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36 Quotes That Will Tell You 'He's Just Not That Into You'

If he's not calling it's because you aren't on his mind.
Kirsten Corley
August 27, 2016
“Don’t be flattered that he misses you. He should miss you. You are deeply missable. However, he’s still the same person who just broke up with you. Remember, the only reason he can miss you is because he’s choosing, every day, not to be with you.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just not That Into You
Tagged: Almost Relationships, Half Hearted Love, Dating, Grey Area, Best Of Me
“But what I can do is paint you a picture of what you’ll never see when you’re with a guy who’s really into you: You’ll never see yourself staring maniacally at your phone, willing it to ring. You’ll never see you ruining an evening with friends because you’re calling for your messages every fifteen seconds. You’ll never see you hating yourself for calling him when you know you shouldn’t have. What you will see is you being treated so well that no phone antics will be necessary. You’ll be too busy being adored.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just not That Into You
Tagged: Almost Relationships, Almost Love, Failed Relationships, Pain
“Don’t spend your time on and give your heart to any guy who makes you wonder about anything related to his feelings for you.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just not That Into You
Tagged: Almost Relationships, Almost Love
“Let’s start with this statistic: You are delicious. Be brave, my sweet. I know you can get lonely. I know you can crave companionship and sex and love so badly that it physically hurts. But I truly believe that the only way you can find out that there’s something better out there is to first believe there’s something better out there. What other choice is there?”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Why Men Love Bitches, Self Worth, Relationships
“Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up. If a guy punches you he likes you. Never try to trim your own bangs and someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending. Every movie we see, Every story we're told implores us to wait for it, the third act twist, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule. But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell from the ones who want us and the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave. And maybe a happy ending doesn't include a guy, maybe... it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is... just... moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned phone calls, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment you never gave up hope.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just not That Into You
Tagged: Why Men Love Bitches, Relationships, Self Worth, Guy Advice
“Always be classy. Never be crazy.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Why Men Love Bitches, Guy Advice, Relationships
“I'm tired of seeing great women in bullshit relationships.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Guy Advice, Relationships, Why Men Love Bitches, Bullshit
“Remember always what you set out to get, and please don’t settle for less.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Guy Advice, Relationships, Settling, Don't Settle
“He doesn't need to be reminded you're great.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Guy Advice, Relationship, Why Men Love Bitches
“There's a guy out there who will want to tell everyone that he is your boyfriend. Quit goofing around and go find him.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: He's Just Not That Into You, Why Men Love Bitches, Guy Advice
“The most attractive quality of all is dignity.”
— Greg Behrendt, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Tagged: Why Men Love Bitches, Guy Advice, Relationships
“Beware of the word friend. It can often be used by men and women, that love them to excuse the most unfriendly behavior. Personally when I’m picking friends, I like the ones who don’t make me cry myself to sleep.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Just Friends, Relationships Ending, Letting Go, goodbye
“Men for the most part like to pursue women. We like not knowing if we can catch you.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Dating, Guy Advice, Dating Advice
“An excuse is a polite rejection.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice
“If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you he will.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Relationship Advice, Dating Advice
“Don't get tricked into asking him out. If he likes you he'll do the asking.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship
“Men don't forget how much they like you. So put down the phone.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice
“Don't let the honeys and babys fool you, his sweet nothing are just that.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Relationship Advice, Dating Advice
“The word busy is a load of crap and often used by assholes.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just not That Into You
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice
“If he's not calling you, it's because you are not on his mind.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just not That Into You
Tagged: Relationship, Dating Advice
“You deserve a fucking phone call.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just not That Into You
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice
“Beware of the word friend it is often used by men or women who that love them to excuse the most unfriendly behavior. Personally when I pick my friends I like to pick the ones that don't make me cry myself to sleep at night.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just not That Into You
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice
“People tell you who they are all the time...you should believe him.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice
“It doesn't count unless he says it sober.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just not That Into You
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice
“Stop taking his calls and really let him know what it's like to live without him.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice
“If he can't live without you he won't break up with you.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Dating
“Classy is walking away with your head held high graciously with your dignity. Being a doormat is offering to drive him to the dentist for a root canal.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice
“Breakup sex means you're still broken up.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just not That Into You
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice
“You can't talk your way out of a breakup. It's not up for discussion.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just not That Into You
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice
“Face the fact the person you love probably left a long time ago.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just not That Into You
Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice