s safety.

Heartbreaks remind us we’re in love. You can’t avoid heartbreak in relationships.”
— Paul Hudson, Why The Smallest Chance Of Love Is Worth The Giant Risk Of Heartbreak
Tagged: Relationships, Love, Dating
“Love. You're going to wish you did more of it. You're going to wish you risked having your heart broken more often. You're going to wish you could continue feeling as amazing, as horrible and as sad as love managed to make you feel.

Because those days — the ones that made you feel alive — are gone. I'd rather have my heart broken then to never love at all. Because I know for a fact that I will never regret falling in love. ”
— Paul Hudson, Why The Smallest Chance Of Love Is Worth The Giant Risk Of Heartbreak
Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Love