“When your man is about to ejaculate just stop him or ask him to stop stroking.”— Shreya Suresh Kumar, india.com
“When you have a fixed pattern and routine to your sex, your man can pretty much predict your moves and thus he might come sooner than expected.”— Shreya Suresh Kumar, india.com
“For men, a great handjob is a delicious way to learn how to suspend arousal without climaxing. Develop your handjob techniques so you can bring him to the edge of orgasm and then suspend him there, prolonging his arousal and helping him learn how to stay hard longer. This will give you both more tim…”— Charlotte & Chris Pleasure Mechanics, thoughtcatalog.com
“Ask your lover to relax on the bed and then take your time lavishing his body with slow touch. Every time your lover tries to touch you, lightly slap their hand away and let them know that you are in control for the moment.”— Charlotte & Chris Pleasure Mechanics, thoughtcatalog.com
“Over stimulation or increased sensitivity during intercourse can be stopped by using desensitizing sprays specially formulated to prevent PE.”— Glamazon Tyomi, jadinbest.wordpress.com
“A massage before sex accompanied with conversation about the task at hand can help put his mind at ease. Whisper to him the things you would like to see happen when the erotic play does begin and speak positive affirmations to him that gives him the confidence he needs to satisfy you. Adding in arom…”— Glamazon Tyomi, jadinbest.wordpress.com
“If your man finished but you want to keep going, have him go down on you or engage in other foreplay while he takes a few minutes to get hard again. He’ll last way longer the second time and he certainly won’t mind getting to do you again.”— Ashley Uzer, galoremag.com
“If you’ve never heard of a ‘pee boner’ before, you’re not alone. Turns out just like girls should go pee afterwards (to prevent UTIs), guys should pee before to help them last longer.”— Ashley Uzer, galoremag.com
“Try to do it more often. When your man gets more accustomed to doing it, he’ll freak out less about how hot it is and contain himself at least for a few more minutes.”— Ashley Uzer, galoremag.com
“Deep breathing produces a relaxed state and helps him let go of any anxiety he may be feeling about being able to get it on. Both you and your partner can practice deep breathing together, before having sex or starting with the foreplay.”— Elizabeth Yetter, thetalko.com
“Have him make his thrusts shallow and don’t let him enter you all the way. Deep thrusts can make him reach the big O faster than short, shallow thrusts.”— Elizabeth Yetter, thetalko.com
“For some people, the booze kills the bedroom action. For men, this can be the inability to perform or maintain an erection. Alcohol is a depressant, not a stimulant. It might help him relax after a long day at work, but it might also be getting him too relaxed. Offer him a massage instead or promise…”— Elizabeth Yetter, thetalko.com
“Some guys have a trick where if you pull down gently on their balls, they won't come as quickly. This is probably one of those distraction moves; plus, ordinarily just before he’s about to ejaculate, his testicles will elevate.”— Carol Queen, yourtango.com
“Doggy style, standing in the shower or up against the wall, and all those on-your-feet moves may have a last-longer effect.”— Carol Queen, yourtango.com
“Try positions that involve slow and steady sex over fast and furious. Positions that are physically tricky can also help him last longer since he’ll have to devote some of his attention to his acrobatics and balancing act.”— Coleen Singer, yourtango.com
“Monitor your man’s rhythm and breathing as you are having sex. Once you notice a slight increase in his pace, ask him to stop any movement. You can then start asking him about things that are unrelated to sex just to make him stop thinking about sex. Keep the conversation going until you feel that h…”— Dave Martinez, youqueen.com
“Showing him that you understand the situation will help in reducing the pressure on his mind. Tell him, for example, that you enjoy sex with him whether or not you reach orgasm. This will ensure that that he keeps performing without any fear of disappointing you. And as he becomes more confident, he…”— Dave Martinez, youqueen.com
“A cock ring can be nice to look at, but it’s also functional. The pressure it applies to the shaft of the penis helps to slow down climaxing by decreasing blood flow.”— Jennifer Cullen, thestir.cafemom.com
“Encourage him to masturbate more frequently. Reaching orgasm more often on his own can help him delay his ejaculation when he's with you.”— Jennifer Cullen, thestir.cafemom.com