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We All Get Jealous Sometimes: 20 Quotes For Overcoming It And Having Security In Your Relationship

People who are habitually insecure in love relationships would say they are looking for acceptance. 
Kirsten Corley
August 22, 2016
“If I am always comparing myself to others, I will forever be at war with myself. And who needs that?”
— Khloé Kardashian, Strong Looks Better Naked
Tagged: Comparing, Self Worth, Relationships
“If you have to convince someone to stay with you, then they have already left.”
— Shannon L. Alder, If You Have To Convince Someone
Tagged: Leaving, Self-Love, Self-Worth
“If two people can fully trust one another and are good at communicating with each other, jealousy will never win. NEVER!”
— Robert Rain, Jealousy: Relationship Help With Jealousy, Self-Esteem, Insecurity and Trust Issues (Jealousy, Insecurity and Trust In Relationships Book 1)
Tagged: Trust, Communicate, Tips To Healthy Relationship, Jealous
“Remember your self-value and inner joy is a reflection of loving yourself rather than the result of looking for approval from others.”
— Robert Rain, Jealousy: Relationship Help With Jealousy, Self-Esteem, Insecurity and Trust Issues(Jealousy, Insecurity and Trust In Relationships Book 1)
Tagged: Self Value, Inner Joy, Loving Self, Self Worth
“Oftentimes when jealousy is present in relationships, its roots are related to rejection and abandonment. A jealous partner may have been rejected or abandoned at some point in their life and the fear of feeling that pain again causes jealous behaviors to surface.”
— Robert Rain, Jealousy: Relationship Help With Jealousy, Self-Esteem, Insecurity and Trust Issues (Jealousy, Insecurity and Trust In Relationships Book 1)
Tagged: Jealousy, Relationship Failing, Rejection
“Remind yourself that where you are is not where you will always be. You only get stuck when you fail to push yourself to do something to get yourself out of that difficult situation you are in.”
— Ashley Rosebloom, How to Stop Being Insecure: Learn How to Overcome Emotional and Relationship Insecurity
Tagged: Self Worth, Jealous, Positive Self Worth
“A person who experiences romantic insecurity tends to be both anxious and obsessed. For such a person, love is a tempestuous experience, involving a range of emotions: on the one hand, excitement, joy, and sexual arousal; on the other, distress, fear, shame, anger, contempt, and disgust. Everyone feels these emotions sometimes, but the person who is insecure in love feels them especially intensely and often goes quickly from one extreme to the other.”
— Carl G Hindy, J. Conrad Schwarz, Archie Brodsky, If This Is Love, Why Do I Feel So Insecure?
Tagged: Insecure, Jealous, emotions, Abuse
“People who are habitually insecure in love relationships would say they are looking for acceptance, nurturance, and unconditional love.”
— Carl G Hindy, J. Conrad Schwarz, Archie Brodsky, If This Is Love, Why Do I Feel So Insecure?
Tagged: Insecure, jealously, Love, Acceptance
“When you try to control your partner, you are at risk of pushing them away. It is oppressive to have someone constantly trying to lure you away from the things you enjoy, or being critical of what you are doing. Relationships that are vibrant require that two people be in control of their individual lives and be respectful of each others needs at the same time.”
— Stanley Steel, How to Not Be Jealous: Ways to Deal With, Overcome and Stop Relationship Jealousy (Stop Being Insecure And Jealous Book 1)
Tagged: Risk, Control Emotions, Value Relationship, Jealousy
“Jealousy is born out of our need to feel secure, worthy or safe in our relationship.”
— Stanley Steel, How to Not Be Jealous: Ways to Deal With, Overcome and Stop Relationship Jealousy (Stop Being Insecure And Jealous Book 1)
Tagged: Jealous, Relationship, Security, Safe
“Never compare yourself or your relationship to others, simply compare it to what it was yesterday.”
— Jessica Riley, Trust Issues: Manage the Anxiety, Insecurity and Jealousy in Your Relationship, With 10 Simple Steps- 4th Edition
Tagged: Compare, Relationship Advice, Insecure, Jealous
“In a healthy relationship, you will also have a reasonable amount of self-esteem, which would mean that you value yourself enough to believe that you are exactly what your partner needs, so they have no reason to stray.”
— Jessica Riley, Trust Issues: Manage the Anxiety, Insecurity and Jealousy in Your Relationship, With 10 Simple Steps - 4th Edition
Tagged: Healthy Relationship, Self Esteem, How To Not Be Jealous
“A mindful person accepts who they are and gives that same respect to the people that share in his/ her life. Making comparisons cheapens what is unique about a person. Being mindful means refusing to compare your life path with others, and also never expecting your partner to be someone who they are not.”
— Simeon Lindstrom, Codependency - "Loves Me, Loves Me Not": Learn How To Cultivate Healthy Relationships, Overcome Relationship Jealousy, Stop Controlling Others and Be Codependent No More
Tagged: Compare, Jealous, Self Worth, Partner, secure
“If you catch yourself seeking the validation of others, change the direction of your thoughts, redirect the attention away from you, and instead focus it on the bigger picture.”
— Jessica Riley, Trust Issues: Manage the Anxiety, Insecurity and Jealousy in Your Relationship, With 10 Simple Steps - 4th Edition
Tagged: Seeking Validation, Jealousy, Relationships Ending, Bigger Picture
“The seed of a doubt that you are not as good as someone else is where it all starts.”
— Sofia Price, Jealousy: How To Overcome Jealousy, Insecurity and Trust Issues - Save Your Relationship, Love Life and Emotions - 5th Edition (Relationship Advice For ... Low Self Esteem, Jealousy Self Help)
Tagged: Doubt, Good, Jealousy, Overcoming Jealous
“It would be a good idea to write down a list of the reasons why you believe that you are jealous, together with your line of thinking and past experiences.”
— Sofia Price, Jealousy: How To Overcome Jealousy, Insecurity and Trust Issues - Save Your Relationship, Love Life and Emotions - 5th Edition (Relationship Advice For ... Low Self Esteem, Jealousy Self Help)
Tagged: Jealous, Overcoming Jealousy, Fixing Relationship
“You should keep in mind and even repeat to yourself that you are loved by your significant other, that he is with you for good reasons and because he chooses to. He”
— Jackson Sandau, Overcoming Jealousy: How to Stop Being Jealous and Get Rid of Jealousy in Your Romantic Relationship
Tagged: Overcoming Jealousy, Jealous, Self Worth, Relationship Problems
“Consider for a moment the possibility what you are feeling has more to do with your doubts, insecurities, misunderstandings or misinterpretations than anything that your partner is doing.”
— Stanley Steel, How to Not Be Jealous: Ways to Deal With, Overcome and Stop Relationship Jealousy (Stop Being Insecure And Jealous Book 1)
Tagged: Lonely, Jealous, Insecure, Relationship Issues
“Insecurity is the worst sense that lovers feel: sometimes the most humdrum desire less marriage seems better. Insecurity twists meanings and poisons trust.”
— Graham Greene, The End of the Affair (Penguin Classics Deluxe Edition)
Tagged: Insecure, Relationship Insecurities, Poisons, Trust Issues, Jealous
“Your love is as stable as you are.”
— Criss Jami, Killosophy
Tagged: Love, Stability, Stable Relationships