How to stop the cuddle sesh? Or at least just tease the shit out of him if that’s more your style.. the BUTT STRETCH. It’s not really so much of a stretch. More like a push. Very simple: Your butt, his man place, and pressure. It’s definitely the least subtle thing ever, but in my head when I’m doing it I think he really thinks I’m ‘accidentally’ feeling around for a boner with my ass.