Annotation
Steve Almond once said that Cheryl's writing makes you more human than you were before, and I've found that to be true. "We are not allowed this," she says of grieving, mourning, and learning how to move on. "We're allowed to be deeply into basketball or Buddhism or *Star Trek* but we're not allowed to be deeply sad." And I think the problem is cyclical: we don't always know what to do with our pain, which would mean we certainly don't know how to bear witness to other people's. The scary unknown becomes taboo, and so we avoid it. The Love of My Life taught me what so much of Cheryl's writing has, which is that "you can put up a good fight and still lose." As she says in Tiny Beautiful Things – acceptance is a small, quiet room.
The Love of My Life
Explore more quotes:
About the author
This page was created by our editorial team. Each page is manually curated, researched, collected, and issued by our staff writers. Quotes contained on this page have been double checked for their citations, their accuracy and the impact it will have on our readers.
Kelly Peacock is an accomplished poet and social media expert based in Brooklyn, New York. Kelly has a Bachelor's degree in creative writing from Farieligh Dickinson University and has contributed to many literary and cultural publications. Kelly assists on a wide variety of quote inputting and social media functions for Quote Catalog. Visit her personal website here.
Kendra Syrdal is a writer, editor, partner, and senior publisher for The Thought & Expression Company. Over the last few years she has been personally responsible for writing, editing, and producing over 30+ million pageviews on Thought Catalog.