“We have to process the things that happen in our lives, and sometimes we do that by justifying them as 'meant to be.' We can map out the moments that led to any significant life event, but when it comes to making decisions about the future, that way of thinking becomes a handicap. 

We’re so used to patterns and miracles and destiny and fate that we stop giving ourselves any credit at all.

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