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“Don't ignore the opening of my vag. Yes, the clitoris and G-spot are good places to go, but there's a reason I find penetration sexy.”
— cpsami, Ladies, what are some sex tips you wish every guy knew? • /r/sex
Tagged: Sex, sex tips, clitoris, g-spot, Reddit Comps
“Thumb to the asshole while doggie style.”
— hawaiianrule, Ladies, what are some sex tips you wish every guy knew? • /r/sex
Tagged: Sex, sex tips, Thumb To The Asshole, Reddit Comps
“My ex liked it both ways. It was either I give her a lot of foreplay (slow movements with the tips of my fingers around her body, or my tongue moving around her very slowly, moving all around lightly), then give her oral, then get into the actual sex, she loved it a whole lot. It got her into it big time. But there's also the whole she just wanted to go at it. I know the one time I took her to the hospital for something and I was taking damn good care of her, supposedly me doing that turned her on big time and she just wanted to go at it. Never, for me in person, have I heard of doing something that nice (which I just assume is common in a relationship—to go to the hospital with them) could turn someone on that much.”
— JathTyki, Ladies, what are some sex tips you wish every guy knew? • /r/sex
Tagged: Sex, sex tips, foreplay, Female Orgasm, Reddit Comps
“First and foremost: I'm not actually made of China, regardless of this bone China skin tone. While tenderness has its moments, so does raw, animal fucking. I'm not going to shatter, I promise you.

There are a lot of factors you probably wouldn't even think of that affect a woman's natural lubrication, so don't take it personal if we need some help once in a while, especially if we've been busy for some time!

When using your mouth on her lady bits, use your whole mouth. Flicking your tongue like a snake is all right, but alternate it with long slow licks from a flattened tongue and tiny kisses and light sucking and even light nibbling (though I'd recommend sticking with the labia for that on most women). And don't be afraid to get your fingers involved.

You know in porn movies when the guy jams his fingers in the girl and goes to town all hard and fast like he's scrubbing the decks? It's a good bet most of those women aren't squealing and trying to wriggle away because it's so intensely pleasurable. Please, for the love of all that is good, don't take your cues from the average porn movies. The best way I've found for that is to run your fingers down over the clit, then inside, then back. Stimulating both areas is always going to lead to a positive reaction.

My ex could make me beg...and I mean sincerely beg. Starting with a light hand spanking, just enough to get the juices flowing, then the stroking that I described above, followed by a bit of tongue action until I was writhing. Then he'd kneel so he was right up against me, lubing his dick with my juices and sliding it between the lips in long slow strokes until I was pleading for him to give it to me. One hard thrust later, I was usually already having my first orgasm, which was almost always followed by a couple more before he had his own.

Don't limit yourself to just your dick! I can't even count the number of times gals I know have complained that their men seem to go dead from the waist up when they're on top. Kiss, bite, lick, talk. I will do the same.”
— sweetmercy, Ladies, what are some sex tips you wish every guy knew? • /r/sex
Tagged: Sex, sex tips, Female Orgasm, Reddit Comps
“Oral sex is amazing, but I usually have to give out the same pointers.

1: It's not a sandwich; think of it more like an ice cream.

2: It is much easier for me to cum if I am confident that he is not bored and is prepared to go on as long as necessary. Paranoia about elusive orgasms only makes them more elusive.

3: If you don't like doing it, GTFO.

4: Don't be afraid of a little ass play, too...that's 3 things at once, which can be difficult to coordinate, but it's worth it.”
— kittybot, Ladies, what are some sex tips you wish every guy knew? • /r/sex
Tagged: Sex, sex tips, foreplay, GTFO, Ass Play, Reddit, Reddit Comps
“1 Some females don't need to achieve orgasm to have a satisfying sexual experience. Sometimes getting me worked up is harder than other times. If it's not happening for me I will gladly make it worth YOUR while, just don't beat yourself up if I don't cum once in a while. Being naked and sweaty and panty with you is fun all on its own.

2 If you're in the mood for multiple sessions, the best time to initiate this is after I've already had an orgasm or two. It takes women a bit longer to cool off after having an orgasm, so while she's lying in bed next to you after you've made her cum and she's stroking your chest and being flirty and cute, that's the best time to initiate Round Two. This is also the best time to ask for a sandwich; usually I'm in too much of a sex-haze to decline.

3 If you aren't willing to go down on me, don't expect a blowjob.”
— allycatraz, Ladies, what are some sex tips you wish every guy knew? • /r/sex
Tagged: Sex, sex tips, Oral Sex, blowjobs, Female Orgasm
“Stop being a pussy and learn how to bite my nipples already….Don't chew on them, don't lightly scrape your teeth over them...just bite them.”
— RockmSockm, Ladies, what are some sex tips you wish every guy knew? • /r/sex
Tagged: Sex, sex tips, Biting Nipples
“When it comes to sex with me, don't listen to these other girls, talk to me! It's fine to get little tips to try with me or ask for a buddy's…advice, but I want in on it. For everything I like, I've heard another woman say she doesn't like it and vice verse.

Also, I need feedback. If you're not a talker in bed, that's fine, but appreciative sounds are good for when I'm doing a good job and some sort of signal or a simple 'watch the teeth!'…For fuck's sake, literally, I've seen you naked and my finger has been up your ass, we can talk about it and it will actually be less weird if we do.”
— sprcnt, Ladies, what are some sex tips you wish every guy knew? • /r/sex
Tagged: Sex, sex tips, Fingering Da Butt
“~Sex is mental before physical—turning us into your mothers during non-sexual moments really shuts off the sexual energy ability in the bedroom later on.

~No foreplay? No 'good' sex. Prime, prime, prime rule.

~Communicate. Clearly and often. Good talking = good sexing.

~Create a safe environment for the 'freaky' side to come out—don't push, pressure, or lose patience. All those things will stuff that little freaky-deaky further back into the dark corners of our libidos.

~Activities out of the bedroom (dates, walks, time together, etc.) fuel energy into sexy times. You get out what you put in!”
— Pannanana, Ladies, what are some sex tips you wish every guy knew? • /r/sex
Tagged: Sex, sex tips, foreplay, Communication
“If we aren't getting off after ten minutes of you thrusting away at us, we probably aren't going to be getting off via intercourse (so many of us can't). Either switch to oral or fucking YOU finish up. Quit trying to 'get me there.' I ain't gettin' there with whatever moves you are pulling on me. Sorry, pet peeve of mine, and I'll be damned if I say that out loud in bed in the midst of said thrusting.”
— Anonymous
Tagged: Sex, sex tips, Oral Sex, Intercourse
“FOREPLAY.

My husband is the best at this. By the time he's done I'm pulling him on top of me and begging for sex. This is particularly impressive since he hates oral, so he accomplishes this all with his hands.

Also setting a mood is quintessential. When things feel romantic, we feel romantic. For women, the physical arousal doesn't translate to mental arousal, and we need both for a good time.”
— katkinsk, Ladies, what are some sex tips you wish every guy knew? • /r/sex
Tagged: Sex, sex tips, foreplay
“Look me in the eyes whenever we are in a position that allows it.”
— Higgy24, Ladies, what are some sex tips you wish every guy knew? • /r/sex
Tagged: Sex, sex tips
“It's a clitoris, not a door knocker. Don't start smacking it around like you've seen your favorite porn star doing. Chances are she has built up a resistance to sensitivity that the common gal has not.”
— L_Mousse, Ladies, what are some sex tips you wish every guy knew? • /r/sex
Tagged: Sex, sex tips, clitoris, humor
“Be able to laugh, or at least don't get insecure when I do.

Don't give up when a position is awkward; talk it through. Transition to something else if it's really failing, but don't give up because of brief fumbling.

How would you feel if I completely avoided giving you oral sex or briefly tossed it in every couple of weeks? Great, I'm glad we're on the same page.

I can tell when you're more concerned with your orgasm than mine. Being a selfish partner is the easiest way to get the lifeless fish result.

If I tell you I'm turned on, I'm turned on. You can refuse to use lube because of your ego but I'm going to opt for not sexing you before I opt to have an irritated vagina.”
— emilybr, Ladies, what are some sex tips you wish every guy knew? • /r/sex
Tagged: Sex, Oral Sex, Laughter, Vagina, sex tips
“• When it comes to oral, my clitoris is where 85% of my partner's attention should be focused. The rest can be pleasurable but they have to really know what they're doing, or it's just 'pleasant.' (I wish I could give specifics for 'know what they're doing'—but alas, this is not my area of expertise.)
• The nipples aren't the only sensitive area on the breast, stroking the sides and undersides can feel amazing.
• You can vary the angle of penetration without changing position (I thought this was obvious—it seems it's not always.)
• I don't need to have an orgasm to enjoy sex. I still have a great time, and neither of us has failed in any way.
• I don't always want my partner to last forever, sometimes I just want to see him come.
• Most men don't pay a ton of attention to the sides of the waist, but this is super sensitive for me.”
— justheretosaythis, Ladies, what are some sex tips you wish every guy knew? • /r/sex
Tagged: Sex, sex tips, nipples, Oral Sex
“I understand the nature of the penis.

I have been with enough guys that I am not weighing my self-esteem on every dip and bend that happens over the sexual experience. I've had partners go soft early, middle and late game. I get that the erection that starts the party might not be the same one you finish with. I understand that what does it for you one day is not the same thing that spins your crank the next. Sometimes I have to work for it and I don't mind at all. If we're doing something complicated, time-consuming, and/or something that takes the focus off of you for a while I am not going to balk if your dick takes a time out. I am not offended.

If you second-guess that, if you get hung up on the fact that I am judging you (I'm not) and if you proceed to panic in an attempt to rally you will fail. More than just failing, you will make it near impossible for me to help you rally. If your mind is with me, the body will follow. It might take time, it might not work 100%, but I can jump that hurdle. What I can't do is bring your head back when you start self-destructing.

And I am really, really good at the rally. So long as I am not tied up or otherwise incapacitated, when it comes time to fuck I will be there for you. I will get you there. But I cannot get you there if you are all in your head about the failure. I don't think of it that way but I have been with some guys who essentially ban themselves from interesting sex because they can't deal emotionally with the fact that some things are going to pretty much necessitate that they lose their erections at one point or another.

If the rally fails, be it for reasons of alcohol, sleepiness, or some other cosmic cock block, it will still be okay. I will hit you up in the morning. We will reprise when you get home from work. Not all sex needs to end in an orgasm—male or female—but the option to pass is always voluntary. Unless you tell me otherwise I will be gunning for you in the very near future.

And ladies, this goes for you too. I've inherited many a man who has this hangup because some other woman treated a flagging penis as a game-over sign. The fault however it twofold because guys, rather than using that moment to educate their partner, will just roll with it like that's an acceptable POV. They too believe the porn myth that staying hard throughout marathon sex is easily accomplished. And guys don't want to talk to other guys about the reality of the situation.

Techniques, personal taste, and all the trimmings I can teach. But getting rid of someone's investment in their own masculinity is much more difficult and cuts off so many roads I would otherwise travel.”
— Exis007, Ladies, what are some sex tips you wish every guy knew? • /r/sex
Tagged: Sex, sex tips, penis
“Subtle touches. Small grabs.”
— ToastieCrumbs, Ladies, what are some sex tips you wish every guy knew? • /r/sex
Tagged: Sex, sex tips
“I love rough sex. Don't worry, I won't break.”
— GentleLady, Ladies, what are some sex tips you wish every guy knew? • /r/sex
Tagged: Sex, rough sex
“I HATE IT when boys finger by going in and out fast. If I wanted you to fuck me, I'd ask you to use your dick. INSTEAD swirl your finger in a circular motion—you hit places your dick never can, and my god, the results are phenomenal.”
— Smokie112, Ladies, what are some sex tips you wish every guy knew? • /r/sex
Tagged: Sex, sex tips, fingering
“My clit is NOT located on my pubic bone.”
— ellegirl82091, Ladies, what are some sex tips you wish every guy knew? • /r/sex
Tagged: Clit, sex tips, Pubic Bone, Sex

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