Seeds Planted In Concrete

33 Bianca Sparacino Quotes To Make You Feel Loved And Understood (Even On Your Darkest Days)

Trust that some of the best days of your life haven't even happened yet. 
Lauren Jarvis-Gibson
August 25, 2016
“Though we may be sober now, we will never be clean.”
— Bianca Sparacino, We love certain people like addictions
Tagged: Weight, Moving On, History Is A Nightmare, 107 Of The Greatest Single Sentences In Literature, Perfect Sentences
“When the time is right, you are going to fall in love with someone who will appreciate everything you stand for, who will compliment you in ways you never imagined. When the time is right, the love you have always been worthy of will flower within your life, and you will finally, finally, understand why you had to wait so long.”
— Bianca Sparacino, Fall In Love With Someone Who Makes It Impossible To Love Anyone Else
Tagged: Falling In Love
“There may come a day when they fall out of love with you. Do not let this be the day you fall out of love with you. How long they choose to stay will never be your decision, but how you choose to rise is.”
— Bianca Sparacino, Seeds Planted in Concrete
Tagged: Your Value, Growth, You Will Grow
“Nothing truly beautiful ever asks for attention, it just naturally exists, as it is, in confidence and boldness.”
— Bianca Sparacino, Seeds Planted in Concrete
Tagged: Attention, How To Shine, Just Be You, Mottos
“You ruin your life by desensitizing yourself. We are all afraid to say too much, to feel too deeply, to let people know what they mean to us. Caring is not synonymous with crazy. Expressing to someone how special they are to you will make you vulnerable. There is no denying that. However, that is nothing to be ashamed of. There is something breathtakingly beautiful in the moments of smaller magic that occur when you strip down and are honest with those who are important to you. Let that girl know that she inspires you. Tell your mother you love her in front of your friends. Express, express, express. Open yourself up, do not harden yourself to the world, and be bold in who, and how, you love. There is courage in that.”
— Bianca Sparacino, Seeds Planted in Concrete
Tagged: Courage, Express Yourself, Magic, Express, Writing, Open Up
“You ruin your life by tolerating it. At the end of the day you should be excited to be alive. When you settle for anything less than what you innately desire, you destroy the possibility that lives inside of you, and in that way you cheat both yourself and the world of your potential.”
— Bianca Sparacino, How To Ruin Your Life (Without Even Noticing That You Are)
Tagged: Life, Happiness, Reality, Inspirational, Self-improvement, Living Fully, Growing
“expose your heartbeat and you’ll feel the heat from the stars as they course through your body and unstitch your scars and open you up to the strangers whose potential you’ve thrown into surrender this whole time. You’ll remember how it felt to feel alive, how it felt to feel full and thrive on something non material. When was the last time someone touched a part of you? Other than your body, other than your excess, other than your need to impress? When was the last time you were moved? To the point of tears, where you shook from the compassion and felt a different kind of fear, a fear of the idea that there were people out there who might never feel that?”
— Bianca Sparacino, Planting Seeds In Concrete
Tagged: Bianca Sparacino, Beautiful, Nature, Love
“Trust that some of the best days of your life haven’t even happened yet. There are going to be parties that leave you dancing until 6am, spontaneous adventures that teach you more than you ever learned in a classroom. There are going to be nights that will stay burned beneath your eyelids, memories that dance underneath your skin. Life is going to exceed your expectations, it is going to astonish you with its timing.

Remember — you have not felt it all.
The world still has so much left for you”
— Bianca Sparacino, Some Of The Best Days Of Your Life Haven’t Happened Yet
Tagged: Bianca Sparacino, Life, Love, Memories
“See, sometimes courage isn’t climbing Mount Everest or changing the world. Sometimes your mountain to climb is made up of weekdays and months, made up of pushing yourself forward even when you want to nestle into the past. Sometimes changing the world means changing your world, as gradually as you need to, as gently as you heal, because sometimes courage isn’t made up of war, and bloodshed; sometimes courage isn’t made of combat. Sometimes courage is a quiet fight, a dim softness within you, that flickers even on your darkest days, and reminds you that you are strong, that you are growing — that there is hope.”
— Bianca Sparacino, Congrats On Waking Up Today, For Courage Is In The Little Things
Tagged: Bianca Sparacino, Life, Hard days, Hope
“Imagine how different the world would be if from the rooftops of our very own apartments, if from the crowd filled city streets, we yelled our love for one another rather than our hate. Always remember that human heart is approximately the size of two hands clasped together. There is no coincidence in that.”
— Bianca Sparacino, Imagine
Tagged: Be Nice
“There are going to be people who cannot contain all of the love you are capable of giving them within their chests. They will fumble with the enormity of your affection; they will try to cleave at the heart of you, collapse you until you fit into the shapes and the sizes of their needs. They will tell you that you are too much — too intense, too soft, and you must walk away. You must remind yourself that when you do not fit into the contours of their arms, it is not because you are too big, too free, too liberated, it is because they simply were never meant to hold you at all.”
— Bianca Sparacino, You Deserve The Love You Keep Trying To Give Everyone Else
Tagged: Girls Who Feel Too Much
“Your past may have built you, but it never reduced you.”
— Bianca Sparacino, I’m So Afraid That I’m Unworthy Of Your Love
Tagged: Positive Thoughts, Past, The Future Is Open, Unsplash + QC
“When they come back, everything you had ever felt for them will come rushing into your bloodstream again. When they come back, you will breathe in their name like an old memory, it will rest softly on your lips like it had never left. When they come back, the laughter will be the same. The touch. The hope.”
— Bianca Sparacino, If They Come Back, Do Not Let Them Break Your Heart Twice
Tagged: Second Chances, Coming Back To You, When They Come Back, Hope, Memories, Relationships, Laughter, Touch
“With you, I learned that sometimes the best way to love someone, was to simply love yourself more — to simply walk away, to save yourself the pain of trying to patch and sew up something that was never going to be fixed; something that was beyond repair.”
— Bianca Sparacino, Sometimes Loving Someone Does Not Always Mean That You Should Stay With Them
Tagged: Leaving, Moving On, Walking Away, Letting Go
“We get caught up in what our friends are liking, who our significant others are following, and at the end of the day this not only ruins our lives, but it also ruins us. It creates within us this need to feel important, and in many cases we often put others down to achieve that.”
— Bianca Sparacino, How To Ruin Your Life (Without Even Noticing That You Are)
Tagged: comparison
“The truth of it all is that you may not know what you deserve right this moment, and that is okay. You will grow to figure it out. Until then, just promise me that you will believe with merciless conviction, with ruthless certainty, that you do not deserve to be unhappy. Promise me you will believe that you mean something.”
— Bianca Sparacino, Seeds Planted in Concrete
Tagged: What You Deserve, Life, Promise Me
“Do not chase another human being. Instead, chase your curiosity. Chase your development and your goals. Chase your passion. Strive to work for something bigger than yourself, and instead of trying to convince someone that you fit within their world, strive to build your own.”
— Bianca Sparacino, Seeds Planted in Concrete
Tagged: Do Not Chase, Dating, Finding the Love of Your Life, Inspirational
“Remember, you are not a vessel of sadness; you are not a lost cause.”
— Bianca Sparacino, For The Girls With Broken Hearts, Don’t Be Afraid To Love Again
Tagged: Bianca Sparacino
“Before you tell yourself that baggage is a bother, that trying stunts your growth, remember that heartbreak is the most important thing that will happen to you. It will hang like concrete in your bones, it will pile up within your words, but it will never weaken you, it will never cripple your love, for your heart needs weight to rebuild itself, your heart needs weight to grow.”
— Bianca Sparacino, If You Keep Protecting Your Heart It Is Never Going To Grow
Tagged: Bianca Sparacino
“With you, I learned that sometimes the best way to love someone, was to simply love yourself more — to simply walk away, to save yourself the pain of trying to patch and sew up something that was never going to be fixed; something that was beyond repair. With you, I learned that sometimes loving someone did not always mean that you were going to have a future with them, did not always mean that you should stay.”
— Bianca Sparacino, Sometimes Loving Someone Does Not Always Mean That You Should Stay With Them
Tagged: Bianca Sparacino
“The people in your life who truly matter will never admonish you for changing. Instead, they will build you up; they will inspire and motivate you. They will understand that you are striving to be more for yourself, and they will admire you for that; because at the end of the day, change is something you should never be ashamed of. You don’t owe anyone an apology for changing. You don’t owe anyone an apology for being different than you were a year ago, for wanting new things.”
— Bianca Sparacino, You Are Allowed To Change
Tagged: Bianca Sparacino, Friendship
“I promise you will bloom again. I promise you will flourish. Trust me when I say that wildflowers grow in the oddest of places, between the cracks of memories, they gather strength within scar tissue, stretching toward the light, saying ‘We deserve to be here, no matter where we have come from.’ Now it’s your turn.”
— Bianca Sparacino, It's Time To Fall Back In Love With Yourself
Tagged: Bianca Sparacino, Healing, Recovery
“So, if you’re the girl who is always there for others, know that your heart is rare. Know that you hold within you an ability to calm storms in people, a beautiful gift that has relieved sore eyes and hurt minds. Know that you give people hope, that you inspire them by acknowledging the pieces of them most ignore, that you make people feel wanted, that you make people feel like they have purpose.”
— Bianca Sparacino, Sometimes The Girl Who Is Always There For Everyone Else, Needs Someone There For Her
Tagged: Bianca Sparacino
“Remind yourself, that you don’t always have to be strong, that you don’t always have to be the fixer. Remind yourself that you can be human, that you can ask for help; that you don’t always have to be the one to save yourself.”
— Bianca Sparacino, Sometimes The Girl Who Is Always There For Everyone Else, Needs Someone There For Her
Tagged: Bianca Sparacino
“Trust that some of the best days of your life haven’t even happened yet. There are going to be parties that leave you dancing until 6am, spontaneous adventures that teach you more than you ever learned in a classroom. There are going to be nights that will stay burned beneath your eyelids, memories that dance underneath your skin. Life is going to exceed your expectations, it is going to astonish you with its timing.

Remember — you have not felt it all.
The world still has so much left for you…”
— Bianca Sparacino, Some Of The Best Days Of Your Life Haven’t Happened Yet
Tagged: Bianca Sparacino
“Yes, happiness leaves; but when it comes back you are always stronger, for you have understood what it means to make it out of the wreckage, you have learned how to survive in the dark.”
— Bianca Sparacino, Happiness Leaves (But It Always Comes Back)
Tagged: Bianca Sparacino
“You are good enough because you house within yourself a heart that beats deeply and feels without question. You are good enough because that beating heart gives you the ability to love someone in the most profound way. That is all that matters. Your past does not matter, your faults do not matter – the only thing that matters is that you have a heart.”
— Bianca Sparacino, Here's The Real Reason You're Good Enough
Tagged: Bianca Sparacino
“Your heart is stronger than your mistakes, and it is stronger than your negativity. Your heart is strong. It is resilient. It will never, ever change, or spoil, or lose its ability to give all of itself to someone. It is capable of love, no matter what, and that is all that someone will see within you – that is all that someone will fall in love in.”
— Bianca Sparacino, Here's The Real Reason You're Good Enough
Tagged: Bianca Sparacino
“Embrace the entropy in life. You were bred from storms, that is why you are primarily water. You were created from white hot heat and from atoms that will never stop vibrating and shaking within you, so do not vilify your heart when it quakes, do not condemn your life when it surges and when it falls. Embrace its pulse, and the randomness of it all, embrace its disorder.

Life is a mess — yes, but my god, is it ever a beautiful one.”
— Bianca Sparacino, Life May Be Messy, But It's Perfect
Tagged: Bianca Sparacino
“Promise yourself that you will choose to love yourself every single day, whether or not you sleep beside another human being. Contrary to popular belief, you become whole when you start to love every inch of your body, every aspect of your character, and every feature of your mind, not when you find home in someone else’s arms.”
— Bianca Sparacino, Dying Is Certain, Living Is Not.
Tagged: Bianca Sparacino