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Vanessa Marin Quotes

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“Be prepared for clean-up. As mentioned above, there may be some blood involved. There may also be lots of bodily fluids that are rapidly sliding their way out of your orifices. Have a box of Kleenex or a towel nearby.”
— Vanessa Marin, The Adult's Guide to Losing Your Virginity
Tagged: Virgins, cleaning, towels, tissues
“The testicles are often criminally neglected during oral. As soon as you feel comfortable with your basic technique, start paying some attention to his balls. You can do this with either your hand or your mouth.”
— Vanessa Marin, Everything You Need to Know to Give Earth-Shattering Blowjobs
Tagged: Sex, Head, Blow Jobs
“Try sitting cross-legged between his legs, while he lies flat on his back. Or have him drape his legs over the side of the bed, while you kneel on the floor between his feet.”
— Vanessa Marin, The 10 Best Hand Job Tips To Remember Next Time You Want To Take Him For A Ride
Tagged: Hand Job, Position, positioning
“Good lingerie is an extremely underrated self-esteem booster. You want to feel excited about your partner seeing what you have on under your clothes!”
— Vanessa Marin, 7 Ways To Feel Better Naked and Feel More Comfortable With Your Body in Bed, Because Life's Too Short To Be Insecure
Tagged: Feel Good Naked, lingerie, Underwear
“Sitting in a chair. This is another position that can be a good alternative to doggy-style. You still get the rear entry, but since you’re in charge of the pace and depth, he can’t get carried away.”
— Vanessa Marin, The 7 Best Sex Positions To Help Him Last Longer in Bed, Because Really, Can You Blame Him?
Tagged: Last Longer In Bed, sex positions, doggy style
“Try moving your tongue around on the underside of his penis while you do your basic up-and-down maneuver.”
— Vanessa Marin, Everything You Need to Know to Give Earth-Shattering Blowjobs
Tagged: Body Parts, blowjob, penis, Sex, Oral Sex, blowjobs, technique, How To, fellatio, After Hours, Lifehacker
“There are also some great new sex toys that can make the distance not seem like such a big factor. They're Bluetooth-enabled, which means you can use them even when you're separated.”
— Vanessa Marin, 12 Ways To Keep Your Long Distance Relationship Happy
Tagged: Long Distance, sex toys, electronics
“I want to encourage you not to think about technique too much as you’re kissing. Try to get out of your head and stop analyzing what you’re doing in the moment.”
— Vanessa Marin, How To Kiss Someone Well, In 8 Tongue-Tying Steps
Tagged: Kissing, kiss, Thinking, live in the moment
“Do the basic stroke with your hand and mouth, but turn your wrist back and forth as you move up and down.”
— Vanessa Marin, Everything You Need to Know to Give Earth-Shattering Blowjobs
Tagged: Blow Jobs, Sex, Head
“Engaging in cunnilingus means letting someone get up close and personal with your business.”
— Vanessa Marin, How to Ask Your Partner for Oral Sex
Tagged: oral, Oral Sex, Sex, sexuality
“Be sure to pee afterwards! Bacteria can get pushed into your urethra during any sort of sexual contact. You do not want to celebrate losing your virginity with a nasty UTI.”
— Vanessa Marin, The Adult's Guide to Losing Your Virginity
Tagged: Virgins, Pee, bathroom, Bacteria, UTI
“Start by exploring the idea of hooking up with another woman using your imagination. This may sound like an overly simplistic piece of advice, but it can be quite useful.”
— Vanessa Marin, How To Experiment With Another Girl: Tips For Exploring Bi-Curiosity For the First Time
Tagged: Lesbian, Fantasies, masturbation
“Gently slap his penis on your tongue. This is a good move to try if your jaw needs a little break.”
— Vanessa Marin, Everything You Need to Know to Give Earth-Shattering Blowjobs
Tagged: Body Parts, blowjob, penis
“Let me be real with you: your first time is probably going to be short (if there’s a penis involved), a little awkward, and not particularly fantastic. It will feel like there are an awful lot of limbs involved and no good place to put any of them.”
— Vanessa Marin, The Adult's Guide to Losing Your Virginity
Tagged: Virgins, short, penis, confusing
“If intercourse is proving to be too difficult for you, you can try taking it off the table for casual hook-ups. You can still have a ton of fun without having intercourse. You may find it easier to stay emotionally detached if you stick with less intimate activities.”
— Vanessa Marin, Can You Have Casual Sex Without Feelings? 9 Ways To Keep It No-Strings When You Tend To Get Attached
Tagged: Casual Sex, Intercourse, Making Out, Intimacy
“If you’ve never had an orgasm before, you may find it easier to have your first one with a vibrator. If you’re regularly able to orgasm in other ways, you may find your orgasms to be much more intense when they’re coming from a vibrator.”
— Vanessa Marin, A Newcomers Guide to Masturbating with a Vibrator
Tagged: vibrator, orgasm, masturbation, Sex, sex toys, Vibrators, shopping guide, orgasm, masturbation, Health, After Hours, Lifehacker
“One of the best investments you can make is a cheap dimmer switch and soft light bulbs, which are much more flattering than your typical harsh overhead lighting. Or you can buy a small bedside lamp or candles. Don’t forget to put on music that makes you feel confident and sexy.”
— Vanessa Marin, 7 Ways To Feel Better Naked and Feel More Comfortable With Your Body in Bed, Because Life's Too Short To Be Insecure
Tagged: Feel Good Naked, lights, Lighting, candles
“It’s so hot to imagine you tying me up.”
— Vanessa Marin, 50 Example Sexting Ideas You Can Use Right Now
Tagged: sexting, dirty talk, bondage, Sexting Examples For Him, Sexting Examples For Him
“In general, most women masturbate by stimulating their clitorises. Research has found that women are most likely to reach orgasm by stroking diagonally across the clitoris. Women usually need a fair amount of time to warm up, and require repetitive, consistent stimulation to climax.”
— Vanessa Marin, How To Masturbate, Female Style: 8 Steps To Having Orgasms (Without a Vibrator)
Tagged: masturbation, clitoris, stimulation
“Tap your clitoris with one or two fingers.”
— Vanessa Marin, How To Masturbate, Female Style: 8 Steps To Having Orgasms(Without a Vibrator)
Tagged: masturbation, clitoris, tapping, fingers
“I suggest using your vibrator in conjunction with lube, which will help your toy glide gently across your clitoris instead of tugging at it. If you have a silicone toy, you want to avoid silicone lubes, which can break down your new purchase.”
— Vanessa Marin, A Newcomers Guide to Masturbating with a Vibrator
Tagged: vibrator, lube, silicone
“Finding your third wheel is truly one of the hardest parts of having a threesome. Dan Savage calls them ‘unicorns’ because it’s so rare to find a person who: a) you are both attracted to, b) is attracted to both of you in return, c) is willing to sleep you no strings attached, and d) is sane enough to not wreak havoc on your relationship. It’s a tall order!”
— Vanessa Marin, 6 Tips For Having a Threesome Without Ruining Your Relationship in The Process
Tagged: threesome, Sex, Love, Relationships, couple
“Use more pressure. A lot of women don’t realize just how sturdy the male penis is. They tend to treat it daintily, as if it might break off in their hands. It should come as no surprise that this makes for a pretty boring hand job! Instead, grip the penis firmly in your hand, and keep a tight hold as you move your fist up and down his shaft.”
— Vanessa Marin, The 10 Best Hand Job Tips To Remember Next Time You Want To Take Him For A Ride
Tagged: Hand Job, pressure, Grip, penis
“You don’t have to spill your entire story to your hook-up partner, but if you want to go further than just a little making out, you may want to consider sharing that it’s your first time with a woman. Whatever you decide, be respectful and kind to the gal you’re messing around with. Don’t make her feel like a subject in a lab experiment.”
— Vanessa Marin, How To Experiment With Another Girl: Tips For Exploring Bi-Curiosity For the First Time
Tagged: Lesbian, Honesty, hookups
“Right from the get-go, tell your sexual partners that you’re only interested in casual sex and have no desire to be in a relationship. If applicable, make it clear that you’re dating multiple people at the same time. The more up-front you are on what you’re looking for and available for, the easier it will be to protect your heart.”
— Vanessa Marin, Can You Have Casual Sex Without Feelings? 9 Ways To Keep It No-Strings When You Tend To Get Attached
Tagged: Casual Sex, Honesty, Truth
“As you’re having sex, look at what your partner is doing to you, and narrate all of the action to yourself. For example, ‘he’s using his tongue to trace circles around my clitoris. Now he’s flicking my clitoris with the tip of his tongue.’ This suggestion might sound kind of silly, but it can be extremely hot in practice because it helps you soak up every aspect of the stimulation.”
— Vanessa Marin, Can't Orgasm During Sex? 7 Ways To Let Go And Let Your Partner Pleasure You
Tagged: orgasm, dirty talk, Sexy Thoughts
“If you feel really shy about experimenting with your partner, you can get a better sense of the movements by practicing on your own. Cowgirl is all about how you move your hips. Get on your knees on your bed and stuff some pillows between your legs. Try moving your hips around in a few different ways. You’re going to feel a little silly, but go with it!”
— Vanessa Marin, 6 Tips For Girl On Top, AKA The Sex Position For Grown-Ass Women
Tagged: woman on top, practice, experiment
“Most of the men I’ve talked to have said that too much teasing and tickling in the crotch region feels uncomfortable. Spending lots of time kissing is great, but when you’re ready to give a hand job, my recommendation is to jump right into it. Wrap your hand around the shaft without wasting any time. Do a few languid up and down strokes to get him going.”
— Vanessa Marin, The 10 Best Hand Job Tips To Remember Next Time You Want To Take Him For A Ride
Tagged: Hand Job, teasing, Shaft
“Take their penis or strap-on in your hand and help guide it into you. A little lube can help them slide in easier, especially if you’re feeling nervous. Lower all the way onto them. Then, slowly start rocking your hips back and forth in the direction of their head. Keep your pelvis in contact with theirs at first (remember, no bouncing unless you want to!). Then try grinding your hips in slow circles. Experiment with clockwise and counterclockwise movements.”
— Vanessa Marin, 6 Tips For Girl On Top, AKA The Sex Position For Grown-Ass Women
Tagged: woman on top, experiment, lube
“A lot of women feel so self conscious that criticize or make excuses for their bodies before even taking their clothes off. Please don’t do this! Don’t beat yourself up in front of your partners. Don’t point out your flaws. Don’t make self-deprecating ‘jokes’ about your body. It’s unnecessary, it’s cruel, and it draws attention to things your partner probably wouldn’t have noticed on his or her own!”
— Vanessa Marin, 7 Ways To Feel Better Naked and Feel More Comfortable With Your Body in Bed, Because Life's Too Short To Be Insecure
Tagged: Feel Good Naked, self-conscious, Criticism
“Sideways Straddle. This is a somewhat complicated position to get into, but it’s well worth the effort! You may want to practice fully clothed to get a sense of where all of your limbs go before attempting it naked. Have him lie on his back with both of his feet flat on the ground. Crouch over him, with one of your legs between his legs, and the other leg on his side. Gently lower yourself to your knees, and use your hand to guide his penis inside of you.”
— Vanessa Marin, Vanessa Marin, The 5 Best Sex Positions For Female Orgasm, Because There Is Nothing Wrong With You
Tagged: Best Sex Positions, straddling, Sex
“Women masturbate in a lot of different ways, but a lot of my clients have found it useful to get a sense of what the process tends to entail. In general, most women masturbate by stimulating their clitorises. Research has found that women are most likely to reach orgasm by stroking diagonally across the clitoris. Women usually need a fair amount of time to warm up, and require repetitive, consistent stimulation to climax. On average, women take about 20 minutes to orgasm.”
— Vanessa Marin, Vanessa Marin, How To Masturbate, Female Style: 8 Steps To Having Orgasms (Without a Vibrator)
Tagged: how to masturbate, solo sex, female masturbation, orgasms, Sex
“One of the reasons so many women freak out about cowgirl is because of the ways it’s filmed in porn. You always see porn stars flat on their feet, bouncing up and down at breakneck speed, and slamming down with a ferocious intensity. It looks intimidating, painful, and even a little terrifying!

In reality, cowgirl is a much more relaxed position. You typically use a smaller range of motion, move slower, and grind more than bounce. Don’t let porn keep you from trying it out.”
— Vanessa Marin, 6 Tips For Girl On Top, AKA The Sex Position For Grown-Ass Women
Tagged: woman on top, Porn, relax
“The best place to start is by stroking across your clitoris in a couple of different patterns (lube can make this feel even better!). Try diagonally, in a figure-eight, in a circle, up and down, and side to side. Each time you try a particular stroke, ask yourself, ‘does this feel good?’ The only ‘rights’ and ‘wrongs’ when it comes to masturbation are whether something feels pleasurable for you or not.”
— Vanessa Marin, A Woman's Guide to Learning to Love Masturbation
Tagged: how to masturbate, solo sex, Sex, orgasms, female masturbation
“If you’ve experienced sexual abuse or trauma of any kind, you may find it hard to reach orgasm during sex. Even if you rationally understand that your boyfriend would never hurt you, your body may not be fully able to relax when you’re being intimate.

One technique to help yourself feel more at ease is reminding yourself in the moment that you’re being intimate with your boyfriend. Say his name to yourself. Looking him in the eyes can also be helpful. Of course your brain knows that it’s him, but this exercise can help the more subconscious parts of your psyche start to relax.”
— Vanessa Marin, Can't Orgasm During Sex? 7 Ways To Let Go And Let Your Partner Pleasure You
Tagged: orgasm, Sexual Abuse, Lock Eyes
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