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28 Ways To Make Yourself More Approachable To Guys

For relationship -minded men, modesty equates to quality. 
Kirsten Corley
September 8, 2016
“A man will avoid pursuing a beautiful stranger if she’s surrounded by a large group of her girlfriends. Keep your group small if you wish to coax a handsome observer to make an approach.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“All men who have tried to chat with a beautiful woman in some sort of group setting have experienced ‘the man-repellant friend’ of the girl they were enamored with. Once again, while your man-repellant friend may be useful for shutting down slimy guys she also won’t do you any favors when a potential Mr. Right tries to infiltrate your group. She’s a risk, a high risk that reduces the odds of men approaching you.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Sticking too close to guy friends will result in a hapless evening. Though competitive by nature, a man will not encroach upon what he thinks is another man’s girlfriend.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Men watch for signs in a woman’s behavior that will give him a good idea of just how difficult she might be to deal with. If a woman’s personal happiness and enjoyment looks like it requires far too many factors, a man is less likely to approach. This is why having a good time with or without your friends and regardless of the circumstances or venue is a great way to make yourself much more approachable to great guys.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“After you silently introduce yourself to him with your eyes, isolate yourself so as to encourage your ardent admirer to give chase.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Guy Advice, Dating Advice, Relationship Advice
“I know this sounds sort of cheesy, but cool girls are pursued by more authentic men than the most dolled up women at a social gathering. The quality of the men that approach and connect with her will be far superior to the kind of men that pursue a woman who is all show but no substance. Like attracts like, so if you want to connect with more authentic, sincere guys… consider learning how to understand and socialize with men in order to increase your confidence to become the ‘cool one.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men by Bruce Bryans (2015-06-06)
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Be wary of girlfriends who monopolize all male attention. If one of them is an aggressive flirt, she will ensure that men will never know of your existence.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men by Bruce Bryans (2015-06-06)
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“The sweet, girlish laughter of women serenades the masculine ear and lures in the most curious of men. To a single man the sound is as sweet and tantalizing as honeycomb to a bear.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“A look of boredom will do nothing to tempt the ardent admirer to risk meeting you.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Loud environments do not make for easy introductions between two admirers. If she wishes to converse intimately with her perfect gentleman it would benefit a woman to avoid such places.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“A smile and a wave is one of the most direct signals of a woman’s interest. Any man, even a shy one, will undoubtedly feel like a fool if he fails to act.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men by Bruce Bryans (2015-06-06)
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“The handsome observer is also likely to consider a woman engaged with her smartphone as one who wishes to be left alone. And again, being the gentleman that he is, he will grant her this wish.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“To court the attention of such men, a woman would be wise to treat people with overflowing kindness.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“The dance floor makes excellent hunting grounds for drunken gropers and pick-up artists. Limit your time spent there if you wish to lower the chances of encountering such men.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship
“A moving target might be hard to hit, but a moving woman is even harder to hit on. Some women are unapproachable because they are simply uncatchable.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice
“Men are very wary of women who appear to be the mini-celebrities of a particular venue. Unless he himself has a higher social status at that very location, the handsome observer will turn his eyes toward less intimidating women.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“Confidence is the secret sauce to being more approachable to men or escalating a friendship into something more romantic.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“When she is free from needing, she is free to engage with men with confidence and authenticity. When she is not desperate for the attention of men, a woman is more likely to receive it.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“While I don’t advocate chasing or pursuing a man, there’s nothing wrong with initiating contact.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“Begin to see yourself as a woman who has way more to offer others than what you take from them. An abundance attitude leads to generous behavior that makes a woman appear magnanimous and a pleasure to be around.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“For relationship-minded men, modesty equates to quality.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Relationship Advice, Guy Advice, Dating Advice
“Men crave the sincere admiration of women. Thus, a genuine, well-crafted compliment will stir a man’s confidence and make him feel manlier in your presence. No man can resist or soon forget a woman who makes him like himself even more.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Relationship Advice, Guy Advice, Dating Advice
“If you have enjoyed your first interaction with your perfect gentleman, ensure that he is firmly aware of it. Cast your fears aside and indicate your hopes of a future meeting with him. Once you have hinted… let him lead.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Give him your undivided attention and really try to live in the moment by facing and focusing on him.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“Here’s the blunt truth: Eighty to ninety percent of your chances of being approached by a man is dependent on how physically attractive you are to him.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Eye contact is the single most effective way for encouraging a man to approach you.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“First, she must dress and groom better than the women she most associates with. And secondly, she must dress and groom at least slightly better than the venue requires. Exceptionality is the fair price she must pay for a man’s undivided attention.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“It’s also important for a woman to consider the smile she wears when her face is at rest. As I keep repeating throughout this book, men are observing your behavior and often spot you long before you see them. Walking around with the ‘too-cool-to-smile’ diva look on your face is uninviting and not warm at all.”
— Bruce Bryans, Send Him A Signal: 61 Secrets For Indicating Interest And Attracting The Attention Of Higher Quality Men
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice