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40 Reasons Why Men Will Always Love Bitches

We have to stop thinking of bitch as a bad thing. 
Kirsten Corley
August 11, 2016
“Truly powerful people don’t explain why they want respect. They simply don’t engage someone who doesn’t give it to them.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches
Tagged: Power, Respect, Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Confidence
“Alone also means available for someone outstanding.”
— Greg Behrendt, It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken: The Smart Girl's Break-Up Buddy
Tagged: Being Single, Single, Breakups, Relationships
“But what I can do is paint you a picture of what you’ll never see when you’re with a guy who’s really into you: You’ll never see yourself staring maniacally at your phone, willing it to ring. You’ll never see you ruining an evening with friends because you’re calling for your messages every fifteen seconds. You’ll never see you hating yourself for calling him when you know you shouldn’t have. What you will see is you being treated so well that no phone antics will be necessary. You’ll be too busy being adored.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just not That Into You
Tagged: Almost Relationships, Almost Love, Failed Relationships, Pain
“Don’t be flattered that he misses you. He should miss you. You are deeply missable. However, he’s still the same person who just broke up with you. Remember, the only reason he can miss you is because he’s choosing, every day, not to be with you.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just not That Into You
Tagged: Almost Relationships, Lost Love, Almost Love
“Don’t spend your time on and give your heart to any guy who makes you wonder about anything related to his feelings for you.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just not That Into You
Tagged: Almost Relationships, Almost Love
“When it comes to men, deal with us as we are, not how you'd like us to be.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Dealing With Men, Dating Tips, Dating Secrets To Win Him Over, How To Get A Guy To Like You
“If the guy you’re dating doesn’t seem to be completely into you, or you feel the need to start ‘figuring him out,’ please consider the glorious thought that he might just not be that into you. And then free yourself to go find someone that is.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Figuring Him Out, Secrets To Dating, Finding The One, How To Get A Guy To Like You
“The more independent you are of him, the more interested he will be.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Tagged: Independence, How To Get A Guy To Like You, Dating Secrets To Win Him Over, Interested In You
“The nice girl makes the mistake of being available all the time...A dreamgirl, on the other hand, won't kill herself to impress anyone.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Tagged: Relationships, Nice Girls, Dream Girls, How To Get A Guy To Like You, Dating Secrets To Win Him Over
“When you nag, you become the problem, an he deals with it by turning you out, but when you don't nag, he deals with the problem.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Tagged: Relationships, Nice Girls, Dream Girls, How To Get A Guy To Like You, Dating Secrets To Win Him Over
“If you want to change the way others treat you, you should first change the way you treat yourself.”
— Elif Shafak, The Forty Rules of Love: A Novel of Rumi
Tagged: Self-Respect, Self-Love, Love Yourself
“Men will treat you the way you let them. There is no such thing as "deserving" respect; you get what you demand from people.. if you demand respect, he will either respect you or he won't associate with you. It really is that simple.”
— Tucker Max, I Hope They Serve Beer In Hell
Tagged: Why Men Love Bitches, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice, Self Respect
“I never understand why women think drama and bullshit are attractive to guys. They’re not. I’m going to be real clear about this, ladies, so pay attention: Prince Charming doesn't come to rescue cunty lunatics.”
— Tucker Max, I Hope They Serve Beer In Hell
Tagged: Why Men Love Bitches, Tucker Max, Relationships, Self Worth
“Let’s start with this statistic: You are delicious. Be brave, my sweet. I know you can get lonely. I know you can crave companionship and sex and love so badly that it physically hurts. But I truly believe that the only way you can find out that there’s something better out there is to first believe there’s something better out there. What other choice is there?”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Why Men Love Bitches, Self Worth, Relationships
“Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up. If a guy punches you he likes you. Never try to trim your own bangs and someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending. Every movie we see, Every story we're told implores us to wait for it, the third act twist, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule. But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell from the ones who want us and the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave. And maybe a happy ending doesn't include a guy, maybe... it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is... just... moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned phone calls, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment you never gave up hope.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just not That Into You
Tagged: Why Men Love Bitches, Relationships, Self Worth, Guy Advice
“Always be classy. Never be crazy.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Why Men Love Bitches, Guy Advice, Relationships
“I'm tired of seeing great women in bullshit relationships.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Guy Advice, Relationships, Why Men Love Bitches, Bullshit
“Remember always what you set out to get, and please don’t settle for less.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Guy Advice, Relationships, Settling, Don't Settle
“He doesn't need to be reminded you're great.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: Guy Advice, Relationship, Why Men Love Bitches
“There's a guy out there who will want to tell everyone that he is your boyfriend. Quit goofing around and go find him.”
— Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
Tagged: He's Just Not That Into You, Why Men Love Bitches, Guy Advice
“Anytime a woman competes with another woman she demeans herself.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Tagged: Guy Advice, Why Men Love Bitches, Relationship Advice
“He must feel that you choose to be with him, not that you need to be with him.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Tagged: Relationship Advice, Why Men Love Bitches, Guy Advice
“The most attractive quality of all is dignity.”
— Greg Behrendt, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Tagged: Why Men Love Bitches, Guy Advice, Relationships
“It is your attitude about yourself that a man will adopt.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl- A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Tagged: Why Men Love Bitches, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“Instead of working so hard to please him, work harder to please yourself…because ultimately, this is what will truly please him.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Tagged: Why Men Love Bitches, Relationships, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“If a man has to wait before he sleeps with a woman, he'll not only perceive her as more beautiful, he'll also take time to appreciate who she is.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Tagged: Why Men Love Bitches, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“The person who is least dependent on the outcome of the relationship will automatically draw the other person in.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Tagged: Relationship Advice, Guy Advice, Why Men Love Bitches
“It becomes a burden if you lean on him too much. He is only human, and he has his own problems. Show him that you'll be an equal partner, which means that you also have something to contribute.”
— Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Tagged: Why Men Love Bitches, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice