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16 Men Talk About The Sex Tips That They Wish All Women Knew

Men are often not very open in-person, but when these 16 men could offer some sex feedback anonymously, they had a LOT of advice for women!
Jacob Geers
October 25, 2016
“Initiate once in a while. Makes us feel like we're wanted.”
— Top_Wop, Men of Reddit, what is your sex tip for women?
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“Tell us what you want, don't make us "think" we are throwing down the best moves.”
— terminalsausage, Men of Reddit, what is your sex tip for women?
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“If you're tired of having sex just moan, 'Don't stop'.”
— BecausePoopsIsFunny, Men of Reddit, what is your sex tip for women?
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“Beg for your partner to cum inside you... He will fucking short circuit and blow up.”
— rudedood, Men of Reddit, what is your sex tip for women?
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“When giving a handjob, remember, the penis is still an appendage of the human body. Gripping it like a lifeboat on the Titanic and yanking it like you're auditioning for a Game of Thrones torture scene is not pleasant. Also, don't take it personally when we try to delicately explain these types of things to you.”
— somepeoplewait, Men of Reddit, what is your sex tip for women?
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“Be less self conscious, we like doing it with the lights on. Also remember: there is no such thing as an ugly woman with a dick in her mouth.”
— Choosecharmander, Men of Reddit, what is your sex tip for women?
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“Be vocal, it helps make each other better.”
— Boston_, Men of Reddit, what is your sex tip for women?
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“If you're in a relationship with us and it's not a one time thing, don't fake it.

Don't make us think you enjoy something when you don't.

Don't try to build us up by lying to us about sex.

Don't have sex with me when you don't want it.

I've found out that I suck at sex in the past and actually knowing the honest truth has made me much better. I felt so humiliated that I was failing and my girlfriend was just putting up with it.

Learn how to calmly, assertively and positively guide your partner to find what makes you happy. It's a crucial life skill. Don't be afraid to ask for what you want.”
— 0asq, Men of Reddit, what is your sex tip for women?
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“— When giving a blowjob, and you sense that he's really liking it, keep going with that method. If you decide to switch it up it can bring him back to the beginning.

— If you're gonna do the leg wrap, do it around the stomach, not the hips. That can create resistance and make him tired. (think of running in sand)

— If you're doing missionary and you're hands are free, shoulder massages and head scratches. Oooooooh Jesus!

—Don't be afraid to play with yourself if you want. Its not going to bother us. And the level of comfort is kind of hot.”
— Im_not_a_doctor__but, Men of Reddit, what is your sex tip for women?
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“Step 1. Masturbate frequently. At least until you become comfortable with your own body and figure out what you like.

Step 2. Don't be afraid to communicate that information with your partner. They aren't mind readers, and EVERY woman is different, so even if they are experienced you're going to get a lot of trial and error if you don't speak up.

Step 3 (advanced). Use the confidence you gained in step 1 with the communication you established in step 2 and really get into it.

Nothing in the world is sexier than a partner who is really IN to the moment. No sex move, no freaky fantasy, nothing.”
— jsreyn, Men of Reddit, what is your sex tip for women?
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“Don't worry about how you look, be proud of how you look and show it off, that'll make you even hotter.

I'm shoving a hard dick into you, do you really think I'd do that if I wasn't pleased with what I see?”
— ElMachoGrande, Men of Reddit, what is your sex tip for women?
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“Be open to lube. It shouldn't be an insult to ask to use it.”
— JackthaKippa, Men of Reddit, what is your sex tip for women?
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“Enthusiasm. You don't need to be a pornstar, but it's not fun having sex with a wet blanket. Make it seem like it's something you both want, not like it's a chore for you.”
— reammachine, Men of Reddit, what is your sex tip for women?
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“Taking your birth control pill in front of your man is seductive.”
— tivofanatico, Men of Reddit, what is your sex tip for women?
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“Communicate. We know how to jack it, not what specifically works for you. And guess what. We want to know.”
— Mariodroepie, Men of Reddit, what is your sex tip for women?
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“Be vocal about any kinks you have. If the guy likes you, he'll likely be into your kinks. And if you like him, help him figure out how you like it. It'll bring you closer sexually and emotionally.”
— tracydick, Men of Reddit, what is your sex tip for women?
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