50 Crystal Clear Signs That He Wants To Spend Forever With You

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50 Crystal Clear Signs That He Wants To Spend Forever With You

He already acts like your husband.

Holly RiordanNovember 30, 2016

He wants to live together. When a man wants to share his space voluntarily and not only as a way to save money, he’s thinking toward the future. This can also happen if he suggests opening a bank account together or getting a pet.

— Sasha Brown, 11 Obvious Signs He Wants to Marry You

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Your friends think of him as their friend, and his buddies consider you their buddy, too.

— Meredith Bodgas, 6 Signs Your Relationship Is Heading Toward Marriage

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He may be more optimistic in the face of a pregnancy scare, or he may start to get more involved in the lives of his nieces and nephews. Maybe he’s even mentioned some boys or girls names he likes.

— Adriana, 10 Vital Signs That He Wants To Marry You

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He strives to make you happy. Whatever he does, he does it for you. All he wants to do is to make you happy. When you feel sad, he feels sad. When you are joyful, he is joyful.

— Julia Melko, 9 Signs He Wants to Marry You This Year

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He starts calling you by his last name. If he is already playfully joking about married life like this, there is absolutely no need to wonder. It’s coming.

— June, 20 Signs He’s Going to Propose

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When a guy wants to spend more time with married friends, it shows a slowing down from the single life and adopting a more settled lifestyle. If he wants you with him in those get-togethers, he is already (and probably sub-consciously) feeling out life being married to you.

— American Dating Society, 7 Signs He Wants To Marry You - American Dating Society

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Emotional vulnerability is a clear sign that he is head over heels madly in love. Tears, fears, and all the ups and downs, prove that he is secure enough with your relationship to let his guard down.

— Abby Ho, Does he want to put a ring on it?

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The sex is pretty damn great. Even though you’ve been together for a long time, you’re still excited to hop into bed. You agree to sex more than you turn it down, because there are still sparks whenever he touches you.

— Holly Riordan, 12 Signs Your Long-Term Relationship Is Going To Turn Into A Marriage

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He’s in a position to settle down – financially, geographically, professionally, and is ready for that next phase.

— Stacey Becker, 15 Signs He’s The Marrying Kind

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You may notice certain items have disappeared from their pad, like their college posters. And did they ditch that ugly brown chair for something a little nicer? It could be the start of major changes -- your partner is making room in their life for you, both physically and emotionally.

— The Knot, 9 Signs Your Partner Is About to Propose

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Does he invite you over every night? Has he talked about moving in together? Has he been spending an inordinate amount of time with you? Chances are he is smitten and thinking about the next step. If you’ve been together for a while, at least six months, chances are he’s thinking about it, even if he hasn’t mentioned it.

— Shannon Y., 10 Signs He Wants to Marry You: Put Him to the Test

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He likes staying in with you. He doesn’t mind skipping the crazy drinking night out with his buddies because he would rather spend time with you! You are his first priority and he chooses to leave his wild bachelor days behind.

— Egg Chill, 7 Signs He Wants to Marry You in Future

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A man ready for marriage might start suggesting that you, as a couple, should open up a joint bank account. He might ask you to go in on a car together or even start looking into actual houses to buy with you. Or, he is suddenly concerned with saving a lot of money and won’t explain why (it could be for a ring or a wedding!)

— Jasmine Spoors, 10 Signs He Wants to Marry You: Put Him to the Test

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His things become your things.

— K. Summers, 13 Signs He Wants to Marry You » True Love Words

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His parents know him better than anyone else. They can tell when he has a temporary girlfriend or one who is wife material. If his parents, or yours for that matter, have ever made a comment that seemed like they were talking about the two of you getting married there is a good chance he is going to marry you.

— Marie Bloom, 12 Signs He Wants To Marry You

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Your long-term goals align—kids, religion, moving, etc.

— Stacey Becker, 15 Signs He’s The Marrying Kind

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He could write your biography. He knows more about you than anyone else and it’s not just because the two of you spend so much time together. He actively takes an interest in what makes you tick and genuinely enjoys learning about you. That means your plans, aspirations, and your childhood.

— Ben, 14 Signs He Wants to Marry You

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He becomes your dad’s buddy and hangs out with him a lot.

— June, 20 Signs He’s Going to Propose

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If he takes you round to see his family all the time, you feel comfortable enough to go to his family’s house on your own, or your name is on all his family party invitations then you know your man and his family see you as part of their family.

— Sonya Schwartz, 34 Signs He Wants to Marry You - Her Aspiration

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While at a wedding together, it's more than just the usual eagerness for an open bar. They're not cracking jokes during the vow exchange -- instead, they're commenting on the couple's first-dance song choice and the meal selection. Take it as a sign that they're paying attention to all things wedding-related because marriage is on their mind.

— The Knot, 9 Signs Your Partner Is About to Propose

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He is making future plans. Guys don’t bring up things that they really would rather not talk about. But when a man brings up future plans, it is an indication that he would like to know your opinion on them, and your opinion does carry weight with him.

— Sasha Brown, 11 Obvious Signs He Wants to Marry You

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He sticks around during difficult times.

— Egg Chill, 7 Signs He Wants to Marry You in Future

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While many girls are trying to stop their boyfriends from looking at other girls, your partner notices no one but you. He never makes you feel uncomfortable, ashamed and jealous. You are the only one whom he notices among others. No one else matters.

— Julia Melko, 9 Signs He Wants to Marry You This Year

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You feel like he’s pushing you forward — not like he’s holding you back. He encourages you to go after your dreams. He makes you feel like the impossible is possible.

— Holly Riordan, 12 Signs Your Long-Term Relationship Is Going To Turn Into A Marriage

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You speak in whens, not ifs. If your guy starts sentences with, 'When we get married,' he's made up his mind: He wants you to be his wife. You may not get engaged the next day, or even the next year, but if your relationship stays on its current trajectory after a statement like that, your marriage will have that man in it.

— Meredith Bodgas, 6 Signs Your Relationship Is Heading Toward Marriage

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How he talks can be a big giveaway to how he is feeling. If he starts referring to the two of you as ‘we’ then is a great sign that he is thinking of the two of you as a solid couple and may have even started to see himself marrying you (and may have even begun to seriously think about it).

— American Dating Society, 7 Signs He Wants To Marry You - American Dating Society

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He already acts like your husband. At the end of the day, marriage is just a formality.

— Adriana, 10 Vital Signs That He Wants To Marry You

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You feel so loved, like you are perfect together, and like he loves you more than he has ever loved anyone. And you love him more than you have ever loved anyone.

— Marie Bloom, 12 Signs He Wants To Marry You

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Has he asked you your ring size? Does he ever talk about what your dream wedding would be? Where? Does he bring up any factors of a wedding at all? If so, you can almost be definitely sure he is getting ready to get down on one knee!

— Jasmine Spoors, 10 Signs He Wants to Marry You: Put Him to the Test

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He will want to meet the people who are important in your life, and he will make efforts to get along with them. Someone who is thinking about a future together understands that if he wants you in his life, the people you care about will probably be around for a while too.

— Ben, 14 Signs He Wants to Marry You

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He does not stare at other girls.

— K. Summers, 13 Signs He Wants to Marry You » True Love Words

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If your man is comfortable enough to open up to you about something that is bothering him or upsetting him then it is a sign that he trusts you and values your opinion and input. Having this level of closeness is a sure sign that he sees you as ‘the one’ and will lead to you walking down the aisle one day.

— Sonya Schwartz, 34 Signs He Wants to Marry You - Her Aspiration

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If he’s planning vacations with you and his family or closest friends, he’s taking you pretty seriously. Even if it’s just the two of you but you can tell he is really trying to impress you, get to know you and get closer, it’s a pretty big sign my friend.

— Shannon Y., 10 Signs He Wants to Marry You: Put Him to the Test

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You are invited to every occasion. You have become his plus one to all special events and family holidays. This means that he sees you playing a huge part in the big picture of his life. He wants to introduce you to his family and make you feel like you are a part of it.

— Sasha Brown, 11 Obvious Signs He Wants to Marry You

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He starts to like attending weddings.

— June, 20 Signs He’s Going to Propose

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If he confides in you about his work problems and celebrates his successes with you, this means that he both values your opinion and your influence in his life.

— Adriana, 10 Vital Signs That He Wants To Marry You

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You do an equal amount of work. Neither of you feel like you’re taking care of the lion’s share of the chores. You’re both working hard to keep the house clean and the rent paid.

— Holly Riordan, 12 Signs Your Long-Term Relationship Is Going To Turn Into A Marriage

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If he promises that you two are going to have dinner this evening and he follows through, that’s a great sign. On the other hand, if he consistently calls at the last minute to break plans, you’re more of a back up to him. A man who is doing this is not feeling committed to the woman in question, at all.

— Carly Smith, Signs Your Boyfriend is Serious and He Wants to Marry You

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You know each other’s histories. The skeletons are out of the closet, you’ve learned them, accepted them, and understand them. Any issues he’s had prior to your relationship won’t interfere with what you establish moving forward.

— Stacey Becker, 15 Signs He’s The Marrying Kind

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Have they been complimenting your great ability to accessorize? Snooping around in your jewelry box? Holding your hand, constantly? All kidding aside, when your favorite ring goes missing, you'll know for sure that they're trying to find a covert way to figure out your size.

— The Knot, 9 Signs Your Partner Is About to Propose

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He accepts you the way you are. You are unique in your own way. He does not strive to change anything about you.

— Julia Melko, 9 Signs He Wants to Marry You This Year

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He told you he wants to marry you.

— Egg Chill, 7 Signs He Wants to Marry You in Future

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Does your boyfriend hate sitting at the doctor’s office with you, waiting for your appointment? Does he absolutely dread going over to your sisters for lunch? Maybe he is always complaining about having to go to that pot-luck your neighbors throw? No matter what it is, once he realizes he wants you to be his to marry, he will suck it up and push through anything as long as it makes you happy.

— Jasmine Spoors, 10 Signs He Wants to Marry You: Put Him to the Test

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It's not weird to talk about your one-day wedding.

— Meredith Bodgas, 6 Signs Your Relationship Is Heading Toward Marriage

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You are a critical factor on his important life decisions.

— K. Summers, 13 Signs He Wants to Marry You » True Love Words

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You have talked about getting married. This is a huge sign. If you have talked about getting married, he has it in his mind that he thinks you are the one he is going to marry.

— Marie Bloom, 12 Signs He Wants To Marry You

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He encourages you to take a girls’ night out. The two of you have reached a level of maturity within your relationship that means you’re not following each other like puppy dogs.

— Ben, 14 Signs He Wants to Marry You

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It may sound a little silly but if your man is on time when he’s picking you up or meeting you somewhere, it means he is serious about you and definitely into you. He won’t leave you hanging around for half an hour waiting for him. If he is going to be late, he will call and tell you as he respects your feelings and will feel bad for letting you down.

— Sonya Schwartz, 34 Signs He Wants to Marry You - Her Aspiration

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If you notice he suddenly seems giddy again, getting nervous excited or appears to be acting like when you were both dating each other for the first time, there’s a pretty decent chance not only is he thinking about proposing, but he already has the engagement ring picked out and hidden away somewhere.

— American Dating Society, 7 Signs He Wants To Marry You - American Dating Society

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Has he introduced you to all of the people that are important to him? This includes best friends, coworkers, and family. If he’s not ashamed of your relationship and he’s making sure everyone knows you guys are an item, chances are you’ve got yourself a committed man that will be on his knee in not too long.

— Shannon Y., 10 Signs He Wants to Marry You: Put Him to the Test

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